wow. this made me all reminisce-y..

I was 28 when I joined the dash site, and here I am at 41. I've met the gamut of people, and made some good friends and some who don't like me much.. meh. I've met lovers, brief boifriends, and a very LTR off of each of these sites. it's where I discovered my femme, and where I continue to learn and evolve:).

Holy crap! That really does put the length of time into perspective. I was 28/29 when I joined the dash, and now I am 42! Yowza!

i was 26 when i joined the dash site the year they developed it.....watched it evolve and i too have evolved.....I went away for awhile and came back...and then in 09 when the planet launched i joined here...

I am currently 42

I was 19 when I started posting on the dash site, and now I'm 30. :|

I was 37 when I started posting here and I'm still 37...

i've been on the planet since i think may i havent had a age issue...either that or i'm dense lol. i am one of the youngings but i love learning what the older ones have to offer you just keep learning until you teach what you've been taught :canadian:

I HAVE met u. U DON'T act like one. Well u didn't the nite I met u

I'm 24x2 however I act like I'm barely a teenager most the time and after work I think I'm 102

State of mind for me

i was 22 when i came out, 35 or 36 when i joined the site, and now i'm 46.

so much has changed with the site and ME! i Was a femme at first, but over the years i have evolved so much into the Athlete/Androgynous spectrum of life. Living, Loving, and Learning every moment of it!! :hangloose:

i've met some peeps, been involved with some peeps, yeah... life is good :D

So the average age for this site is between 40 and 49. That means if I am ever single again I will have to snag a younger butch. *wink*

I met Graham on a butch-femme chat list. I was 39 then. We've been together almost 13 years. Mmm, that makes me 52. My mind thinks I am still in my thirties or younger. My body says no way.

You pretty much took the words out of my mouth. The concept anyway.

70 and above? :D

Cheeky fekker :raspberry:

I was 19 when I joined the dash site. I felt really lost before I found it. I've laughed, cried and discovered who I am because of it. I've met some of the most amazing people over the years. Gotten my heart broken a time or two due to LDR's. I never thought when I was 19 that 13 years later I would still be on a b-f site. Oh I just wish I could go back in time and tell that 19 year old shy little girl, that it will all be okay and to stop being so fucking shy!

I was barely 23 when I joined the dash site. I'm 33 now. What a difference 10 years makes. I had only been out of the closet for a year and I knew very little about the butch/femme dynamic. I was just heart-broken over a breakup and Google'd "butch femme" and it popped up.

I met one of my closest friends on that site and a few others who would lead me through some of the most profound awakenings (and painful lessons) of my life. I don't regret any of it.

Although I've recently had a set-back due to a very difficult breakup, I feel like life began at 30 for me. So much makes more sense now. I can't explain it. It's like puzzle pieces locking together. I don't mind age at all so long as I can be healthy, happy, and "with it" for the duration. ;)