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Strappie 03-06-2010 04:39 PM

I started a Thread for SINGLES going to Little Rock... it's called

Single Road to Little Rock (I think) shit I'll have to go look for it again.. lol

You all should start posting in there if you are going to be joining us
for the big party in Little Rock....

Omg I can't tell you how fun these things are if you have never been.

Kenna 03-06-2010 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome (Post 61862)
Afternoon! It is a fabulous, clear day here and I am taking my pooch to the dog park. Hey, he's quite the babe magnet! need all the help I can get!
:frog:

Does your little buddy wear Tshirts??
http://pet.imageg.net/graphics/produ...-6024870dt.jpg

Strappie 03-06-2010 04:46 PM

Here we go... this is the link... Not sure if it will work.. I'm a dork when it comes to these things.....

SINGLE road to Little Rock 2010...

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...read.php?t=767

AtLast 03-06-2010 08:17 PM

Strappie is right about the Reunion! Good people, good times!

Gemme 03-06-2010 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome (Post 61986)
Strappie is right about the Reunion! Good people, good times!

I can't believe it's been FIVE YEARS since my last get together. :blink:

AtLast 03-06-2010 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 61992)
I can't believe it's been FIVE YEARS since my last get together. :blink:

Oh, Gemme! You are long overdue!! Jeepssakes!

Gemme 03-06-2010 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome (Post 62000)
Oh, Gemme! You are long overdue!! Jeepssakes!


I KNOW, riiiiight??? lol

Gentle Tiger 03-20-2010 07:50 PM

Stopping by to say hello. So...

Hello Everyone. I hope the weekend is going well for you.

bigbutchmistie 03-20-2010 07:57 PM

Hello everyone :) Hope you all are having a wonderful weekend :)

Hello Gentle Tiger

ruthie14 03-20-2010 09:04 PM

Rejoining the ranks... hello again..:sigh:

bigbutchmistie 03-20-2010 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 70662)
Rejoining the ranks... hello again..:sigh:

Awww Ruthie Im so sorry :( I truly am...

key 03-20-2010 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome (Post 61642)
So, dating just feels way different than before! LOL... must be that I'm old!!!

yeah, I hear that. I have yet to go on a date since my break up...god how many years ago...

Sometimes I worry that I enjoy being alone too much. Or at least enjoy it enough to not put THAT much energy into changing my status.

...or am I just scared...maybe bit of both.

Soft*Silver 03-20-2010 10:06 PM

My ex and I just ended our LDR...we remain the best of friends and he will always be a part of my life, and I his. There were just a few factors that mattered to change it from a romance to a friendship.


I am in no hurry to date. When I do, it will probably be local because I will not move again for a relationship. And at my age, which is 53, most of the people I would consider dating, have a home, a job, friends, family, etc invested in the area they are currently living in. I have moved three times for a relationship and three times the relationship did not work. I would not want to uproot someone and feel the blame for that if it did not work out. I have been there and its a pain to lose so much AND a relationship ontop of it.

I am wondering how others my age think they can resolve the migration of long distance dating...

Sunny 03-21-2010 02:02 AM

Nice to meet other singles out there
 
:sailing:

Hi Everyone,

I am currently single. I live in New Jersey in the Southern part of the state.
I like meeting new people and listening to their stories. I currently work in retail Management. Been in it for over 25 years. I love to laugh and usually will make myself laugh. I have a great imagination which comes in handy. LOL I wish I was going to the reunion it sounds like great fun. Sunny

Sunny 03-21-2010 02:09 AM

To Softness
 
You bring up a very good point about Long Distance Relationships. I really think that as you get older it is more difficult to pick up your life and move. I am amazed that you have done it so many times. Do you regret doing it? Sunny

ruthie14 03-21-2010 07:21 AM

Morning Singles.. Another beautiful day in NJ. Off to church,:praying: brunch :canoworms:and then playing pool with friends. :happyjump:

Have a wonderful Sunday!!:peacelove:

Ruthie

Cowboi 03-21-2010 07:31 AM

Good Morning singles girls and bois! Hope everyone has a fun filled day planned.

Soft*Silver 03-21-2010 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Sunny (Post 70765)
You bring up a very good point about Long Distance Relationships. I really think that as you get older it is more difficult to pick up your life and move. I am amazed that you have done it so many times. Do you regret doing it? Sunny


I dont regret giving love a chance. I dont even regret the choices of partners ... they were all wonderful in their own ways. Unfortunately they were also not a good choice for me, each in their own way. My bad. No one twisted my arm. I stand accountable for my part in the decision to live together. I made my choices they made theirs and I am sorry for the upheaval OUR choices did to each other. I have found that two really good people can end up in really bad relationships if they arent the right people for each other. What complicates things, is when you move everything you own across states and after the break up you have to re-establish yourself somewhere else. I moved back home, to Ohio, and am purchasing a house so I am feeling rooted again, but for awhile, especially with my health issues, I felt like I wasn't really settled and secured.

I have nothing against LDRs. I would do one again with the right person. But there would be no instant Uhaul at either of our doors. The older I get the more I am willing to satisy my needs first. Call me selfish, if you will. But when its over, its me I always have to sleep with and face in the morning. And me who has to comfort myself over a broken heart. I will not settle for less than what I want and I will not give up what should not be asked to be given up.

I am 53. I have had the benefit of dating some remarkable people in my life. I have been loved well, and at times, badly. But to be honest, with those bad ones, I was just at fault and loved badly too. Another reason why I am unwilling to settle. I end up behaving like I dont want to and becoming someone I dont like.

In the midst of this post, I went outside and planted my peas, weeded out the brown stalks leftover from winter and set out new soil for a new spring. This is what I believe in. No matter how many winters I will see, I believe and count on spring to come. And that is about all I have to say about love....for now...lol

Odarlin 03-21-2010 11:50 AM

Single. Love being single. Will stay single.
The idea of not being single anytime for the very extended future gives me a headache.:veggie:

Representing. :cheesy:

Have a beautiful day all you all!
:givingarose:
:happyjump:

Zimmeh 03-21-2010 04:10 PM

Good Afternoon Everyone,

Hope you all are having a wonderful day...I finished moving all of my stuff out of my old apartment in Orlando to my mom's second house while I am waiting to move into my new house on April 1st.

Have a good day,

Zimmy


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