It takes the right man/butch/etc. that you trust and respect enough to give it to. Sure, you might struggle no and then but when you find the right person you'll let go.

If you can't and hy/he needs work then step it up. You aint the one that needs the training. Tell em to step up the plate or get off the play field.

LOL I think I will stay out of here for a while. looks like someone is whipping out the femme handbook. gotta go LOL


:fishing: :missing:

Or as I like to say, "my way... or my other way" :raspberry:

I don't think what a lot of people understand is that we run the world because we are good at it, it furthers the relationship towards common, mutual goals, and well, because our partners are secure enough in themselves to let it be so.

I find that because we are strong and can make a "honeydo" list, some take issue with it being about power. I don't think it could be further from the truth. It doesn't take away from Jess's strength, Dominance or Topness. I believe that it allows hym less to worry with and reinforces hym. It certainly doesn't make hym a bottom or a boi.

Since Jess is spending the weekend with me in Richmond, here's a small weekend list...

Go to bank and get dollar bills for excursion to strip club
Put out

:dance2:

hot dayam.. everyone's a winner!!!!

Boy howdy!!!

I think the honey do lists are easier to navigate when there is a lil music involved:

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRwXM2M17pg"]YouTube- Eric Church Hell on the Heart[/ame]

Wolfwalker... this is for you and your inner redneck
 

... embrace it, brother. You're almost here... and I know ya'll are counting the hours...

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3nAIsPM468"]YouTube- Montgomery Gentry - Long Line of Losers [ HQ Video + Lyrics + Ringtone Download ][/ame]

He must have been peeking over my shoulder when he wrote this !

Using my manners
 

So, this weekend was not without some "Honey do " lists...

I am parking the car Friday night. Lot is across the street from restaurant. We are already late to meet another couple for our dinner date.

I park, get out of the car and walk around to meet Jess. No Jess.

Its 12 degrees (or pretty close to it) outside.

Me: "Honey?!?!?!? What are you DOING?"

Jess: "Trying to get my balls out of my bellybutton"

Me: "Would you PLEASE stop fucking with your dick before I freeze to death?!?! Thank you. Thank you very much."

(Think Kyra in The Closer)
:dance2::dance2:

I blame it on the potholes

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KE3vqBhRMhI&feature=related"]YouTube- Graham's Pothole Video[/ame]

OMG!!! I can tell it would be IMPOSSIBLE to keep a straight face around you and Jess at the Reunion!! You two would be AMAZING at Stand-up! It would be standing room only for tickets to see your show! I'm laughing my fat ass off here!!

Honey paint my toe nails? Please?

oh good lord ok come here, bring polish
:nerd:

resistance is futile.. you will be assimilated

HA!!!

He does get MAJOR points for knowing that its "polish"...

how many points does "nail junk" get?:byebye:

depends...

is the bathroom painted so you can put my nail junk back where it lives??

:dance2:

it will be.. with a little less :phonegab::phonegab::phonegab:

:sunglass::bolt:

Then put the computer down and go paint :P

can't I just put out?

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N24A6pAz4pw"]YouTube- David Lee Roth - Just A Gigolo[/ame]