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oh i love ruby she is so pretty, I wish I could meet her.
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I know how that is, I get that all the time, your not pretty enough, your to big, your to young, I say kiss my ass.
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Actually what I say is "Kiss my big, fat, fuzzy, lesbian a$$!" Well, now I say saggy instead of fat. But you get the idea. Princess, I don't understand what the heck they were expecting if you sent them accurate pics...some people are just plain wierd. :wtf: Equally annoying are the people who don't want overweight friends. Or the ones that do - so they feel better about themselves. My former employer actually felt threatened by my weight loss! She equates a person's value to their weight. If I saw a mutual acquaintance and mentioned it to her her first question was about their weight. This included a friend who was recovering from breast cancer. She's very wrapped up in herself. For example - I had lost over 60 lbs and she did not notice until someone brought it to her attention. Then she came to me and said "Someone told me you lost over 60 lbs. Is that true?" I stood up and she nearly fell over. Do you find that your weight makes you invisible to some people? |
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Upon review of my post that you responded to, I realize that I can be a terrible writer...my friend with cancer noticed and supported my weight loss. It was my former employer who was so self-absorbed that she didn't notice until it was brought to her attention. Believe me, she saw my weight. Then she chose to ignore me dismissing me as fat and unworthy. She will never change. Of course I got the last laugh. She paid nearly $2,000 to a nutritionist in an effort to lose 10 lbs. When I left that job last summer she had lost 7 lbs but gained 9. Whereas I, by that time, had lost over 100 lbs and am still losing having lost 130 so far. |
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I haven't seen anyone post in this thread in awhile, so I wanted to say hi to all of the beautiful BBW ladies who rawk our world :rose:
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This is where my attraction to femmes is geared ...to the plus size women ... hot, hot, hot, sexy and beautiful ... what an enormous turn on for me as long as it is not to the point of bringing on health problems.
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I've always liked BBW and I also noticed they have more confidents about themselfs than other woman do.
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Just linking up these two friendly threads :)
http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...read.php?t=418 (Big Girl Love) http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...859#post189859 (BBW) |
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*giving the thread a little bump*
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I'm responding to this hella late, as usual, but the bolded bit below (alliteration, hehehe) really speaks to me. I find that because of my weight I am often immediately placed in the 'friend zone' when meeting potential partners. I also feel like most people don't look at big people as "sexual people", like we're some sort of anatomically devoid dolls that don't think about or have sex, because that's too gross or something. It bugs me, a lot.
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Actually, from my experience, I haven't really had an issue for the most part. Usually, if they have an issue, they aren't someone I would want to date anyway. Hell, even when I was skinny I wasn't skinny. I'm a thick girl, always have been. Yeah, I'd like to be a lil smaller than I am now, but I don't EVER wanna lose my curves. :praying: |
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So femmes, where do you shop? Are there any particular styles you feel are complimentary to your curves?
For everyone: what's your favorite thing to wear that makes you feel amazing about yourself? |
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Good morning to all :) I hope everyone is having a good Thursday morning so far, this whole thread has made me smile, I am a full figured curvy girl and although i try to be confident, i have those days where i just feel unattractive, sure i get compliments about being cute, beautiful etc.. and i appreciate that more then you know, but sometimes it is hard to ignore those that say.. you have a pretty face.. BUT or you would be so beautiful if you would lose weight ugh.. i hate that lol..
The older i get the more i've adapted the attitude of if you don't like me for me, curves and all then i have no time for you :) .. i am pretty awesome once you get to know me *grins* |
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All I know is that I LOVE women of all sizes, especially voluptuous women. Nothing but pure yumminess. My honey was having some body issues one day moreso than the norm and not feeling too good about herself. Something she's struggled with for a very long time. Honestly, I love her no matter what size she and she's gorgeous inside and out is and this is a fact. Unfortunately we live in a society who passes judgement on women, especially big beautiful women and it sucks. Therefore, I would like to share my story with all you beautiful ladies: I was actually at my massage spa and waiting for my appt. On the table were some books and this one caught my eye because it had a cute cover with a pig on it. It was called "The Pig of Happiness". I started flipping through the pages and while doing so came to the following pages and I found this to be endearing and beautiful in a cute but meaningful way. I took my cell phone and snapped a picture of it and sent it to my honey just to let her know I love her and her body no matter what. http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_shgL_8CR1t...0/tree+015.JPG I think you're all beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Lastly, to my precious, gorgeous wife: You are sexy, and yummy and I'm one lucky bastid :sunglass: No need for me to say anything else. This speaks for itself. |
Grandpas wisdom
My gramps was from old world Italy,he once told grannie even after haveing 8 kids,helping him throughout life no mater what ever sise she was to be happy with her self because she had lived and loved life,to be proud when u look in the morror.
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Just passing through and saying just how much I love big girls ~ this guy will always drool over you :D
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I love you, you crazy bastid. :kissy: |
I have read thru this post and I have to tell you
You gave me back something I let someone take away, my self esteem, to believe that even though I'm a big woman I'm still sexy desirable and somewhere there is someone who will love me for me... all of me. So from my big ol'Rubenesque heart (now less bruised) I thank you. |
Work it, Lady!!! OWN it...WEAR it...WALK it...STRUT it.....give it your all...for YOU are truly captivating...just being YOU!!!
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My buddy here Clay said it perfectly and I second that motion as well :D |
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Popping to say Happy Friday to one and A/all..yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!
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Its been a while it seems sense anything has been posted on here. So here goes. I love my body I'm a sexy chunky delicious woman. It took a long time to be comfortable with my wife telling me how hot I Am but With some kind words and support. I finally started seeing myself the way she does. Now I cant fit into a size 10 but when I look in the mirror I see ALL of my sexiness. I'm strong, healthy and fat. So to all of you big beautiful women out there that fell into this thread Because u feel bad about yourself. I say look in the mirror and LOVE those curves because you are freaking HOT!
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Hi All,
I saw this thread, and was happy about it. I have tended to be somewhat chunky all my life, but not usually very large, and a change in medication piled on a lot of pounds last year. I may or may not lose it at some point, but it is going to be that way for a while due to health reasons. Seemed at first, I had a hard time accepting myself or feeling pretty or sexy. I had a hard time believing I was attractive, in the dating sense. Now that seems so odd... because I have dated very chunky butches and found them very handsome, I have seen many plump femmes and thought they were gorgeous and sexy. But for myself, I don't know... there was just a judgement. I appreciate these posts so much. So I am subscribing and today I posted, too! :bow: |
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I want to express appreciation for this thread; I have enjoyed reading it!
I’m not sure if the title “Big Girl Love” is meant to focus on femmes, and I say hurray for all of the positive thoughts here for fat femmes. I also want to say that I love fat butches too. Fat butches are substantial, we take up space, we are solid. Fat butches are handsome, and I feel blessed to be married to one, and to be one. |
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