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LeftWriteFemme 04-19-2012 07:54 AM

Okay, so I'm not sure if this has been posted before, so if it has I apologize.....but here it is!


http://adipositivity.my-expressions.com/


http://my-expressions.com/up_media/6...1333644092.jpg

Breezy 04-19-2012 08:54 AM

I LOVE this photo. I've never seen it before. Thank you for posting it.
I am built like the woman on the far right. :)

LeftWriteFemme 04-26-2012 06:13 AM

Just for fun.....
 

LeftWriteFemme 04-26-2012 09:40 PM

All right my darlings, I know you will forgive me for not having read this yet, I hope to read it tomorrow, but I didn't want my over commitments to hold you back from having a chance to read it.......


Fat and Fucking by Rebecca Jorden

http://www.smittenkittenonline.com/b...rebecca-jorden

clay 04-26-2012 09:54 PM

just stopping by to admire all the ladies here.....I LOVE this place...and I could just stay here forever, however, I must get some sleep....just stopped by to say goodnight to the most alluring, sensual, and incredibly beautiful women I know.....siggghhh...you are ALL hearts stoppers for me....smiles...gawd I love BBW's....ask my GF....grins....:wine:
I heart each and every one of you...Clay
PS Miss Scarlett you stole my heart! wink

not2shygrrl 04-27-2012 01:11 AM

WOW......tripped on this vid and had to share it here. I remember singing this when I was a young teenager and thinking at the time how cool that the roller derby queen's buddies called her Spike!! I think I still have a crush on all 5'6" @ 215lb of her !! {wink}

[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WwhxXjdMPd8"]Jim Croce - Roller Derby Queen (Live) [remastered 16:9] - YouTube[/nomedia]

LeftWriteFemme 04-27-2012 09:18 AM

I feel this speaks so strongly to the issues of fat and the way that fat people are viewed in this society

http://sphotos.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-...53410955_n.jpg

LeftWriteFemme 04-28-2012 02:32 PM

http://sphotos.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-...84971565_n.jpg

nycfem 04-28-2012 07:52 PM

Here's a link to Tasha Fierce's blog, Sex and the Fat Girl:

http://www.sexandthefatgirl.com/

It has lots of great links and of course, Tasha's fierce writing!

nycfem 04-28-2012 08:00 PM

http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lo...vqjoo1_400.jpg

nycfem 04-28-2012 08:22 PM

Happy Saturday Night to everyone!

Here's one more link that I enjoy, especially useful to those new to fat acceptance:

http://corpulent.wordpress.com/2010/...at-acceptance/

Licious 04-28-2012 08:50 PM

Been absent due to illness. Nice to see the great posts in here, keep it up. :)

LeftWriteFemme 04-30-2012 11:38 AM

Have we seen this.......?
 

1QuirkyKiwi 04-30-2012 01:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeftWriteFemme (Post 575518)

They live in a town north of me; I've heard him sing "On the Street Where You Live" from My Fair Lady with just a Piano accompaniment, he was brilliant! My favourite version is Nat King Cole's. ;)

1QuirkyKiwi 05-01-2012 11:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeftWriteFemme (Post 575518)

I searched and found Jonathan singing "On the Street Where You Live".


Licious 05-05-2012 12:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 1QuirkyKiwi (Post 575550)
They live in a town north of me; I've heard him sing "On the Street Where You Live" from My Fair Lady with just a Piano accompaniment, he was brilliant! My favourite version is Nat King Cole's. ;)

Heard of him but first time seeing it. Electrifying. How beautiful and what a great lesson for me, as I still try to get my confidence up. Thank you LEFT WRITE and Kiwi for post and comments.

LeftWriteFemme 05-05-2012 03:53 PM

Please note.....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by LeftWriteFemme (Post 575518)



The reason I posted this is because I was/am furious that the whispered opening comments by that reprehensible Simon Cowl are subtitled in, nothing else is subtitled in.......and then he's all benevolent when this kid proves to be a huge talent and not just huge, fuck Simon Cowl! (It seems that I am still angry about this.....carry on with whatever you were doing, I'll calm down eventually)

1QuirkyKiwi 05-05-2012 03:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeftWriteFemme (Post 578831)
The reason I posted this is because I was/am furious that the whispered opening comments by that reprehensible Simon Cowl are subtitled in, nothing else is subtitled in.......and then he's all benevolent when this kid proves to be a huge talent and not just huge, fuck Simon Cowl! (It seems that I am still angry about this.....carry on with whatever you were doing, I'll calm down eventually)

Simon Cowl is as transparent as your Bank Manager's smile and equally as smarmy! I can't stand the man and the way he treats others; besides Jonathan could diet, but, there's no surgery yet, for a personality or decent human being transplant!

Leigh 05-05-2012 04:31 PM

Yeah Simon thinks he's so wonderful, yet he makes comments sometimes that baffle me to no end

Licious 05-06-2012 09:21 PM

I would love to add some of the marvelous Lounge people to my fb if they are so inclined... please PM me if that sounds agreeable.

Have a good Sunday evening all *hugs*

1QuirkyKiwi 05-08-2012 07:14 AM


Jonathan Antoine is in the final of BGT after a great performance of Caruso. Jonathan’s voice sounds like the Welsh bass-baritone Bryn Terfel, who often sings with Andrea Bocelli.

LeftWriteFemme 05-11-2012 09:43 PM

Have any of you read this article?

http://www.plus-model-mag.com/2012/0...-call-you-fat/

1QuirkyKiwi 05-12-2012 01:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeftWriteFemme (Post 583244)

I've just read it and was filled with anger at the way this lady was treated by a so called friend. It came across as he was jealous of her keeping fit and active despite her size. To him fit and healthy is slim. I admire her for speaking out and writing the article and having the courage to say how she felt.

Personally, I see her a gorgeous and having a zest for life. I hope she doesn't feel the need to conform to the "Thin is in" mentality.

LeftWriteFemme 05-14-2012 07:31 AM

positive...but real, this guy is no Little May Sunshine, but I like him
 

Soft*Silver 05-18-2012 03:06 PM

I am going to be able to open my store in the larger store instead of the smaller one! My landlord is almost done fixing up the bigger store and offered me the option to move in there. That would mean delaying the grand opening a couple more weeks. But I am already a month late so a couple more weeks wont hurt. So, I will have 4 times the floor space, and its a much more pretty site too!

I just want to open already! I have so many wonderful women wanting to come in and shop, meet other Positive Women (I call plus sized women because in math, the plus size means Positive!) and enjoy space meant just for them!

Did you know 60% of American women are above the average weight? I just got that statistic from the library research I did today..I will post more stats as i run across them!

LeftWriteFemme 05-22-2012 09:23 AM

Fun, Fattery and Fringe with Love Your Body-Detroit


http://dailyvenusdiva.com/2011/07/21...-body-detroit/

LeftWriteFemme 05-24-2012 03:20 PM


I don't know why, but this song always makes me tear up

1QuirkyKiwi 05-25-2012 10:56 AM

Real girls post their 'fatkini' pictures in protest against society's obsession with 'beach-ready bodies'

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...dy-bodies.html


http://i830.photobucket.com/albums/z...04_634x766.jpg


http://i830.photobucket.com/albums/z...85_634x997.jpg


http://i830.photobucket.com/albums/z...20_634x456.jpg

Leigh 05-25-2012 11:29 AM

Those are amazing pictures hun, its about time society got used to seeing us girls out in society and not just skinny gals. I have nothing against anyone's body size, every woman is beautiful in her own way, but when all you see is what society always thinks is "acceptable" the rest of us get lost in the crowd

Soft*Silver 05-25-2012 07:59 PM

I was getting sooo frustrated over this store opening. Mostly, about my landlord switching places on me, and not doing the renovations as promised. He has literally delayed my grand opening by three months! I was suppose to meet with him tonight and he "forgot"...probably because he was suppose to be making progress and nothing was done.

So tonight I went and rented a different location. Same plaza, but a MUCH bigger store front. And its so feminine and charming, old casablanca type fans, gorgeous historic ceiling tiles, and even has a balcony inside, where I can put mannequins. And best of all, its in move in condition! I can start moving my things in the first of June and be ready to open as soon as its all hung and ticketed!

What a relief! After so many ups and downs, I feel this is the best move. And I can get my pretty ladies their store that they have been patiently waiting for!

Licious 05-25-2012 10:12 PM

Thanks for the Pics, Kiwi! Those are great!

And good luck with the opening, Miss Tia, keep us posted.

I am still learning to love myself the way I am at this point in my life and I appreciate this thread. Thank you.

I found a pic that looked fun and happy, so I am sharing.


http://www.mrbestguide.com/wp-conten...bese-Women.jpg

Leigh 05-25-2012 11:19 PM

I just love the pictures that are being shared, makes me proud to be a bbw and to celebrate all of my curves :)

nycfem 05-26-2012 12:26 PM

Hope everyone is having a lovely weekend!

Please remember you are not "being bad" when you eat something with substance to it.

Don't assume that telling women they lost weight is a compliment.


Don't assume my or any woman's body is your business. E.G. "Are you pregnant?", "You don't look like a BBW to me," and the ever present, "Did you lose weight?"

From a feminist perspective, is it meaningful for women to spend our time together talking about what we ate in measurements throughout the day? Is there anything more meaningful that we could discuss?



Keep up the fat positivity and be fierce, my friends!

http://curvature.files.wordpress.com...05/girth-1.jpg

http://www.rmichelson.com/Artist_Pag...s/MaxBeaut.htm

nycfem 05-27-2012 08:58 PM

Check out this plus size fashion slide show! Who says full-figured women can't rock high fashion?


http://www.velvetography.com/galleri...pte/index.html

http://styleproperty.files.wordpress...10/velvet4.jpg

clay 05-27-2012 09:08 PM

stopping by to give all you beautiful people a {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Dayummm I LOVE this thread!!! Gorgeous and so decadently delish...yummm...
Happy Memorial Dayl..I heart you all..Clay....:rrose:

LeftWriteFemme 05-27-2012 09:10 PM

All I can say is Wow!!! I am thinking I'm going to be needing one of those sheer halter things with the rhinestones circles over the nipples.......

Soft*Silver 05-29-2012 02:33 PM

I had a wonderful Memorial Day with family and friends. My newly married nephew and his bride had a gathering on Sunday and like all good slovak parties, it was ripe with food. We are not timid eaters! LOL. No one ever apologizes for eating heartedly. My sister, who just had stumach surgery, could not eat, and she apologized for not being able to enjoy the food! What a twist for most parties!

I spent Monday working on my third draft of the business plan, submitted to BVR for my funding. I am so proud of it! It reads so well and is a well thought out, thoroughly researched proposal. It is a formality, for they are funding me, but it still had to be done correctly.

and today I put the utilities in my name! I will be able to open mid June! I feel as though I can reach my arm out and actually touch the Grand Opening!

I am loving this thread. I have shared parts of it in my group for the store. I thank you for the lovely images and articles!

Soft*Silver 05-30-2012 02:10 PM

The utilities are in my name for the store and I get the keys on Friday! I have teams of volunteers, customers from my shop and friends and family, coming on saturday and Sunday in shifts to help me move everything from one location to the next. We literally have to walk it up the sidewalk two stores! LOL. The store will be moved and I can finish ticketing and set up my displays and yes, yes, we can open by the 15th!

I am overwhelmed by my customers, who are keeping track of things via my FB group for the store. I have been asked what things I need for the store and they are all trying to figure out what they have to bring to me. The support that is being offered is not like any other I have witnessed before. And its not about me. Its about "us". They want to create a place that is sacred for "us", us wonderful plus sized, curvacious, ample bodied lovelies who have felt isolated and condemned as sojourners for so long...

I am really humbled by all of this...

Licious 05-30-2012 02:50 PM

Thanks for all the pics and articles to read, very encouraging.

I am so happy for you Miss Tia, congrats! Be sure to get pics of the opening for us.

Leigh 05-30-2012 03:24 PM

This thread is truly amazing :)


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