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JustLovelyJenn 12-13-2010 07:58 PM

A candle of blue I light and give thanks for wisdom granted
A candle of red I light and give thanks for passions muse
A candle of green I light and give thanks for healing and health
A candle of white I light and give thanks that innocence exists for the young
A candle of purple I light and give thanks for the spirits guidance
A candle of silver I light and give thanks for gifts granted to aid
A candle of orange I light and give thanks for the benefit of hard work
A candle of brown I light and give thanks for friends and for family
A candle of yellow I light and give thanks that knowledge flows freely
A candle of black I light and give thanks that peace resides

Tommi 12-14-2010 03:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Blade (Post 245780)
lighting a candle for EntycingFemme hope you feel better soon Miss Sicky person

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Dittooooooo:moonstars::vigil::candle:

Blade 12-14-2010 03:57 AM

Lighting a candle for ME this morning. I'm working outside today it is 15 degrees and a breeze is blowing.

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waxnrope 12-14-2010 07:38 AM

Not on site much. I come by to respond to messages mostly. And to check here and see how everyone is doing.

I continue to light a candle each day for hope and solace and health for all who come here. This is a special place. A locus of peace and meditative harmony. May you all be blessed by the love which shines so brightly here ...

As for me, it is a true winter ... short days ... darkness prevails ... waiting.
I can reach Dolo by phone less and less. Her husband doesn't turn on the computer so we can call. Just on Sundays. Dolo doesn't remember to do it. I count the days to when I leave as I listen to the high pitched wheezes that accompanies each of her inhalations. She told me that they went to Germany to visit Christmas villages. I am glad for this bit of joy for her. I want to bring something, but don't know what ... nor why I would even think to do so. I think that times like this, one becomes not rational in their thoughts. I can't bring her time. I can't offer life ...

nycfem 12-14-2010 08:12 AM

For waxnrope and Dolo.
May their bond from brighter times sustain their strength and connection throughout the darkest of times.


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Tommi 12-14-2010 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Blade (Post 247098)
Lighting a candle for ME this morning. I'm working outside today it is 15 degrees and a breeze is blowing.

http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...NwcLQ-IKjF4seW

Watch for her. I told her you were gonna be cold and could use some heat.

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Tommi 12-14-2010 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 247126)
Not on site much. I come by to respond to messages mostly. And to check here and see how everyone is doing.

I continue to light a candle each day for hope and solace and health for all who come here. This is a special place. A locus of peace and meditative harmony. May you all be blessed by the love which shines so brightly here ...

As for me, it is a true winter ... short days ... darkness prevails ... waiting.
I can reach Dolo by phone less and less. Her husband doesn't turn on the computer so we can call. Just on Sundays. Dolo doesn't remember to do it. I count the days to when I leave as I listen to the high pitched wheezes that accompanies each of her inhalations. She told me that they went to Germany to visit Christmas villages. I am glad for this bit of joy for her. I want to bring something, but don't know what ... nor why I would even think to do so. I think that times like this, one becomes not rational in their thoughts. I can't bring her time. I can't offer life ...


Bring her memories of your little surprises: the crinkling cellophane and the taste of a peppermint candy cane. Things for her to hold and touch. A silk scarf, a simple strip of satin ribbon with a tiny bell, a tiny really soft baby toy like a fuzzy teddy bear (add a a splash of what you wear). Things for her to hear: Bring a tape recording of you singing to her. A small battery operated cassette player so others can sing and talk and leave her messages.

My hope and prayers for a fast journey and good days and nights ahead for you and Dolo. Godspeed waxnrope.

Diva 12-14-2010 09:35 AM

I'm lighting a candle for all those affected by the rain in the West and the cold temps in the mid~west to the east/northeast! Stay dry/warm everyone!


Spirit Dancer 12-14-2010 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 247126)
Not on site much. I come by to respond to messages mostly. And to check here and see how everyone is doing.

I continue to light a candle each day for hope and solace and health for all who come here. This is a special place. A locus of peace and meditative harmony. May you all be blessed by the love which shines so brightly here ...

As for me, it is a true winter ... short days ... darkness prevails ... waiting.
I can reach Dolo by phone less and less. Her husband doesn't turn on the computer so we can call. Just on Sundays. Dolo doesn't remember to do it. I count the days to when I leave as I listen to the high pitched wheezes that accompanies each of her inhalations. She told me that they went to Germany to visit Christmas villages. I am glad for this bit of joy for her. I want to bring something, but don't know what ... nor why I would even think to do so. I think that times like this, one becomes not rational in their thoughts. I can't bring her time. I can't offer life ...

Wax:vigil:
My heart goes out to you, and too Dolo, her family and loved ones. Just knowing your love is there, sending her energy, she can feel it and the presence of you. Know that, prayer is an amazing gift it sustains when we feel as if there is nothing left. This day I reach out to you and Dolo sending light, prayer and solace.
Never give up, just when you think it's forever dark; a flicker of light renews you.
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miss entycing 12-14-2010 10:36 AM


Passionaria 12-14-2010 01:28 PM

Prayers to unconditional love
 
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The balance for darkness
is unconditional love
love is the eternal flame
the magnetic force that
holds the universe together
transcending time and space
true love does not die
it fuses with your soul
and it burns

:rose:




katsarecool 12-14-2010 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 247126)
Not on site much. I come by to respond to messages mostly. And to check here and see how everyone is doing.

I continue to light a candle each day for hope and solace and health for all who come here. This is a special place. A locus of peace and meditative harmony. May you all be blessed by the love which shines so brightly here ...

As for me, it is a true winter ... short days ... darkness prevails ... waiting.
I can reach Dolo by phone less and less. Her husband doesn't turn on the computer so we can call. Just on Sundays. Dolo doesn't remember to do it. I count the days to when I leave as I listen to the high pitched wheezes that accompanies each of her inhalations. She told me that they went to Germany to visit Christmas villages. I am glad for this bit of joy for her. I want to bring something, but don't know what ... nor why I would even think to do so. I think that times like this, one becomes not rational in their thoughts. I can't bring her time. I can't offer life ...

I am so sorry that I missed this!!! Tommi has some wonderful and very sweet ideas. Wishing you and all your family best wishes and strength during this very sad and stressful time in your lives!!!

christie 12-14-2010 08:38 PM

The difficulties of parenting...
 
For the wisdom to find solutions to seemingly insurmountable issues:

http://i214.photobucket.com/albums/c...n/candles4.jpg

For happiness:

http://i285.photobucket.com/albums/l...agonka1988.jpg

For continued communication and understanding:

http://i557.photobucket.com/albums/s...luecandles.jpg

To ask our friends for continued compassion and understanding when our energies are demanded elsewhere:

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We are going through an especially hard time with Bratboy and I'd ask that you remember him as you are sending out such positiveness....

Christie

JustLovelyJenn 12-14-2010 08:57 PM

For Un-shed Tears

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miss entycing 12-14-2010 10:10 PM

as the flame dances.. reaching out to envelop everything in it's path-
it becomes one with the seeker of said flame.


miss entycing 12-15-2010 11:03 AM

leaving light for those of us who are struggling in the darkness.

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waxnrope 12-15-2010 04:19 PM

The call came... it's too soon as I looked at origin of the phone call. No. It's too soon. She has to wait for me. I've got to say goodbye.

She's quit eating and drinking fluids. Very weak.
Please, no ideas or suggestions. Just prayers and light and whatever your spiritual practice involves. It's the intent. The fervor. The love that counts.

Thank you all.

nycfem 12-15-2010 07:32 PM

"That love is all there is is all we know of love." -Emily Dickinson

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Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 247963)
The call came... it's too soon as I looked at origin of the phone call. No. It's too soon. She has to wait for me. I've got to say goodbye.

She's quit eating and drinking fluids. Very weak.
Please, no ideas or suggestions. Just prayers and light and whatever your spiritual practice involves. It's the intent. The fervor. The love that counts.

Thank you all.


HoneyedChrysanthemum 12-15-2010 07:35 PM

tonight
 
i light a candle for all those wherever who have no heat in the cold, no shelter from the snow and wind, no love to warm their souls...
pres :moonstars:

Kenna 12-15-2010 07:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 247963)
The call came... it's too soon as I looked at origin of the phone call. No. It's too soon. She has to wait for me. I've got to say goodbye.

She's quit eating and drinking fluids. Very weak.
Please, no ideas or suggestions. Just prayers and light and whatever your spiritual practice involves. It's the intent. The fervor. The love that counts.

Thank you all.

With words and sentiment of comfort and strength:

“If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together.. there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we're apart.. I'll always be with you.”
Pooh Bear


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