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KCBUTCH 03-30-2013 03:37 PM

PISSED
 
I am so livid right now due to the opening sentence in an article I am supposed to read for class

"When cousins do more than kiss"
by Anthony Layng
"NOW THAT same sex marriage increasingly is becoming acceptable in the U.S., might not incestuous marriage be next? Both have been condemned by legal sanctions and religious beliefs. However, since these are subject to change, what is to prevent first cousin marriage from gaining popularity?"

I sent a message to my professor stating it's offensive, insensitive, prejudice and verging on hate speech and I am considering reporting her to the board at my college for allowing such an article to be a required reading.

ANY THOUGHTS?

Gráinne 03-30-2013 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by KCBUTCH (Post 775490)
I am so livid right now due to the opening sentence in an article I am supposed to read for class

"When cousins do more than kiss"
by Anthony Layng
"NOW THAT same sex marriage increasingly is becoming acceptable in the U.S., might not incestuous marriage be next? Both have been condemned by legal sanctions and religious beliefs. However, since these are subject to change, what is to prevent first cousin marriage from gaining popularity?"

I sent a message to my professor stating it's offensive, insensitive, prejudice and verging on hate speech and I am considering reporting her to the board at my college for allowing such an article to be a required reading.

ANY THOUGHTS?

Is this the professor's writing, or are you reading articles of all different viewpoints? I think that's part of college; exposure to opinions you don't like or find reprehensible.

Many books have been protested or banned at some point, but are still studied even in high schools or younger.

I know it was hard to read, but perhaps that's the point-to enrage and discuss. If we read only what we agreed with, didn't make us think, and didn't rile up emotions, that's not really worth the cost of the course.

TheMerryFairy 03-30-2013 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Uniqueswtfemm (Post 775207)
On my mind...

How I can smell cupcakes thru the kitchen window as I continue to sit outside and enjoy the evening breeze.:)


Psst...double butterscotch cupcakes, the flavor for Saturday.

Those sound delicious!!!

KCBUTCH 03-30-2013 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Gráinne (Post 775491)
Is this the professor's writing, or are you reading articles of all different viewpoints? I think that's part of college; exposure to opinions you don't like or find reprehensible.

Many books have been protested or banned at some point, but are still studied even in high schools or younger.

I know it was hard to read, but perhaps that's the point-to enrage and discuss. If we read only what we agreed with, didn't make us think, and didn't rile up emotions, that's not really worth the cost of the course.

Well I guess it bothers me because it was completely unnecessary for the point of the article. the topic is kinship and the entire article was about marrying within the family/incest, and when the comparison is made between same-sex marriage and incest with no further discussion on the former topic, I think its bordering on prejudice to include such a biases comparison.
I fully believe in freedom of speech but I also believe in my own freedom to report my feelings about it, if I choose to.
Its something I have to think very hard about I agree with you and definitely like things that open my mind and make me uncomfortable.
I am torn and angry. need to pause. thanks for your reply

TheMerryFairy 03-30-2013 04:09 PM

Butterscotch meringue pie fresh from the bakery, daydreams, childhood memories, my walk through the park and how lucky I am!

What else is on my mind? *breathes in* I am happy and on my way to living my dreams.

kittygrrl 03-30-2013 04:23 PM

i read somewhere that someone was done.......and while it fine to feel you are done (with a task or whatever)..the universe usually has other ideas..good ones hopefully:hk11:

Ginger 03-30-2013 04:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KCBUTCH (Post 775490)
I am so livid right now due to the opening sentence in an article I am supposed to read for class

"When cousins do more than kiss"
by Anthony Layng
"NOW THAT same sex marriage increasingly is becoming acceptable in the U.S., might not incestuous marriage be next? Both have been condemned by legal sanctions and religious beliefs. However, since these are subject to change, what is to prevent first cousin marriage from gaining popularity?"

I sent a message to my professor stating it's offensive, insensitive, prejudice and verging on hate speech and I am considering reporting her to the board at my college for allowing such an article to be a required reading.

ANY THOUGHTS?



I'm with you, KC. It's infuriating, the excerpt you posted.

It's also an irresponsible use of logic to forward an argument.

Sometimes A=B and B=C so A=C on a certain mathematical level but it's invalid to apply that algorhythm to human situations.

Equating gay marriage to incest or bestiality just because they all have in common, having been or being illegal in one system at one time in history is irresponsible.

SoulShineFemme 03-30-2013 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by ONLY (Post 772207)
What will life bring one year from now......

I predict cohabitation on a much more permanant basis! ;-) I think by then we will have turned this chaos into some order.

StrongButch 03-31-2013 06:15 AM

Mind
 
I am going to mass this morning. I hope no dirty thoughts enter my mind. (lol) I need to behave one day a year. (lol)

~ocean 03-31-2013 06:21 AM

Unity ~ ya baby ~

jac 03-31-2013 07:09 AM

What's on my mind................

Tomorrow is April Fool's Day - a prankster's/jokester's kinda day..... :riding2:

What to do what to do?? Hmmmmmm :thinking:

loves tulips 03-31-2013 12:35 PM

On my mind...
 
It's a beautiful, beautiful day here & it's got me thinking about.....

Picnic's, warm & soft sunshine, the smell of grass & blooming flowers, the birds singing distant & muted in the background, naked skin warm from the sun & making sweet love on a blanket outside, kisses that make your toes curl, contentment & satisfaction.

Yep, that's what's on my mind.

TheMerryFairy 03-31-2013 12:47 PM

How lucky I am to be surrounded by generosity and friendship. I am having a wonderful day and I hope you are all having a great Sunday as well.

WolfyOne 03-31-2013 01:51 PM

I have 4 days off work coming up
Oh how I look forward to being away from that place
I'll probably be sad when I have to return
Although, not even my boss can take the happy out of my heart, no matter what

Bčsame* 03-31-2013 03:45 PM

Listening to the rolling thunder, waiting for the storm. This is so cool. Kinda eery being here alone as the clouds roll in. Just put on a movie, Rock of Ages, will being singing along I'm sure.

Opened the jewelry hospital, going to fix the favorite pieces :)

Hmm, had pizza delivered for Easter dinner.

girl_dee 03-31-2013 04:39 PM

Places to rent in a part of town that i love tomorrow. Hopefully it will be better than the last place i looked.

laruss 03-31-2013 09:58 PM

I don't think I can catch up so I will try and move forward from here.
I missed so many of you.
Life is good.

KCBUTCH 03-31-2013 10:06 PM

Shameless Flirting, Home work, dinner, Dog, sleep, Game Of Thrones
April and the 1/2 way get together

JustLovelyJenn 03-31-2013 11:10 PM

A lot is on my mind... its weighing pretty heavy tonight....

always2late 03-31-2013 11:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KCBUTCH (Post 775490)
I am so livid right now due to the opening sentence in an article I am supposed to read for class

"When cousins do more than kiss"
by Anthony Layng
"NOW THAT same sex marriage increasingly is becoming acceptable in the U.S., might not incestuous marriage be next? Both have been condemned by legal sanctions and religious beliefs. However, since these are subject to change, what is to prevent first cousin marriage from gaining popularity?"

I sent a message to my professor stating it's offensive, insensitive, prejudice and verging on hate speech and I am considering reporting her to the board at my college for allowing such an article to be a required reading.

ANY THOUGHTS?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gráinne (Post 775491)
Is this the professor's writing, or are you reading articles of all different viewpoints? I think that's part of college; exposure to opinions you don't like or find reprehensible.

Many books have been protested or banned at some point, but are still studied even in high schools or younger.

I know it was hard to read, but perhaps that's the point-to enrage and discuss. If we read only what we agreed with, didn't make us think, and didn't rile up emotions, that's not really worth the cost of the course.

While I agree that one of the purposes of higher education is exposure to opinions one might not agree with, I think the issue here is not the fact that this is a disagreeable opinion. I think it is more that this is an egregious comparison. It is, albeit in a circuitous way, linking same-sex marriage to incest. The fact that the article goes on to speak of the appropriateness of familial relationships and has NOTHING to do with same-sex marriage only highlights the point that the comparison needn't have been made at all. How is it relevant to the subject? It isn't. It is basically taking the worst of same-sex marriage opponents' talking points and misinformation and using it as a jump off point to start an article.


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