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Andrew, Jr. 05-30-2010 11:35 AM


How I break the ftm stereotypes:

*I tried to learn to ride a motorcycle and nearly took out my life, but those around me. However, I love motorcycles.

*I eat salads and lots of fruit.

*I love to get snail mail, packages, and flowers. OMG, flowers. :bunchflowers:

*I cry during movies. I am very emotional, & sensative.

*I love and adore angels.

*I am not aggressive. I love :awww: aggressive queer femmes, but not those who claim the title of Daddy in life. Oh hell no.

*I don't have a man-cave. I have a work bench and tools. :hangloose:

*I love to dance close.

*I am a clothes horse.

*I love to dress up Dino. :doghead:

*I love lavender. I planted a ton of it in my backyard, but it died.

*I hate snakes, spiders, grasshoppers, and insects. I cover them up with glasses, and let my neighbor free them outdoors or kill them or do whatever with them.

*I cannot read a map or follow directions. It is not in my DNA.

*I get a manicure after I use my hands to plant and work in my garden and get dirt and manure up under my nailbed.

*I love to go to a spa.




Arwen 05-30-2010 11:56 AM

  • I can pitch a tent in the dark.
  • I probably know how to tie more knots than most people who aren't still in Scouting.
  • I can and will (and have) alpha roll a 190# dog and win.
  • I can and will (and have) catch a snake in the wild.
  • I used to be able to lift up to a 120# dog.
  • I can saddle my own horse.
  • I like my steak slightly mooing.
  • I can confront people on their bullshit, behind-your-back crap.
  • I can own up to being dead wrong and apologize.
  • I can rock a flannel shirt.
  • When I go to the mall, I go in and get what I want and leave.
  • I can gut and clean my own fish as well as fry it up.
  • I can state my opinion and not roll over because it upsets someone else.

Rockinonahigh 05-30-2010 02:51 PM

Afternoon everyone,hope ur day is good.I thought I would add a fur mor goodies to the list.

I cry at sad movies,red nose and all.
Love to be out camping but will bring a camp cot and blowup mattress to sleep on cause my back couldnt take sleeping on the ground anymore
love roses but have a black thumb so I cant grow a weed if I tryed.
Often I wonder how I got to this stage of my life as well as I have,just lucky I gess.
I have raised orphan fur kids on a bottle, when they r really tiny keep them in my shirt pocket to stay warm...I get some strange looks when they start moveing around.
I always have loved misic but cant play a note or cary a tune in a bucket.
Many times I have often wondered how I come across to other ppl,good bad or otherwise.Not long ago I accidently met someone at a local resturant that I sorta know from an online site and there reaction was ...Your so and so with a straneg look on there face.Really this isnt the first time this has happen
Im an old softie but not any kind of push over,Id rather be a peace maker if possable.

Gayla 05-30-2010 06:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr. (Post 117757)


*I am not aggressive. I love :awww: aggressive queer femmes, but not those who claim the title of Daddy in life. Oh hell no.


I've read this several different times. I had to really think about if I wanted to say anything. I didn't really want this to be a discussion kind of thread but, I choose not to let this just pass by.

Andrew - I appreciate your participation in this thread but I don't understand this. The words above, in bold, not only go against the spirit of the thread but they go so far beyond "qualifying and justifying" to a level that I just find offensive. Personal preference is one thing, and I probably would have just let it go, but adding the "Oh hell no" part at the end just crossed a line for me.

My point in creating this thread was to try to counteract some of the "x is ok but y isn't" crap that many of us face almost everyday. In one quick comment you've managed to do exactly that - liking X is ok... but only if they're not Y. And you did it in a way that feels really unnecessary and just plain icky to me.

scootebaby 05-30-2010 06:10 PM

sometimes i stomp my foot if really frustrated or angry!

SuperFemme 05-30-2010 06:16 PM

one time? i farted and burped.
without using terms like "fluff" and "frog".

Queerasfck 05-30-2010 06:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gayla (Post 117971)
I've read this several different times. I had to really think about if I wanted to say anything. I didn't really want this to be a discussion kind of thread but, I choose not to let this just pass by.

Andrew - I appreciate your participation in this thread but I don't understand this. The words above, in bold, not only go against the spirit of the thread but they go so far beyond "qualifying and justifying" to a level that I just find offensive. Personal preference is one thing, and I probably would have just let it go, but adding the "Oh hell no" part at the end just crossed a line for me.

My point in creating this thread was to try to counteract some of the "x is ok but y isn't" crap that many of us face almost everyday. In one quick comment you've managed to do exactly that - liking X is ok... but only if they're not Y. And you did it in a way that feels really unnecessary and just plain icky to me.

I am glad you brought this up. I don't see the point of putting down people when explaining how 'you break stereotypes'.

scootebaby 05-30-2010 06:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SuperFemme (Post 117990)
one time? i farted and burped.
without using terms like "fluff" and "frog".

she said fluff and frog :cracked::rofl:

BoDy*ShOt 05-30-2010 06:25 PM

i am a jeans (or cutoff shorts) & barefoot, flipflops, or sandals and tanktop kinda girl; i am NOT a housekeeper; i like putting stuff together (i don't like putting stuff together with someone though) and working on a car; i like paying; i like opening the door for someone; i like doing yardwork (but don't like gardening); i don't like wearing heels most days (though i lust after them LOL); i'm not a fan of pink; i loathe shopping; and i rarely paint my nails

:lips:

SuperFemme 05-30-2010 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by scootebaby (Post 117997)
she said fluff and frog :cracked::rofl:

what? stop laughing. :fastdraq:

princessbelle 05-30-2010 06:32 PM

Lovely thread
 
I can't cook
I like camping
I like fishing
I could never be a "stay at home" person. I will always work, health provided.
I smoke
I have been known to cuss and I certainly can get right back with ya if ya dish it out.
I don't drink often, but when I do, I can slam tequilla like no body's bees wax.

scootebaby 05-30-2010 06:34 PM

:fart: omg you all hear that frog??????

SuperFemme 05-30-2010 06:47 PM

i also happen to have an amazing right hook. :seeingstars:

scootebaby 05-30-2010 06:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SuperFemme (Post 118016)
i also happen to have an amazing right hook. :seeingstars:


its called breaking the stereotype,NOT breaking a jaw...dayuuuuuum lol

SuperFemme 05-30-2010 06:53 PM

oh. oopsie.

one time i spit. :mohawk:

Daryn 05-30-2010 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr. (Post 117757)

*I tried to learn to ride a motorcycle and nearly took out my life, but those around me. However, I love motorcycles.

Ugh. I am reminded of crashing my father's brand new bike into a brick wall (flipping stiff clutch and mouthy father) the week I was learning to ride many decades ago... I like fast cars much better thanks... no bruises and less chance of dying.

The_Lady_Snow 05-30-2010 07:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gayla (Post 117971)
I've read this several different times. I had to really think about if I wanted to say anything. I didn't really want this to be a discussion kind of thread but, I choose not to let this just pass by.

Andrew - I appreciate your participation in this thread but I don't understand this. The words above, in bold, not only go against the spirit of the thread but they go so far beyond "qualifying and justifying" to a level that I just find offensive. Personal preference is one thing, and I probably would have just let it go, but adding the "Oh hell no" part at the end just crossed a line for me.

My point in creating this thread was to try to counteract some of the "x is ok but y isn't" crap that many of us face almost everyday. In one quick comment you've managed to do exactly that - liking X is ok... but only if they're not Y. And you did it in a way that feels really unnecessary and just plain icky to me.


Thank you gayla for addressing this... I am a Daddy, a Femme Daddy, and well we kinda know that is a breaking of the stereoptype.

I am speaking for all the Femme Daddy's I know who would be offended..

It sucks when someone comes in and tries to put us down for who we are..

Just sayin

Andrew, Jr. 05-30-2010 07:11 PM


Gayla,

My apologies to you and anyone I offended. I tried to come back and erase it, but it was too late to do so.

Namaste,
Andrew


Daryn,

I was in Florida on vacation. My stepfather bought a brand new Harley. Now, he was about 6' tall and I am short 5'4". With that said, the bike was too big for me to even reach the ground with my foot. I have no clue as to how I managed not to kill myself or anyone else that day. I have some polaroids from that famous day. And the beautiful bike before I rode it. At the funeral of his ex-wife, I had so many folks come up to me and talk about that Harley, and that famous ride I took - lol.


Gayla 05-30-2010 07:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr. (Post 118036)
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My apologies to you and anyone I offended. I tried to come back and erase it, but it was too late to do so.

My question is, why post it in the first place?

The_Lady_Snow 05-30-2010 07:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gayla (Post 118037)
My question is, why post it in the first place?

*raises hand*

I can answer I can answer!!!!


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