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citybutch 04-19-2011 09:38 PM
Touch.....

Soft*Silver 04-19-2011 10:44 PM
be present and spend time with the person you are in a relationship with or get out of the relationship

citybutch 04-20-2011 09:16 AM
Create your own traditions...

Jesse 04-20-2011 09:21 AM
Listen :heartbeat:

Blade 04-20-2011 09:29 AM
TRUST

TRUST each other

TRUST each others friendships, are just that friendships

TRUST my judgment, I only want what is best for you and for us

TRUST that nothing is off limits, you can talk to me about anything

TRUST that we will not judge each other

TRUST that at the end of the day no matter our difficulties of the day, we will go to bed happily and loving each other, not wondering.

girl_dee 04-21-2011 07:09 AM
Celebrate everything!

girl_dee 04-21-2011 10:35 AM
keep your word, If you promise to do something, do it.

the excuses can get very old after a while.

Blade 04-21-2011 10:40 AM
open your mouth

if you like something say so
if you don't like something say so

from everything from sex to supper open your mouth

Don't appease each other.

we are all different and it's ok to say so

girl_dee 04-21-2011 11:56 AM
pick your battles

we don't have to always be (what we think is) right......

afixer 04-21-2011 01:58 PM
because it all comes out in the wash
 

be real, and honest

Gemme 04-21-2011 04:49 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by sassy_girl (Post 324278)
Celebrate everything!
We do this. :)

I celebrate when I don't have to make a bank run after work. I'm already tired and cranky and it saves me about 20 minutes of time (plus mileage, etc), so that makes for a happier, less cranky but probably equally tired me when I get home and that means Ebon deals with less crankiness in general, which makes him super happy.

Starbuck 04-21-2011 05:48 PM
If your gf/bf is having a hard day, BE THERE FOR HER/HIM! I don't care if you don't know what to do, it's okay because you don't have to fix it! At least say, "I'm here for you." :phonegab:

justkim 04-21-2011 08:39 PM
I don't need you to solve a problem for me, I just need you to listen...
Don't just listen to me, hear me and I will do the same for you...
Kiss me... Kiss me often...
Little things... Always...

bigbutchmistie 04-21-2011 08:46 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Starbuck (Post 324571)
If your gf/bf is having a hard day, BE THERE FOR HER/HIM! I don't care if you don't know what to do, it's okay because you don't have to fix it! At least say, "I'm here for you." :phonegab:
Yep. I agree :) Knowing your partner is by your side should be a no brained. But a lot of people confuse wanting support as them fixing it. I don't need you to fix it I can handle whatever. I just want a partner who says I'm here WE will get through this. Not someone who is just running their mouth but who backs it up. I'm tired of this issue myself. Great point Starbuck :)r

citybutch 04-21-2011 09:09 PM
Talk... listen... talk more... listen more... forever and ever... amen....

girl_dee 04-23-2011 07:11 AM
Hook up the u-haul AFTER you are sure you have ALL the facts, details and then ask for references!

Daywalker 04-28-2011 06:23 PM
Drop a little Tom on her FB Wall

:rose:




:grindevil:

:daywalker:

Strappie 06-11-2011 11:42 PM
Always have a Date Night at least once a week.

Leave little notes (post-it) for them on the mirror when they wake or in their purse or lunch.

Cook together for each other

Spend 1 hour (or longer) a week on "talking about how we are feeling" Learning to communicate

Be playful (keeping the relationship fun and playful)

Having Boy's night out and Girls night out once a month or more if it works. (learning to trust)

Kiss often (I love to kiss)

Tell each other .. I love you every day!!!!

cane 06-12-2011 01:05 AM
Simply go the extra mile...

robbrt 06-12-2011 02:05 AM
Have a couple Red Stripes (or equally delicious beverage), watch The Hebrew Hammer, and play Mario Super Sluggers on the Wii.


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