She better not touch my ice cream.. them's fighten words.. O.o I'll buy her her own ice cream.. or make her her own dish... O.o lol


somethings are just sacred lol

His ice cream and gelatto always tastes waaaaaaay better than mine tho! Lol

LOL Funny enough - that's what Gillian always says.. even if we order the same ice cream.

I've also noticed when we order appetizers - she eats all the food on "my" side of the bowl/plate before starting on her side...


I have my eye on you ladies... lol

Make time for each other..........and the other side of that token - make time for yourselves.

No one can *be* your everything - do all the things you like to do together, but don't forget you had friends and family before the relationship.....make time for them just as you did before.

Tuck lil notes in their lunchbox, bag, purse etc

Be silly together - Life is too short to be too serious all the the time.

Be each other's support system, even if you can't mend the hurt or upset, you can listen and just be there for them.

Be you always - You are the person they fell for -

Accept them as they are - if you've made the right decision you don't need to try to change them.

Be true to him/her and most of all be true to yourself.

If you argue - be kind - words hurt, name calling hurts....

Go to neutral corners until you can comunicate on adult levels -

Most of all - love with with all you have, but always love yourself as much.

Remember they fell in love with you - not the you they want you to be.

Remember you fell in love with them, not the them you want them to be.

OMG you are so right!!! Even words that seem harmless carry a huge sting. I will get over the fight but those words stick. I always wonder, "Do I really seem needy/ridiculous/mean?"

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Indeed, is there ever a reason to call someone stupid or be hateful. How can someone say they love you when all that comes from their mouth are obscenties about you?

That should TOTALLY be left for sex :D lol

True dat - lol

I don't know if I could stick to that lol - I just know the Meester is gonna buy something I didn't think I wanted and now do want. hehehehehe

I share my Ice Cream with Desd and she with me unless she get some icky mix that is then she is on her own
we just have to watch out for the ice cream sniffing cat who will beg and try everything to get a lick

Gillian can't stand dark chocolate - but just let me get some new dark chocolate something or another - she HAS to have a taste. I tell her "you won't like it" but she doesn't care. So she gets it.. tries it.. spits it out and all I can do is mourn the death of that bit of dark chocolate she spit out.

OMG that is just not right !!!! Dark Chocolate is to be revered and savored.........I mourn with you my friend.......but I do understand her need to try.....it's innate......Yours just might taste better than mine lol

Own your own projections, or they will eat up energy and intimacy in your relationship.

Realize each moment is a future memory. Make as many good as you can.

Desd is as lucky as me! I eat his yummy chocolate gelatto and ice cream, and then go eat the flavors he buys for me!

uhh I hate to break it to you BUT one of your's is already El Gono. :D

OH NO U DIDN'T!! Lol...its ok honey, I know I can sweet talk you into more when I get there ;)

moving into a friendship after a failed relationship..
 

if you are having doubts or you are interested in someone else don't tell the the person you are presently speaking to in pm or an e-mail (weeks later)...you just look like a player and a coward..some might also see it as cheating ..especially if you were talking to this other person while you were creating a new romance..it can also create bad feelings and little chance of a friendship later down the line..

on the other hand it lets the person know exactly were you you stand as a person, your maturity level, any level of hope for a future/present serious relationship ..if you want an adult relationship then act like one..

Respect the other person and always forgive.
Forgiveness helps the heart grow.

be committed,,, love is not just a feeling it is also a decision (f)

"A great relationship is based on two main principles. First, appreciate your similarities, and second, respect your differences."

Take a few moments each day to appreciate and enjoy the love and money you have in your life, and the creativity you express in the world.

"Never force LOVE..nor force or beg someone to love you back..
It's as hard as teaching a FISH to WALK..
love should be given freely...unconditionally...
sometimes we must know how to contradict our feelings so we wont look stupid in the end....
always maintain SELF RESPECT"

Say "thank you" and mean it.

Say "I am sorry" and mean it.

Trust.

Console.

Play together and laugh together.

Spend time apart-missing the other one is nice.

Do little, random things for the other.

Understand that a bad day at work is not a bad day at home.

Dance together-even if only in the living room or on the porch.

Rediscover the places you fell in love with when you fell in love with each other.

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Cook together!.....:cooking:

Find a hobby you can share......

give each other space and don't smother.
Really like each other

Don't be afraid...
 

To risk your heart, your vulnerability, your feelings...

even if it does not work out for you.

No regrets for trying.