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bkisbutchenuff 10-10-2012 02:41 AM

HAPPY HUMP DAY!

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Hope everyone has a great day! Bring on the 4 day weekend!!!

bkisbutchenuff 10-13-2012 03:49 AM

I have so enjoyed these few days off...haven't thought about work much at all...will save that for Sunday afternoon...Hope all you educators had a good week!


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bkisbutchenuff 10-15-2012 02:44 AM

I may have done this on occasion....just saying....


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lusciouskiwi 10-15-2012 04:15 AM

Oy, off to school you lot!

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Soon 10-15-2012 04:50 AM

*whine*
 
I don't want to go.

bkisbutchenuff 10-15-2012 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by lusciouskiwi (Post 675961)

Funny! Enuff said....

Martina 10-15-2012 10:28 AM

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Soon 10-15-2012 05:47 PM

for those who are from the USA and are Science teachers...what do you think of this?
 

Martina 10-15-2012 07:16 PM

I totally agree with the second guy's comment about undergraduate science education. I used to teach English -- as a TA -- at Michigan, and the freshman Chemistry and Physics classes were not about teaching to mastery, but about paring down the number of students who would someday apply to medical school and to graduate school in the sciences. Students who really wanted to learn Chemistry would take those classes at community colleges and transfer the credits. People blame the public schools because our students aren't prepared, but they can pass community college science classes, which cover much of the same material. A final in a Michigan Chemistry class typically has questions on material not even covered in the class. That's fine at MIT or Caltech, but that's absurd at Michigan, whose students, it's fair to assume, are there to learn things they don't already know.

And Michigan students are already privileged. They have had decent public or private school educations. So what happens when you bring kids in from other backgrounds? They don't make it, at least not as science majors. A friend of mine has a BA and MSW from Michigan and has had a good career as a social worker. However, he started Michigan hoping to become a doctor. The freshman math and science classes ended that dream. It made no sense. Bright guy, hard working, but from Flint public schools. He could not compete. Lots of universities teach lots of remedial classes now, but in my opinion, if they taught their freshman and sophomore classes well, the students would not need that much remediation. A hardworking student who is literate and has passed Algebra II should be able to pass a freshman Chemistry class. Freshman and sophomore science courses are abysmally taught, and a lot of folks in the sciences seem almost proud of that.

And if they are still counting on secondary education to make up for their failure, then they better move fast and start doing something about the end of course exams that are being instituted in so many states. Teaching to those tests will kill any teacher's ability to inspire students.

Re the visa issue and science in the U.S., totally true.

Martina 10-15-2012 10:00 PM

I was in a meeting with a deranged mom today. Fortunately the kid just turned 18 and now legally makes his own decisions. If she had had any power, we would so have been screwed. She arrived 40 minutes early, a full half an hour before anyone else showed up. So for a half an hour, she directed all her craziness at me. It wasn't abusive, or I would have shut it down. But crazy and annoying. Her agenda wasn't about her kid either. It was all about her anger at her ex-husband.

I don't get paid enough.

txdoc 10-15-2012 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Martina (Post 676568)
I was in a meeting with a deranged mom today. Fortunately the kid just turned 18 and now legally makes his own decisions. If she had had any power, we would so have been screwed. She arrived 40 minutes early, a full half an hour before anyone else showed up. So for a half an hour, she directed all her craziness at me. It wasn't abusive, or I would have shut it down. But crazy and annoying. Her agenda wasn't about her kid either. It was all about her anger at her ex-husband.

I don't get paid enough.

You didn't have to send her my way when she was finished with you...

bkisbutchenuff 10-16-2012 03:34 AM

The second 9 weeks starts today...all in all, I consider the 1st 9 a waste....I still have 71 beginners - hoping I can drop 11, get new general music students today - not looking forward to them - and the 'let me test this woman' period, but at least my 7th and 8th grade students are playing and will begin to work on Holiday music....moving forward the best I can.

ummmm - Is it Friday yet?

spritzerJ 10-16-2012 04:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Martina (Post 676568)
I was in a meeting with a deranged mom today. Fortunately the kid just turned 18 and now legally makes his own decisions. If she had had any power, we would so have been screwed. She arrived 40 minutes early, a full half an hour before anyone else showed up. So for a half an hour, she directed all her craziness at me. It wasn't abusive, or I would have shut it down. But crazy and annoying. Her agenda wasn't about her kid either. It was all about her anger at her ex-husband.

I don't get paid enough.

No you don't get paid enough! Holy cow the deranged ones can really put you over the edge. Sometimes warranted (the system and meetings can make anyone nuts) and most of the time not.

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Originally Posted by bkisbutchenuff (Post 676665)
The second 9 weeks starts today...all in all, I consider the 1st 9 a waste....I still have 71 beginners - hoping I can drop 11, get new general music students today - not looking forward to them - and the 'let me test this woman' period, but at least my 7th and 8th grade students are playing and will begin to work on Holiday music....moving forward the best I can.

ummmm - Is it Friday yet?

Best of luck BK... I wonder after all the years do you hate holiday music?

bkisbutchenuff 10-17-2012 05:51 AM

Happy Hump Day!

Martina 10-17-2012 10:52 PM

I had one of those "This is a thankless job" days today. Ruined my mood. I let it ruin my mood, rather.

bkisbutchenuff 10-18-2012 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted by spritzerJ (Post 676670)
No you don't get paid enough! Holy cow the deranged ones can really put you over the edge. Sometimes warranted (the system and meetings can make anyone nuts) and most of the time not.



Best of luck BK... I wonder after all the years do you hate holiday music?

Yes! By the time the holiday is actually here, I'm a little burned out on the sounds of the Season .... :|

bkisbutchenuff 10-18-2012 03:28 AM

Beginning of the 9 weeks and my classes are as F---ed up as they were...7th and 8th grade classes with non-orchestra students in there causing trouble...lets see how long it last this time...
The new schedule is grueling...I barely have time to use the restroom...Today - super long and challenging....have to go get my picture made for our new badges this morning on the way to work...in between classes, finish our departments newsletter for tonight...curriculum/ptsa until 7:30....
all this after coming home yesterday and finding my water has been disconnected because I didn't pay my bill....Been a customer for 17 yrs and no call or anything....I don't recall seeing a bill or it would have been paid...so - in between everything else...deal with the water company...


Come on Friday and the weekend!!!!

Soon 10-18-2012 05:29 AM

Field Trip Day!
 
Off for an over three hour bus ride to see a performance of The Pirates of Penzance. Nope, not a luxe bus, either. Oh well...maybe I can get some marking done. :blink:

bkisbutchenuff 10-19-2012 03:52 AM

Yesterday was a very hard day....I've never had a total melt down - but I think I came close yesterday....I don't know what these people are thinking....I am a strong willed person, an excellent educator - but what they have done this year has almost brought me to my knees...things have happened this year that have not happened in 24 yrs prior...give me strenghth....
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TGI
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Soon 10-19-2012 05:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Soon (Post 678077)
Off for an over three hour bus ride to see a performance of The Pirates of Penzance. Nope, not a luxe bus, either. Oh well...maybe I can get some marking done. :blink:

Marking? What marking? Ha!

Spent the bus ride chit chatting with one my fave English peeps and staring out the window--I forgot how soothing a road trip can be (even with teenagers cackling with laughter behind me).

Sorry for your troubles, BK. I hope today is a better one.

bkisbutchenuff 10-21-2012 07:42 AM

Not to whine...but for the first time in my career...I would do anything to not have face Dante's Inferno ... just saying....

spritzerJ 10-21-2012 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by bkisbutchenuff (Post 680483)
Not to whine...but for the first time in my career...I would do anything to not have face Dante's Inferno ... just saying....

Congratulations on making it this far! Sometimes there really is no rhyme or reason to how and when we get those "years" professionally. You know the shake your head and wonder just how fucked up can it really get and are there any competent administrators out there feeling.... :seeingstars:

I hope you survive BK. It would be a great sadness and loss if you didn't.

Chancie 10-21-2012 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Chancie (Post 671257)
I like talking to parents and I welcome their input if there's something they think I should know about their child. In one way, I am very lucky because I have really fun toys for interesting classes, but it does make for huge cleanup. Once in a while there are parents who pretend they can't see the other ten people in the room. We are supposed to have a sign up sheet for them to ask a counselor to call them and make an appointment for a longer meeting. I like Open House though.

Open House went pretty well. I teach in a small rural community, and it's a very social event. The kids who are active in clubs like FFA wear their jackets and the kids in Culinary make cookies. It's very sweet.

Tons of kids in electronics and robotics dragged in their families to show off their work and to meet me. There was one group of families of ninth graders who expected a presentation, which I had not prepared. Mostly I chatted with parents.

One mother of a ninth grader, anxious to skip the non existent presentation, merely introduced herself. Her family lives across the road from Pete's mother, so I said, Hi, I am across the road neighbor's daughter's partner, and she was a little flummoxed, and I regret identifying myself beyond, Hi, nice to meet you.

Martina 10-21-2012 01:01 PM

I moved for this job. The job is working out so far. Except for a higher proportion of loopy parents, I am enjoying the lower stress environment. I still work closely with students, but. . . aieee. It's hard to explain without kind of saying what I do. But I no longer have classroom management issues. I work with students one on one or in very small groups. Although one day I was teaching math to two students who kept interrupting me and thought OMG I have totally lost my skillz in just a couple of months. I can't even teach two students together. Not true. But lol.

Anyway, all I do now is encourage and motivate. I rarely have to kick butt. One neighboring teacher had a kid using the f-bomb one day and I couldn't resist and nearly threw him out. It turned out someone had stolen his bike AND his dog had just died. That's why the teacher was letting it go. Plus the kid was ED. I didn't know. I completely silenced the poor kid. I felt bad after the teacher explained. Anyway . . .

I moved. That's my point. And I am not reaching out and meeting people. Weight gain and arthritis make me not want to. Hell, I don't even hang with my nice roommates so much. Back home, I would probably also be isolating, but not this much.

ANd it's begun to be a problem. The job is great -- as jobs in education go -- but it's not my life. That's one reason I got the job, so I would have energy at the end of the day. But I am not overwhelmed by the beauty of the area I am in. (I sacrificed that.) And I am not near the friends I hang out with no matter how creaky and grumpy I am. So I have to take action. On my health and I just have to start making time for others.

It's not going to be fun. I am way past being able to walk for exercise. So I have to swim. Anyway, there are lots of "have to's" and I am kind of daunted. But I can't be a good teacher or a good anything if I am in pain and isolated. And I am letting that happen.

lusciouskiwi 10-21-2012 06:53 PM

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bkisbutchenuff 10-22-2012 03:48 AM

Like it or not...here I go....

Hope everyone has a great week!

lusciouskiwi 10-22-2012 04:02 AM

It sucks that you're having such a hard time at school BK. But, you know you're good at what you do and the kids who want to learn from you do. Administrators can't take away the positive impact you have as a teacher.

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spritzerJ 10-22-2012 04:17 AM

Oh it is true. Every time I'm slightly tortured by being across the hall from the music teacher or listening to early morning before school band I understand.... you folks are saints.

bkisbutchenuff 10-26-2012 04:20 AM

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Have a great day and wonderful weekend! Well earned!

cinnamongrrl 10-26-2012 04:40 AM

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Originally Posted by bkisbutchenuff (Post 680483)
Not to whine...but for the first time in my career...I would do anything to not have face Dante's Inferno ... just saying....

i think i recall not loving that book....The Decameron.... now that was a good book.....

bkisbutchenuff 10-26-2012 05:47 AM

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Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl563 (Post 684301)
i think i recall not loving that book....The Decameron.... now that was a good book.....

Unfortunately - its not a book...... :|

cinnamongrrl 10-26-2012 06:31 AM

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Unfortunately - its not a book...... :|

then what is it exactly...hmmmmm?

spritzerJ 10-26-2012 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl563 (Post 684358)
then what is it exactly...hmmmmm?

Yes unfortunately it refers to current working conditions in BK's school. :candle:

bkisbutchenuff 10-30-2012 03:09 AM

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cinnamongrrl 10-30-2012 04:03 AM

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Originally Posted by spritzerJ (Post 684425)
Yes unfortunately it refers to current working conditions in BK's school. :candle:

lol sometimes I am just too literal.... :P

sis 10-30-2012 05:23 AM

Actually, I'm glad its on a Wednesday but only because I'm teaching in Vietnam!! lolol It makes a nice break in the middle of the week. I teach the six and under crowd and they are quite excited about it. Hope you all have some fun while out and about haunting your neighbourhoods!

lusciouskiwi 10-31-2012 04:45 AM

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Soon 10-31-2012 04:47 AM

Heya fellow teachers!

Venting Warning Ahead:

I've got way too much to do before midterm reports are due next week! I have far too much marking, and then entering marks, and then typing in the comments! (btw, what program do people use for marks/grades--we have this one called Markbook)

It's cold and rainy and I am a real suck right now. I just don't feel like being ON and talking to anyone. Sigh.

In other news, I posted a pic in the galleries of me outside my classroom. :)

Chancie 11-01-2012 02:45 PM

School was closed Monday, and then I was out sick for two days. I still felt crappy this morning but I couldn't bear leaving the kids with a sub again, so I went in. I felt so punky by the end of the day, I almost cried, and I lost my temper with a wounded kid with limited social and emotional skills. I apologized to my class, and they were like, God, that's nothing, Miss Chancie, but I felt terrible, inside and out. I know it's just because I'm sick but I feel like I can't catch up, like I'll never finish grading, that I won't have time to call the parents of kids who aren't doing well. I still haven't ordered any of the supplies I need for my two hands on classes and I've been laying out my own money all year and I haven't filled out the form to get reimbursed. Ugh, I feel awful.

Martina 11-01-2012 03:51 PM

((((( Chancie )))))) I hope you feel better soon.

It must be in the air. I am in IEP hell.


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