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nina03 05-26-2017 10:21 AM

I mailed all my postcards today!! Forgive the terrible handwriting!

Soft*Silver 05-26-2017 11:32 AM

I am going to send Navy a postcard. I will leave it up to you whether or not to send him one.

I grieve this loss. I liked NB. He was polite and caring and a gentleman. Whoever he was in the past, we wont know. He could have been a cad. I just know who he presented himself as now. This is why I chose to send him a postcard. But its up to you if you want to send him one or not.

I am going to address this with Ms Medusa as well, to see if there are any concerns she has with us sending him postcards

Gemme 05-26-2017 04:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1145932)
I've always been confused about the 'identity issues".

Does it ALWAYS mean they were "timed out" under their old screen name or could it just be they made another screen name, which one needs permission for,and they failed to do that?

In my experience, it's not a good thing. Usually, when it's benevolent issue, there's a 'formally known as' type of message under the new screen name. Sometimes it's in the signature but it's usually there if it's a "harmless" situation.

I've been duped before and I'm sure will be again as folks that have been removed from the site tend to weasel their way back in, one way or another. Luckily, they are usually caught pretty quickly. Sometimes I can spot a returning person and sometimes I can't.

Lyte 05-26-2017 04:53 PM

"highly esteemed?!" :|

Speaking only for myself... bah! ;)


Quote:

Originally Posted by socialjustice_fsu (Post 1145564)
I'm in! Soft Silver approved my request to join this highly esteemed group! Looking forward to this'


Chained Daisy 05-26-2017 05:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1145968)
In my experience, it's not a good thing. Usually, when it's benevolent issue, there's a 'formally known as' type of message under the new screen name. Sometimes it's in the signature but it's usually there if it's a "harmless" situation.

I've been duped before and I'm sure will be again as folks that have been removed from the site tend to weasel their way back in, one way or another. Luckily, they are usually caught pretty quickly. Sometimes I can spot a returning person and sometimes I can't.

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1145932)
I've always been confused about the 'identity issues".

Does it ALWAYS mean they were "timed out" under their old screen name or could it just be they made another screen name, which one needs permission for,and they failed to do that?

Forgive the intrusion, I wouldn't normally be posting here as I am not taking part in the swap, however on reading the discussion which touched on identity issues I felt this may be relevant to me...

I was a member before known as Daisy Chain, I managed to lock myself out of my account with an email change, I did mail admin soon after but didnt get a reply, life took over and time passed but I found myself visiting as a guest so decided to rejoin, switching my old name about seemed like a good idea to keep some continuity. I didnt know I needed permission for this until reading Homoe`s post, my apologies to all. This may all sound like a long ramble {it probably is !} but I was a little concerned my rejoining and name change may come across as underhanded in some way after reading of other members `identity issues` so wished to clarify. Gemme raises a good point about `previously known as` so I will add that to my signature.

Apologies for the derailing, thanks for reading.

cathexis 05-26-2017 08:36 PM

To all participating in the Post Card exchange 2017
 
NavyButch who was dropped without warning yesterday, still plans to participate in the Post Card Exchange. Has all needed cars, and is ready to go. Also, has the necessary addresses and postage.

If anyone has a question or problem, they can contact me via PM or e-mail My email address Fox_deSade@Outlook.com

Thanks!

Breathless 05-26-2017 08:46 PM

okay my 2 cents.. let's please Refrain from making assumptions. We are not administrators, and truthfully it is not any of our business, I can vouch to the fact that sometimes it really is something minor. The address have already been sent out, I have talked to Navy outside of the site and trust that his participation in this project is sincere. I will be sending the cards I picked for each participant. Cheers!

Gemme 05-27-2017 05:14 AM

No one's telling anyone else to or not to swap with Navy. That's up to each person. However, people don't get timed out for no reason, so it's not about 'making assumptions', especially when the reasoning has been shared by the administrators.

Chained Daisy, thank you for your post. It's helpful for folks who may have interacted with you previously to know that you are 'that' person, so I always appreciate it when someone who does come back under a new name, no matter the reason, is transparent about it.

Sorry for the sideways derail, Soft! My cards went out late yesterday.

nina03 05-30-2017 04:37 PM

Gemme! I got your postcard! I love it, and thanks! So far, I've gotten cards from Gemme and homoe.

Soft*Silver 05-30-2017 05:08 PM

I received Homoe's card today! Loved it!

I am ok with sending NB postcards and plan on staying in touch with him. There are managerial reasons why decisions are made by the admins. But it doesnt/shouldnt affect individual members and their choices to stay in contact.

candy_coated_bitch 05-30-2017 05:10 PM

Just so you know my cards will be going out next week sometime. I'm a little slow but haven't flaked!

Gemme 05-30-2017 06:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nina03 (Post 1146716)
Gemme! I got your postcard! I love it, and thanks! So far, I've gotten cards from Gemme and homoe.

Thank you, Nina. Got yours today and I love it!

Quote:

Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch (Post 1146726)
Just so you know my cards will be going out next week sometime. I'm a little slow but haven't flaked!

No worries. Some folks might still be waiting on their orders to come in.

GeorgiaMa'am 05-30-2017 06:50 PM

Thank you Gemme, homoe and nina!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1146798)
No worries. Some folks might still be waiting on their orders to come in.

Mine just arrived today. They will probably go out in Thursday's mail.

Lyte 05-30-2017 08:32 PM

Me too y'all! I didn't really have enough women oriented cards so I ordered some more. ;)

Quote:

Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch (Post 1146726)
Just so you know my cards will be going out next week sometime. I'm a little slow but haven't flaked!


Zimmeh 05-31-2017 12:01 AM

I'm going to order some cards tomorrow! I found some cute Bettie Page cards on eBay!

I received a few cards already! Thank you all :)

Zimmeh

candy_coated_bitch 05-31-2017 05:07 AM

I've gotten cards from homoe, Gemme, and Nina. Love them all!

homoe 06-02-2017 07:01 PM

I think this 'theme' exchange has worked out really well :hangloose:

candy_coated_bitch 06-03-2017 03:05 PM

This procrastinator ordered her cards today. But I have Amazon prime and they will be here Monday. I will get them out asap.

purepisces 06-03-2017 06:38 PM

I am making my postcards and have three more to do. With any luck, I'll finish tomorrow and mail them out on Monday!

GeorgiaMa'am 06-03-2017 07:07 PM

I got a card from Bèsame* today - so sweet, and it was exactly the shot in the arm that I needed today. Thanks!


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