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theoddz 08-09-2014 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Medusa (Post 926415)
It's a bad feeling when you come across a photo of someone you went to high school with in a friend-of-a-friend way on Facebook and you go to check out their profile and friend them and realize they died last year.

She was 35. Thirty fucking five. Cancer? At thirty fucking five.

I still have photos of us together in high school in all manner of fuckery. Photos of borrowing each other's prom dresses and doing each other's makeup. She was my friend and I can't fucking believe Cancer got her.

MJ. I remember you.

Wow, that's sad. I'm so sorry for your loss, 'Dusa. :(

I have a subscription to the web site, beenverified.com and I've been looking up my former classmates on that. I know, I'm nosey, but I'm not doing it out of malice. I just want to know where many of my old friends (whom I hesitate to "catch up with" because I grew up in the "bible belt" and I know that most of them come from conservative backgrounds) got to.

I've found a LOT of them to be "deceased". Now, I know that my generation (later years of the baby boom, mostly born in early/mid 60's) isn't nearly as healthy as the generations before. We tend to have more cancer and chronic disease than the folks before us, but heck.......I'm 53 y/o and so many of my contemporaries are DEAD??? Jeesh, my 92 y/o Mom still has friends, who, at their ripe old age, are still alive and mostly healthy. :thinking:

It's depressing. I've got to stop reading the obituaries in my hometown newspaper.....and looking up folks on beenverified.com. :confused:

Either that.......or get a prescription for Prozac. :twitch:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

JDeere 08-09-2014 10:39 PM

Finding out the truth about my ancestors

cinnamongrrl 08-10-2014 05:28 AM

A shifty event yesterday....

I went to see about buying a car from this guy.... The whole situation seemed...odd. He wouldn't tell me where he lived exactly. He had me meet him at a house that looked empty... He wanted to drive with me to go where the car was ACTUALLY located.. I insisted on following him and he took me here there and everywhere down these country roads.

He stopped for gas and while he was inside I just took off...the something-is-wicked-wrong feeling wouldn't leave me. I could be wrong, but I didn't want to find out that I was right...better safe than sorry is my motto.

ONLY 08-10-2014 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by ONLY (Post 923607)
SS if you have started to read, STOP!!!!, you can read after the wedding lol



What isn't on my mind nowadays :blink: lol

My girl (f), our wedding, getting everything done (8 weeks away), a letter that had to be sent in the province I live to validate her US divorce, which if for whatever reason we don't get anything back from them/or they don't validate, we can't marry (that letter is sitting in a post office waiting to be claimed UGH!!!!), hotel room misbookings on the management end, the script for the ceremony and our input, a surprise I wanna try to do for my girl (f) at the wedding, my surgery (remove a cyst/abscess from my eyelid that I have had for 3 months), will I still have this job (contract) at the end of the year (hope to become permanent), so many things are on my mind but will stop at that.......

Again..... SS if you have started to read, STOP!!!! , you can read after the wedding lol

Well we did get the validation from the province and they grant us permission to marry :) (I won't believe we are married until we officially say I DO! and even then....with all the crap we have to go through to be together is insane, probably always be worried that someone/something will take it away :( )

Also have to continue with all our immigration papers so SS (f) can become a permanent resident (THAT is a whole other story, complicate AND overwhelming)

Hotel room is booked :)

Had my eye surgery and so far so good :)

My work contract, well the position has become permanent but I will still have to apply and HOPE that I get it (all depends on seniority and I have plenty but still......never know)

Still have to get our "script" to our officiant, we still want to relook at it before we send it in.

Okay I will leave it at that, it enough for now ;)

Queenie 08-10-2014 10:40 AM

That I feel like crap from my period! Its like someone pulled out my battery. *blah*

LoyalWolfsBlade 08-10-2014 06:51 PM

That I honestly just forgot what I was going to post....oh well either I will recall or it wasn't all that important

LoyalWolfsBlade 08-10-2014 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by LoyalWolfsBlade (Post 926786)
That I honestly just forgot what I was going to post....oh well either I will recall or it wasn't all that important

Knew I would recall,,,,seems I have been mistaking someone having the wrong perception of what I write to selective reading instead of selective hearing. Not with everyone of course but I am running into it more and more. Can't even blame it on my ablity to be long winded bcs the phenomenon occurs no matter the length.
However, this type of selective listening is more irritating bcs it dosen't seem to be as easily corrected as the active verbal selective hearing is. Maybe I'm just more irritated by it due to how long it takes me to type (especially on the phone keypad) and bcs of that I seem to feel more intensely about the words I am communicating.
I can also feel my depression level rising due to my pain level and that tends to make me more impatient sometimes. Lovely how it all feeds each other then add in what is turning out to be an unhealthy living environment (should have seen that coming since my family is involved), lack of a supportive non family environment (again shouldn't be surprised mid size town in hickville Georgia afer all), and then throw in a fucked up sleeping pattern topped with a truck load of stress. Got off topic blame it on having to much on my mind.....

JimmiJ 08-10-2014 07:56 PM

I havent watch tv or seen any news in months. love it.

JDeere 08-11-2014 12:24 AM

Getting another tattoo, yes or no!

JustLovelyJenn 08-11-2014 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 926834)
Getting another tattoo, yes or no!

the answer to that question is always yes...

Gemme 08-11-2014 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 926834)
Getting another tattoo, yes or no!

See below.

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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn (Post 926837)
the answer to that question is always yes...

Exactly!

MsTinkerbelly 08-11-2014 12:43 PM

My training as a caregiver came in handy today.

Our neighbor has alzheimer's disease, and his caregiver did not show up today or call. His wife had to leave for work as today was the first day back for the schools in our area, so she ran over and asked for my help.

I only had to change one diaper and sit with him on the patio for 1-1/2 hours until the daughter could get there, but i gotta tell you, it felt so nice to be needed.

What is on my mind is...i want to go back to work so badly and i can't. Maybe this should go in the what made you sad thread.

cinnamongrrl 08-11-2014 01:16 PM

the lack of logic in this world/ country.....

Yep....I spent the majority of my day (off) at the DMV.......

Im also wondering if its possible for a brain to liiterally explode....or implode.....

JDeere 08-11-2014 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn (Post 926837)
the answer to that question is always yes...

Then I will be going to get one soon!

JDeere 08-11-2014 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 926872)
See below.



Exactly!

Since Gemme and Jenn said yes then it will be a go on getting another tattoo!

MysticOceansFL 08-11-2014 07:07 PM

A multitude of things ..............

Gemme 08-12-2014 05:01 AM

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 926979)
Since Gemme and Jenn said yes then it will be a go on getting another tattoo!

Fantastic! You'll have to let us know what you get.

LoyalWolfsBlade 08-12-2014 05:28 AM

How that when one door closes in my life another opens. That when you are not trying/looking Karma and or the Gods/Goddesses will open the right door. The right door at just the right time, the right place, and the correct need is usually opened when you least expect it and are just about to give up. Now all that is needed is the courage to follow the path and actually go through the unexpected open door.

JDeere 08-12-2014 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 927056)
Fantastic! You'll have to let us know what you get.

I shall post a pic when I get it done.:jester:

JDeere 08-12-2014 07:27 PM

Ummm what is on my mind, the fact that my favorite pig is going to slaughter, next round up. Not happy over here.


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