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If I'm taking the piss and being sarcastic and teasing, it means I'm irritated and exasperated and willing to talk.

The second I get reeeeeeaaaaly polite it means
1) I think you are a fucking arse
2) you need to fuck off for a while before I pull your lungs out of your nose with a spoon.

If I go totally silent that means enraged. 10/10 on the implosion scale.

I jokingly gave one of my partners an anger scale from 1-10 1 being mildly irritated to 10 being incandescent rage.

They had little faces and my usual reactions and up to what level I could joke around in (up to 6) if the person had the charm and skill required to do so. Some people don't and I find I got from a 2 to a 7 in a matter of seconds. Others, there some kind of natural understanding and they can take me from a 6 to 1 in five words and make me laugh.

I love being home. A lot. But the west coast is very serious in certain ways. I seem to get a long much better with east coast temperaments.

Naturally THIS is how I communicate when angered.

http://slantmouth.com/articles/setWa...es/tantrum.gif

No, No, No, all silliness aside, history is not kind to me. In my younger-thought-I-was-a-bad-ass days of Uber Butchness, I was quick to jump to conclusions, thought the worst of every situation and would hold a grudge.

As the years have ticked off the calendar, very few things upset me. If situations nettle me in some way, I know it will pass and finding humor in MOST situations has saved my mental health. Trust that humor is a miracle panacea for most things.

The older I get, a sense of calm blankets me in a way that is a bit surprising considering my history of having a wee bit of a temper.

These days I light a few firecrackers(3-4) to let off steam.One of my storage finds was a case of black cat super charged crackers...amazing noise for a tiny cracker...scares the freakin' djinn right out of me..and her too :runforhills:

And for those really bad tantrums,I bring out the M80s...talk about attention getting..for real

Sometimes spanish is hard to understand..:weedsmoke: