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dont get into ruts!!!
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Draw her a bath in the evening... her book within reach or the cd player with her favorite cd in it (a choice to what she prefers that evening), candles (a scent she enjoys, I would put lavender for my girl (f) ), a glass of wine (a drink she enjoys, my lady happens to enjoy a glass of wine) and do this just because.........and depending on how things go, you can go and see her after while and just sit beside her by the tub........and have the bed made up with fresh new sheets and more candles and ready for some loooooovemaking ;)
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Be present in the time you have together and make sure the other person knows what they mean to you.
Never forget to tell your partner you appreciate the little things. |
get a puppy!
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Don't forget to play, have fun. It doesn't always have to be serious.
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If he/she tells you you've hurt their feelings, regardless of whether YOU think that whatever it was should've hurt their feelings, apologize and be empathetic. We don't choose to get our feelings hurt, and if you love someone, it shouldn't matter who was right, and they should matter enough to say I'm sorry.
And lastly.... don't lose your crush :) |
Either make it work somehow or get out, no point in making everyone miserable.
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Become a good listener.
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When I send you out to run some errands remember that I only like citrus scented cleaning products.
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Tell The Truth
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Be Sincere
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Tell them every day how much you love them, either in actions or words :)
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Do the laundry in between your work from home day...
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Make sure your partner knows they are the most important person in your world...
every single day. :) |
Seriously....
Cherish each and every day with that person you love and adore and DO NOT take one another for granted.... |
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Yes G...Care to have your undies washed? :boxers:
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Be honest! Don't carry something around in your head, not letting your partner know. It just makes the inevitable that much more painful.
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chose her above any friend you might have. ANY friend. Make HER your best friend. Its ok to have other friends,important to have other friends, but not at the cost of your relationship
be faithful. Or get out. Either way you are the hero in your relationship. Even if you dont follow thru but want to, know she Knows you want to. It hurts. Like Dee said, if you need out, get out, dont make her suffer because you lack balls to be a hero in your relationship. like yourself more than she loves you. Dont let her carry your self esteem. She isnt strong enuf, no matter how strong she is |
At the end of the day, ask her how her day went, pay attention to her, look her in the eyes when she is speaking to you, and if she had a rough day, let her vent if she needs to, listen and then bring her close to you and hug her tight.....with option to then whisper in her ear..... "now let me take your mind off work........" :love1: If her day made her sad, then comfort her, hold her.......
OR depending on situation (if she is pissed off, not sad) you might wanna stop her mid sentence and make mad passionate love to her :p then do some talking :) |
for readers
read together on the same sofa
read to each other on sofa, or bed or in tent read to her. Greco |
leave your baggage behind, that's where it belongs.
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She reads to me (over the phone) before bed and most times I fall asleep within 5 minutes and she thinks that's adorable and loves it
She says I snore (not all the time, right baby? :p) and think it's peaceful, comforting and cute lol Now you tell me, is that love or what? ;) I love listening to her read to me, very calming, comforting, relaxing :) I love you SS (f) * these are things (fall asleep while she reads and snore) NOT to do in a relationship but for us it works :thumbsup: lol * |
And lastly.... don't lose your crush :)[/COLOR][/B][/QUOTE]
I love this. That is what I want, for me to keep my crush and for my someone to keep hys! |
Absolutely, APG! I was STILL crushing on my wife..the day she passed! I was so in love with that woman!!! And she, me. I want THAT again!
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Listen to her, I mean really listen, don't just "hear" what she says "know" what she says and how she says it.
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arms are for holding
after you have taken her completely made love to her
hold her hold her forever and never ever take her for granted. Greco |
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I love it that we have this bedtime ritual and that my voice is the last thing you hear before you drift off.... AND you have the cutest lil snore in the world!! I love you with all my heart. |
enjoy Jello together!
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Celebrate every anniversary and day!
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Forgive each other and be happy when it's time to move on.
Hold on to the good stuff... let go of the icky stuff....... |
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Make sure they know how connected you are to them and how very much you believe in and need that connection.
As impossible as it is to fully show them how special and important they are to you, try. And let them do all of this for you. |
Trust. ..........
And take your Vitamin C |
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Honesty and Communication.
Honesty even if the truth hurts the truth is still the truth and both parties deserve it... ALWAYS Communication.. Talk about it all! Even if it is insignificant to you it may not be insignificant to your partner. |
fuck long and hard. Decide who does what- assign roles.
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Have goals as a couple!
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