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miss entycing 04-19-2012 07:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Spirit Dancer (Post 566867)
And so it it begins.......starting at 3 and going to one.
Everyday a new prayer and new flame to light the way,
it is said the light continues to illuminate the way,
for the helpers when we need them.
We're lighting for you Lady D and keeping those prayers and energy flowing to you.
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Originally Posted by Spirit Dancer (Post 567672)
With FAITH
Comes HOPE
and tomorrow
will be a new beginning, with perfect health.
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And so it begins... today.

Thank You my gorgeous Sistah and Brother in law for Your unwavering strength, and love...
it's almost time to go, i'm scared to death, shaking like a leaf,
and wishing i could hide somewhere in a corner so i didnt have to go,
and i take comfort in knowing that i am surrounded by such magnificent love and strength.
i know it's gonna be ok- i feel it!
:vigil:

Thanks everyone who has sent me light and strength, it is much appreciated,
and as always my friends, i send blessings, light and love to all of you.
Always, my candles burn here... know that.
Jax and i appreciate all the kindness shown, and blessings.


and so it begins....
see y'all soon.
deanna
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Tommi 04-19-2012 08:04 AM

Bernie and Bette
 
Please put some special thoughts and prayers out there for Bernie. Bernie has been writing to me from her hospital bed about getting help for my estranged wife Peggie, with the insurance and doctors and other helpful hints for Peg. In the midst of what she is going through, she has been thinking of Peg's portable oxygen needs, and sending me info.

Our friend Bernie who lives in Northern Calif. may lose her lower leg if this 3rd knee reconstruction doesn't take hold and the infection doesn't clear. She has been hospitalized for most of the last 10 months due to complications and infections. The original knee replacement was removed, then they put in a plate and no knee, and last week they cleaned that all up and have tried another artificial knee. Bette visits her daily.
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She really is in need of prayers and some cheering up. Bette and Bernie have celebrated 37 years together. After visiting Bernie Bette took the train from Sacramento to LA for her nieces birthday. She never drives long distance without Bernie in the car. A bunch of ols friends got together for a pizza party at Peg's. Bette is worried about Bernie, because she is so depressed over this 3rd set of complications... and asked that we all stay in touch. I'll get her address for Get Well Cards and let you know.

Best Regards.

Tommi

Spirit Dancer 04-19-2012 08:07 AM

Lady D
 
You're right, a new day with health restored and you're never alone.
Sending energy and light your way for this day. He'll bring you through it, for you claimed it!
Keep your faith and no running to the forest to hide away:praying:

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Spirit Dancer 04-19-2012 08:14 AM


Turtle 04-20-2012 08:32 AM

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Wishing Peace, Healing, Restoration, Courage, and Abounding Love to All of Us as We are Present with Our Challenges...

MaggieBluIze 04-20-2012 10:38 AM

Please send special thoughts my Dad's way.
He is getting his arteries tested today in preparation for open heart surgery.

I love you so much Dad! You WILL get through this and have an even better heart, who knew that could be possible.

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Hollylane 04-22-2012 10:20 AM

For Anya again...I'm keeping you in my thoughts.

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girl_dee 04-22-2012 01:44 PM

For Tonya (Apache) and her family

puddin' 04-22-2012 08:06 PM

how come i'ma only jus' discoverin' dis lovely thread?!

no matta, i now have a half dozen candles lit fo' ever'one hea...

Spirit Dancer 04-23-2012 08:27 AM

Lady D
 

Spirit Dancer 04-23-2012 08:30 AM

For Tommi and Peggie
 
As the winds bring change there is now hopw and with the hope
comes respite. Allowing if only briefly time to regroup.
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Spirit Dancer 04-23-2012 08:31 AM

Bernie and Bette
 
For continued strength and energy to get better
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Spirit Dancer 04-23-2012 08:36 AM

For Eagle Spirit
 
As we face this next journey, know you're not alone.
Even as you slumber I watch over you, during the dark moments
i'll be the beacon to light you way and my voice will always soothe you.
For there is no greater faith than love and you're loved.
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Spirit Dancer 04-23-2012 08:40 AM

For Wolfy. R and Wolfy's brother
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Tommi 04-23-2012 11:06 AM

Candles for Peg~~ Keep the Evil Away.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Spirit Dancer (Post 570904)
As the winds bring change there is now hopw and with the hope
comes respite. Allowing if only briefly time to regroup.
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Peg's Granddaughte Kristal Rose and her friend Kim drove down to rescue Gramma Peggie. Along w/Great kids Kyle (7) and Avril (4) (who Peg has never seen drove from Nampsa Oregonn. They gave Peggie new life and helped her come back to life, got Peg's son Fred's actions revoked, and all is good so far.

Leia, the grandaughter we raised arrives at LAX Wed.s night.
Many know I have been away, traveling from my work and my house to take care of my ex partner who is very ill, family matters of her cargiving needs since it has been solely me since I took her to the hospital Mid. Sept. She was a heaver smoker and it has taken a serious toll. She is on a Positive Air oncentrator, 4L of Oxygen 24/7, sees heart, lung, eye and primary care Doc's at least once a week. I travel 50 miles round trip form my house to hers. The family is all out of state..Until end of March when her son came, ransacked her house, took her coins and paper money collection, her car, and sent her furniture to Vancouver , WA. and drove her car to his house. His wife had made a lost....He took her to the banks, made himself beneficiary, Power of Attorney, took her to the Auto Club, ordered dup. title. to car, dup. deed to house, closed her PO Box, canceled the gardner meals on wheels, Bottled water, and had real estate agents appraising the house. Giving away hundreds of art books, original oil paintings, and HIS SISTER, HER GRAND AND GREATGRAND KIDS knew NOTHING about what he was doing to this poor sick woman. He had her scheduled for a flight on 4/11/12 and his wife was to pick Peggie up at Portland airport. He had NO Oxygen, No plans to see a Doctor until 4/18, the wife's primary care in WA, A a gynecologist. I called this Doc, dexscibed Peggie's condition, COPD, CHF, bilateral edema of her feet n legs. Doc said she had no idea Peggie was sick, just that her Daughter in Law made the appoint the day I was sitting at Peg's . She would not have survived the flight, or staying in the room he was going to rent to her for $500.oo

Peg was to fly out Wed. the 11th, Salvation Army was to come and clean out the 2,600 Sq. foot house, what they did not take would be left, and he had an 18 ton dumpster scheduled for 3 days that week.

NO ONE KNEW... I made my usual Frida call about visiting and she said Fred is here and he is taking me to his house....NOT..all is okay, for today.

I am late for work, but needed to get this out of my head, and my heat.

Thanks for being there, understanding and the energy and love you have sent our way.

I notified everyone, the Doctor's here, The Doc;s the Gyne said she would refer her to & her case mananger, etc. ALL came to a halt. The Doc's here said they would not realease her, and would see her on her routine appt. May 1. Fred had to cancel the Jet Blue flight from Long Beach to Portland.

AT & T called Sat, to ask where to send the closing bill for her telephone about to be turned off Monday. They have been getting and opeing her mail sine 3/30. Kristal did all the mail changes, Revoked Power of Attorny, and put herself there, and went to all the banks and had him removed as beneficiary. Do ya see how easy Elder Abuse is?

Leai, Peggie and I see an Attorney Friday to see what else she can dp to protect herself. Her case manager wanted to call Adult Protective Services, but she said no. He is not my son anymore. My daughter and my grandkids need to know what their Uncle Fred did to me, so it will stop happening.

Caregive and living at home is her option, and Grandkids agree. Assisted living wouldn't suit her for now.

So, burn the candles bright, surround her with protective light, and strength to heal and to carry on.

MaggieBluIze 04-23-2012 02:18 PM

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Lighting a candle for my Dad.
He is scheduled for his open heart surgery tomorrow morning at 8:30.
He Will get through this.
He Will heal and be stronger.
He will have plenty of more time with us.
Have a blessed day .......

clay 04-23-2012 09:10 PM

For my sweet friend, Debby!!!!
 
(f)
I will be holding you close in my heart & thoughts...please let me know ASAP!!!
Miss Scarlett & I send you healing energies and courage, strength. YOU can do this...fight, girl, fight!!! I love you my friend!! always..Clay
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clay 04-23-2012 09:14 PM

for CID!!!
 
Celebrate, celebrate, and celebrate some more....sending you big hugs and this flame...dancing in the night..go for it my friend!!
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SugarFemme 04-23-2012 09:31 PM

Maggie, I JUST went thru this with my Dad. I will say a prayer for complete healing and recovery for your father. It worked for my Dad, and I believe it will work for yours too.


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Quote:

Originally Posted by MaggieBluIze (Post 571121)
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Lighting a candle for my Dad.
He is scheduled for his open heart surgery tomorrow morning at 8:30.
He Will get through this.
He Will heal and be stronger.
He will have plenty of more time with us.
Have a blessed day .......


Miss Scarlett 04-24-2012 04:42 AM

For Debby...from Clay and Scarlett...holding you close in love and light...

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Tommi 04-24-2012 06:52 AM

To Maggie's Dad..
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by MaggieBluIze (Post 571121)
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Lighting a candle for my Dad.
He is scheduled for his open heart surgery tomorrow morning at 8:30.
He Will get through this.
He Will heal and be stronger.
He will have plenty of more time with us.
Have a blessed day .......

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Tommi 04-24-2012 06:57 AM

For all of us. May joy find you, peace cover you, and faith pull you through.
 
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I WANT to find this. .Candles fof all those in need, a place to rest and recover.

Miss Scarlett 04-25-2012 04:48 AM

For Debby...from Clay and Scarlett...sending you loving, healing energy and peace...

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Spirit Dancer 04-25-2012 06:20 AM

For those who come here seeking light
and those who come leaving light,
there's a circle of prayers and energy that remains
long after flames dwindle.
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clay 04-25-2012 09:42 PM

Healing Energies for Debby!!!
 
Debby came thru surgery and is resting in her room tonight. Please hold her up in your thoughts and prayers...we love you, Debby! Rest well..rest easy, my friend!!! ..Clay & Scarlett....:rrose:http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_coiqgshAu1...ted+candle.jpg

miss entycing 04-26-2012 05:34 AM

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my candle is still lit, and gently placed in love and light.... always.

it's lovely to be back, i always miss this thread the most when i'm gone-
it holds a special and deep place in my soul... it always has.
the connection here is lovely, gentle, compassionate, loving, calm, unselfish, beautiful and serene...
all rarities in life these days. i treasure the light and love here so very much.

and tho i can't say surgery last week went well, because it really didn't-
i had to be taken back into surgery twice after my initial big one,
because i bled out internally two seperate times-
so we ended up with 3 surgeries in 19 hours, it was pretty intense there for a while...
so, what else-the surgeons broke a tooth while putting the tube back in my throat..
Yikes!! a mess- all of it!! and i am so grateful that it's done for now!
i'm just now really even starting to come back to life, after 6 days.
truthfully, i can't say that i remember the first 2 days home after being released from the hospital,
and other than to shower and little stuff, you know, like more ice cream, lol.
i haven't even left the big-soft-fluffy-comfy-pillows and blankies everywhere-
and stacked high-big girl-princess bed that Jax made specially in the middle of our living room.
blessed i am, to have such a devoted and unconditional love thru all this.

but like i said above, surgery didnt go as planned, but i do feel like it was a success in the long run,
and i'm still putting it out to the universe that pathology will come back with positive results.
i have to believe that, i can't afford not to believe, right? Can anyone really?

i wanted to take a minute to say 'Thank You' everybody.
for all the candles, support, strength and love shown.
thanks for all the cards, emails, the phone calls, the texts, the flowers-
our home is full of stunning flowers everywhere i look, the scents and colors are amazing!
its lovely, and i'm smiling.

always, and most especially- my beautiful soul Sistah and Brother in law,
thank you for leaving light in my dark, laughter thru my tears...
i adore You both... thank you for the gifts that make my soul smile.
i felt You... i still feel You.
((((( )))))

blessings, love, and light my friends here, there, all around me.
my heart is full, and i gracefully pay it forward to all of you here with this candle.
deanna
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JAGG 04-26-2012 07:14 PM

Lighting a candle for MsTinkerbelly's family tonight.

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Spirit Dancer 04-27-2012 07:02 AM


clay 04-27-2012 08:18 AM

For MsTinkerbelly & her family! Love, Scarlett & Clayhttp://ep5t.files.wordpress.com/2010...ndle-light.jpg

clay 04-27-2012 08:22 AM

sometimes when our own flame dwindles, flickers, or goes out, that flame can be gently rekindled with love, compassion, and support of all our friends, family, and loved ones!
This is to rekindle all of our individual flames, collectively...for whatever our needs, prayers, and wishes may be...








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Turtle 04-27-2012 08:24 AM

Lighting Candles...
 
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For Maggie's father, for Ms. Deanna and Jax, for Debby, for Peg, Tommi and Kristal Rose, Kim, and Leia and all those helping Peg, for Ms. Tinkerbelly, for Spirit Dancer, for Bernie and Bette, for Tonya, for Lady Pamela, and All those Who Seek Peace, Love, Healing, and Safety.

May medical teams be guided, may healing go smoothly, and may people be kind and wise...and may Love abound.

Blessed Be, Amen, and Ashe

Tommi 04-27-2012 11:25 AM

Send me strength, give me wisdom, give me stamina in the days and nights ahead. Send me the Doctor's who will care for her with dignity and give her the moments of peace in the scary times she sees and hears.
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MaggieBluIze 04-27-2012 03:49 PM

Lighting a candle for my Dad.
He has been doing so good after his surgery until today.
He WILL get better. He will.
So scary. But keeping the faith.

LoyalWolfsBlade 04-27-2012 04:56 PM

Lighting a candle in healing hands
 
Lighting a healing wisdom candle in knowledgeable hands for Tommi and for MBI dad.


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With the healing light I send all the positive energy I have for you and your loved ones.

Turtle 04-27-2012 11:57 PM

Spirit Dancer...
 
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Spirit Dancer - Please know that you are held in such a special place...Prayers and Blessings Flow Forth, Dear One


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puddin' 04-28-2012 05:44 AM

fo' all us...
 
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Tommi 04-29-2012 08:51 AM

Thank you
 
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Passionaria 04-29-2012 10:29 PM

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Stopping by to let you all know you are on my mind, and in my heart. Blessings to you and yours but especially lots of LOVE.....
Pashi :vigil:

Tommi 04-30-2012 09:04 AM

Hopeful
 
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