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Hello Everyone;
I haven't been here in ages so thought I'd stop by and leave a little Hello for you a/ALL *S* Hope everyone is warm and safe. We are expecting more snow here tomorrow,, supposed to get around a foot!! on top of the foot we just got !! lol,, oh well,, spring and summer will be here soon enough.. Hope everyone has a great weekend.. :byebye: |
OFOS butch's & femmes ~ we all know it's about "The Dance" ,as well as the seduction on both parts ~ the appreciation on the butch's part when hys ever sooooo gratefull for her efforts of seduction ~ she becomes complacent of hys desires , hys love ~ being gratefull of hys recognition as "hys" ~ she honors hys strength to lead her ~ hy melts by her comfort ~ her subtle way of making a home for them ~ unity ~
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Just found this thread....subscribing now.
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Hey Bump! :)
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So I just want to bump this thread and ask this question.
What is one of the most romantic things someone has done for you as part of the dance? |
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I wasn't dating this next person, we were just the very closest of friends (in fact so close that most people thought we were a couple), but they have to be the sweetest things ever and for that reason I consider them romantic...Two years ago I was "abducted" for a mystery trip for my 52nd birthday. I didn't have a clue where we were going until we crossed over into Tennessee. We stopped to purchase apples then went on to a gallery (the real destination) where my friend purchased a print for me I'd wistfully mentioned in passing months before and hy'd apparently "filed away." (This was a limited edition and the odds of finding it were pretty slim.) We had a few other "adventures" before heading home, including the Tail of the Dragon - another thing I'd mentioned in passing. It was the most amazing day and I felt so special...just like a princess! A few days before (on my actual birthday) hy arranged a dinner with friends complete with surprise cake and musical candle. It was the first time anyone ever made a big fuss over my birthday. The other thing hy did was at Christmas that same year. I received a gift that was impossible to find. Around the same time that I mentioned the print I also mentioned that a "holy grail" for me was a signed, first edition of a certain book. Hys comment at the time was that it surely could not exist but hy found it and I was speechless. |
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The most romantic thing
I had only dated my butch for a couple of months this past year when Christmas arrived.
It is not a LDR and from the very beginning, I saw her several times a week. She handed me a beautifully wrapped, red velvet pouch. I was afraid to open it. She said: "From the moment that I saw you, I fell for you. You deserve these. I wanted to see yours ears sparkle, because you do". The pouch contained diamond earrings. So beautiful. I had never had any "real" jewelry before. They are very meaningful to me because of her verbalized sentiment, not because they are real. If she had said what she did to me and had given me cubic zirconia's; it would have meant just as much to me because of what she said. Her gift was from her heart. We will be together 8 months next week. PS: She also sent two dozen red roses which were delivered at my job on Valentines Day. Kind of embarrassing to walk them back to my office but it gave me the opportunity to come out at work multiple times, with several people, very easily: "Oh, beautiful flowers, did your husband send them?" "No, my girlfriend". "Oh". :stillheart: |
waiting for a butch to get me enough to really take my breath away in that way way...
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...don't get me wrong, the dance is always fun.
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Hello!
I'm new, so I am still very much finding my way around the site but I thought I'd pop by here and say "hi" as you all seem very nice. I have still to make my first 30 posts and cannot start a new thread yet, so I was looking for places where I could make relevant posts to build up my number without just posting for the sake of it....if that makes sense?? : ) Anyway, I found this thread and thought it might be relevant to me. I'm not really sure... Ok...here goes! I'm straight. Or, at least I have been my entire life. However, in the last couple of weeks I have discovered that I am *very* attracted to Butch lesbians and now I'm wondering what that means...(I think particularly Stone Butches??) I am not only straight, I am submissive and am fairly familiar with the BDSM community, so I was wondering if my submissiveness may be muddying the waters a little...? I honestly don't know, actually, and am finding all of this very confusing and would really like some help figuring it all out. If anyone is willing to discuss this with me further I'd really appreciate it : ) Oh, and I'm in the UK if that's relevant. I see that someone in this thread identified themselves as an "innocent sub or femme" (or something similar?), and although I didn't think to use this to describe how I identify, I am going to appropriate it now (thanks to whomever it was!). I grew up with fairy tales and identified very strongly with the hyper-feminine innocence and beauty, grace and gentleness of the princesses in these stories, and have never shaken that off. I love chivalry and mourn it's loss in this busy, modern world. I am still awaiting my Knight in Shining Armour to come and rescue me, but, until now, I had never considered that their gender could be anything other than male... Please could some kind person help me to figure out what's going on? Thank you! : ) Sorry if this post is in the wrong place, btw, and pls feel free to move it! : ) Lovely to meet you all and have a great evening! Snow White x |
Am I allowed to bump this?
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Because bumping is fun...
and because I miss this discussion... bump...
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Im Old School Ultra Femme..I
Just Joined and I found this thread..I will Deff be back later...Wink... |
One of the most romantic thing someone I was with surprised me with was as follows...She told me in advance that on a certain night we were going to Fly to a tropical Island so start packing and I packed my sexy heels and summer day and evening wear not knowing the reason for this I was so excited..A week later we flew into San Juan P.R, the sun was shining and the smell of all the wonderful tropical scents surrounded me..We checked in to a beautiful Suite that was filled with Roses every where, there was wine and champagne,we had a glass of wine and all of a sudden she tooky hand and walked me to the bedroom and the rest is history...several he's later before we showered she got down on one knee and proposed with the most beautiful ring....that was 15 yrs ago ...we broke up 5 yes later..anyway that was so romantic...
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hi sultry ~ yes I agree that was very romantic :) ~ welcome to the planet ~ join us in chat sometime ~ and we usually have a coffee crowd in the mornings as well :)
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Hello to all...I'm a new on here..I'm a stone femme..I love the Butch Femme Dynamics and wouldn't have it any other way!!
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romance is often so subtle...
most often it is not in grand gestures but in small things...
like the way she remembered tiny details of things I thought only I would notice... things that were important to me became important to her and that, my friends, is not only romantic, but downright sexy... yes, planned out "events" or "gifts" are romantic without a doubt, but at least for me, making the everyday special is what keeps romance alive for the long haul (f) :cigar2: |
The secret to happiness...
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