I realize that "if" is a very small word and easily overlooked. I apologize for not having typed it in bold, underline or italics...and any misunderstanding that may have ensued.

The presence or absence of the "if" doesn't alter much. What response in this thread even prompted you to say this? Is this the way you think of butch femme people or people on this thread or? This is one of many dismissive remarks you have made over the years regarding butch-femme. You usually refer to labeling in these discussions. Your comments sometimes imply very respect for the thinking/decision-making/preferences of those who value the butch-femme dynamic.

Well,I for one was not offended.I like lesbians,I like their lips..on my lips.I like their lips on my clit,on my tits,on my thighs,on my neck,on my forehead..not in that order.I don't much like the idea of her being the penetrator :readfineprint:but i'm game for anything else she has in mind.

Well Dip Me In HONEY and Throw Me To The Lesbians !! lol