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Kätzchen 08-11-2017 07:00 PM

Two (2)
 
Dirty cars.... or ..... tardiness.


Please, PLEASE, for the love of Johnson & Johnson Wax and chamois cloths, clean your car, get it detailed, make sure the floor boards and under the seats are vacuumed, and for the LOVE of Windex, please make sure the windows are spotless, mirrors too. Also, make sure the interior seats are well groomed. Make sure the car smells divine (synonym for clean).



Be Clean. Bee On Time.


Bonus points for making sure all tires are properly aired and balanced... :blush: :eyebat:

cinnamongrrl 08-11-2017 07:27 PM

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PlatinumPearl 01-22-2018 12:10 PM

Language
 
Profanity. You can be absolutely amazing but if you use foul language consistently to express yourself it's an instant turn-off for me.

However, with that being said there are time where it can be appropriate though...

~ocean 01-22-2018 12:28 PM

When someone with a negative assumption and comments on something you say, that's not needed. That type of rudeness is a huge turn off . I'm very attracted to a classy person as a friend or date .

RockOn 01-22-2018 04:01 PM

emotionally cold personality

cutegrrl 01-22-2018 05:22 PM

Stupidity and ignorance.

*Anya* 01-22-2018 05:32 PM

I just saw a guy do this on TV and it reminded me of this: a winker.

Someone that winks at me in the middle of a conversation. People that are winkers tend to do it no matter how serious the conversation. I don't even like it if someone is flirting and does this.

I think it is kind of creepy.

*wink, wink*

Ooh.

Ascot 01-22-2018 06:25 PM

Weird presumptions. You're butch, so you must blah, blah. You're well educated so you must think this way. You're white so of course you feel the same way I do, etc.

Major timidity about trying new things. Trepidation is okay if we don't let it cripple us.

The classic chestnut, bad hygiene.

RockOn 01-22-2018 06:48 PM

back to *Anya*
 
winkie blinkie at *Anya*
Heh Heh!
Only joking around ... but you knew because you are smart like that.
:)

Lyte 01-22-2018 06:55 PM

*mental note ... nix the wink if ever you meet Anya* :p

A wink is a very delicate expression ... gesture ... whatever. I can go very easily wrong ... or pretty darn right! It should be used with the utmost of caution and with much forethought!

Yes, I've been known to wink on occasion ... on occasion. :blink: <-- not winking! :)


Quote:

Originally Posted by *Anya* (Post 1194431)
I just saw a guy do this on TV and it reminded me of this: a winker.

Someone that winks at me in the middle of a conversation. People that are winkers tend to do it no matter how serious the conversation. I don't even like it if someone is flirting and does this.

I think it is kind of creepy.

*wink, wink*

Ooh.


Lyte 01-22-2018 06:59 PM

Lacking even the minimum ... a modicum of social grace ... aka manners! I don't expect her to know what fork goes with what course but I do need her to be attuned to when "please" and "thank you" are appropriate.

Ascot 01-22-2018 07:09 PM

Treating anyone in a service capacity with anything less than respect. That's a major no-no with me!

EnchantedNightDweller 01-22-2018 07:18 PM

Here's my top 3:
You're a racist.
You don't like kids.
You don't like animals.

*Anya* 01-22-2018 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RockOn (Post 1194437)
winkie blinkie at *Anya*
Heh Heh!
Only joking around ... but you knew because you are smart like that.
:)

Oh my gosh! We have a winking smilie!

:winky:

:lol2:

*Anya* 01-22-2018 08:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lyte (Post 1194438)
*mental note ... nix the wink if ever you meet Anya* :p

A wink is a very delicate expression ... gesture ... whatever. I can go very easily wrong ... or pretty darn right! It should be used with the utmost of caution and with much forethought!

Yes, I've been known to wink on occasion ... on occasion. :blink: <-- not winking! :)

Ha!

:cheesy:

Gemme 01-22-2018 08:42 PM

Winks can turn into twitches and ticks surprisingly fast.

:|

Sweet Bliss 01-22-2018 08:44 PM

being rude then pretending they were "just kidding"

being dismissive to ANYONE (including pets)

failure to communicate, covers HUGE area.

Lyte 01-22-2018 10:16 PM

See! A good wink requires a serious workout regimen! Winking is not for amateurs! :p


Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1194466)
Winks can turn into twitches and ticks surprisingly fast.

:|


Medusa 01-22-2018 10:42 PM

Instant turn-off = Fakery and disingenuousness. Like, that thing where you meet people who are bullshit artists. They aren’t even themselves, just bits and pieces they’ve gleaned as “special” from other people’s experiences or personalities.

No no no!

cathexis 01-23-2018 02:22 AM

Some instant turn-off
 
Lying is something I despise (the main offense).
Excessive swearing (especially when unnecessary)
Impolite behavior to anyone. I don't care if it's the janitor, they deserve acknowledgement.
An individual is not equal only to the job they hold. Even professors can be schmucks.


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