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Pixie 04-13-2011 11:44 AM

if you really knew me you would know
 
My car is my freedom
My family is my ball and chain
Distance is my key to bearing their weight
I love my job
I can't wait to make a difference in a new life everyday
I openly welcome change
and my actions are always pursued with good intent

miss entycing 04-13-2011 11:56 AM

you'd know that i'm intense about everything i do, or say , or feel, or give.
you'd know that if i'm really wounded, i shut it all down, and i mean it.
you'd know that i have a huge pure heart, and it sometimes gets in the way.
you'd know that i am unconditional- till you hurt me, then all bets are off.
you'd know that i treasure my friendships, especially the tried and true ones.
you'd know that i tend to walk around with blinders, or rose colored glasses on.
you'd know that it also comes honestly, i really try to only see the good.
you'd know that when i see the ugly sides, it honestly devastates me.
you'd know that i could honestly care less if you like me or don't.
you'd know that when i write, i never write about some random 'butch', i write about ME.
you'd know that i eat chocolate every day.
you'd know that i'm a complicated creature, but am so well worth it.
:)

foxyshaman 04-13-2011 12:24 PM

You would notice that I have seem to have misplaced my quick laughter
You would know I have more work than time to do it
You would know I am moving towards indifference and don't care
You would sit and share a pipe with me
You would know I hate :tea:

Gemme 04-13-2011 12:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Quintease (Post 319144)
If you really knew me, you'd know that when I said 'Ow, I've bitten the inside of my mouth' I really mean 'Ow ow OW, I've bitten the inside of my mouth and it HURTS! It's been a week and it STILL HURTS!! Every day is a day of misery and pain as the wound inside my mouth is really hurting me, so GIVE ME SYMPATHY!!!'

Instead people who CLEARLY don't know me say things like, 'Ow, how did you do that? That was a bit silly then, wasn't it?' And I know they DON'T CARE!

*cries* :bigcry:

If it's been a week and you're still feeling pain (not just soreness), then it's probably infected. The human mouth harbors a LOT of bad bacteria. I would go to a doctor if I were you.

Have you tried gargling with warm salt water to help heal the wound?

If you really knew me, you'd know I have a wealth of trivial information and am not afraid to share it.

:blink:

MsTinkerbelly 04-13-2011 02:23 PM

If you really knew me you would know that the two best days of my life were when my daughter was born, and when Kasey and I were married.:rrose:

justkim 04-13-2011 04:20 PM

I am also a wealth of trivial information... I know just about enough about anything to get myself into trouble...
Gemme, do you find that you look around trying to figure out who said *that* once the words have left your mouth?




Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 319228)
If it's been a week and you're still feeling pain (not just soreness), then it's probably infected. The human mouth harbors a LOT of bad bacteria. I would go to a doctor if I were you.

Have you tried gargling with warm salt water to help heal the wound?

If you really knew me, you'd know I have a wealth of trivial information and am not afraid to share it.

:blink:


Dreams 04-13-2011 04:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 319228)

If you really knew me, you'd know I have a wealth of trivial information and am not afraid to share it.

:blink:

If you knew me you would know that i knew this already...:whoop:

wolfbittenpoet 04-13-2011 04:30 PM

If you knew me you'd know I love my typewriter because I can't push delete on it.
That I get tired of storms because I hate thunder. That my best friend in the world has four paws and a tail. That I act strong when all I want to do is scream from mindless terror of a world I can't understand.

Soft*Silver 04-13-2011 04:33 PM

I hate Shirley McClain, The Sound Of Music and Barbara Striesand and have lost dates over this...and was grateful.

I suck a cough drop every night. It use to more than one but I have gotten it under control. But I have to have at least one.

I have dropped 43 lbs since my first surgery..People cant even recognize me from pictures from when I first moved back to Ohio. Of course my hair was very short and silver too...

I am so close to this nightmare to being over that I feel like I am holding my breath all the time..like its a dream...or that I cant believe it until its all done and over with. The American Nightmare as opposed to the American Dream. Some day I might write a book by that title...


Jesse 04-13-2011 05:12 PM

If you really knew me, you would know:

Most of the time I am grateful to simply have a glass, and will make it work whether that glass is half empty or half full.

I have a big heart, and am much more caring than some would imagine me to be.

I believe I can teach a dog to do anything that is physically possible for them to do.

I love to learn. At present, I am learning about vertical, total indoors soil-less gardening using artificial light. I think it very well could be the way of the near future.

Scorp 04-13-2011 05:34 PM

If you really knew me...Where the heck would I begin...

Daktari 04-13-2011 05:39 PM

If you really knew me...

...you'd know what a grumpy bar-steward I am.
...you'd know just how much I love the Woodipotimus
...you'd know I use a computer mouse in each hand.


justpjhere 04-13-2011 07:43 PM

if you really knew me
 
you would know that even though my exterior is tough, im a big softie and sensetive

you would know i miss my dad every day

you would know that unkind words stick in my head forever

you would know that today i need a lil hug...

cuddlyfemme 04-14-2011 07:09 AM

you would know that I'm sensitive and cry easily
you would know how much I love animals
you would know how much I love shoe's
you would know that I'd much rather listen to music than watch tv
you would know that I've always been a Stone Femme

Gemme 04-15-2011 09:34 PM

If you really knew me, you'd know that I firmly believe that every single body is in this world for a very specific reason. You'd also know that I'm growing more and more frustrated not knowing what mine is.

justkim 04-16-2011 06:31 AM

... you would know the detective in me never sleeps...
... I am the one choosing how the relationship with my sisters is played out...
... That coming back to Colorado to help my parents was and is the best choice...
... I am working on becoming a better person every day...
... I have started walking again since the weather has turned a tad bit warmer...
... I don't care for roses... Shasta Daisey's, Tulips, and Daffodils are my preferred flowers...
... I think of you often... and I smile...

Tommi 04-16-2011 07:36 AM

Please me tease me but always feed me
 
you would know I take one ice cube in my coffee

you would know you could feed me Orville Redenbacher air popped popcorn for breakfast lunch and dinner

you would know you never need to ask me what I want to eat. Just prepare it, call me to the table and see me enjoy

you would know I am easy to please

you would know I love to be teased (f)

UofMfan 04-16-2011 07:58 AM

You would be amongst the very few that do.

Goo 04-17-2011 04:46 PM

If you really knew me, you'd be surprised that even though I act all tough, I'm really a softie.

If you really knew me, you'd see that I have a very artistic side of me. I love things to be "in balance" with each other

If you really knew me, you'd understand why I'm so shy sometimes. I wear my heart on my sleeve, often afraid of change.

If you really knew me, you'd be amazed with some of the weird stuff I can come up with...

If you really knew me, you would see the amazing changes I've made in the past 6 months, I've gone from not giving a flying you-know-what, to someone who is genuinely concerned for herself and others.

Bit 04-17-2011 05:47 PM

slight derail
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 320915)
If you really knew me, you'd know that I firmly believe that every single body is in this world for a very specific reason. You'd also know that I'm growing more and more frustrated not knowing what mine is.

{{{{{{{{{{{{Gemme}}}}}}}}}}}

I used to get real frustrated about not knowing my purpose either... then one day--and I honestly cannot remember what sparked it--I took a long look not at what I do or what I want to do for a living, not at jobs I've had or wanted, not at careers that bring purpose... but at ME. I took a long look at who I have been and how I have been all through my lifetime, and discovered that there was a common thread going all the way back to childhood.

I make people feel better. Whether I'm making them laugh, listening when their hearts are broken, or just sharing time with them, I make people feel better.

These days there are so many forces arrayed on the side of making people feel worse and worse, I figure making them feel better is a pretty good purpose for my life. When I'm doing okay I bring sunshine and the hope of springtime to everyone; when I'm not okay I still bring love and compassion. That's who I am, what I do, and my purpose for living all rolled into one.

Maybe you can find something in your life that speaks to your purpose like that too? Maybe you've been fulfilling your life's purpose all along and just haven't recognized the value of it yet? We're alike in a lot of ways, love--I'm willing to bet this is one of them.

Gemme 04-17-2011 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bit (Post 322127)
{{{{{{{{{{{{Gemme}}}}}}}}}}}

I used to get real frustrated about not knowing my purpose either... then one day--and I honestly cannot remember what sparked it--I took a long look not at what I do or what I want to do for a living, not at jobs I've had or wanted, not at careers that bring purpose... but at ME. I took a long look at who I have been and how I have been all through my lifetime, and discovered that there was a common thread going all the way back to childhood.

I make people feel better. Whether I'm making them laugh, listening when their hearts are broken, or just sharing time with them, I make people feel better.

These days there are so many forces arrayed on the side of making people feel worse and worse, I figure making them feel better is a pretty good purpose for my life. When I'm doing okay I bring sunshine and the hope of springtime to everyone; when I'm not okay I still bring love and compassion. That's who I am, what I do, and my purpose for living all rolled into one.

Maybe you can find something in your life that speaks to your purpose like that too? Maybe you've been fulfilling your life's purpose all along and just haven't recognized the value of it yet? We're alike in a lot of ways, love--I'm willing to bet this is one of them.

(((you)))

Thanks. I'll try to keep this in mind while I work on figuring it out.

*hug*

justpjhere 04-17-2011 06:16 PM

if you really knew me
 
you would know that my feelings are easily hurt

you would know that i crave peanut butter

you would know that im excited move

you would know i dont sleep well

:ambulance:

justkim 04-17-2011 09:09 PM

If you really knew me...
you would know that when I am backed into a corner I can be very mean...
you would know that I hate with all my heart to hurt peoples feelings...
the word sensitive doesn't even begin to describe me...
with music all things are possible...
NEVER tell me I can't do something...
you would know I can work almost every power tool there is...
Hagen Daz Coffee Ice Cream is my all time favorite ice cream...
I have excellent grillin' skills...

Gemme 04-17-2011 09:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by justkim (Post 322279)
with music all things are possible...

Love this and it's absolutely true.

JAGG 04-26-2011 08:33 PM

okay
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 322283)
Love this and it's absolutely true.

With music all things are possible???? Ok Gemme lets see you dribble a football. Now what song do you want me to play while you attempt this? hahahahahaha:goodluck:

Gemme 04-26-2011 08:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JAGG (Post 327793)
With music all things are possible???? Ok Gemme lets see you dribble a football. Now what song do you want me to play while you attempt this? hahahahahaha:goodluck:

Considering across the water a football is what we call a soccer ball, you're ON!

:thumbsup:

Let's start with some Daughtry and maybe spice it up with some Disturbed and maybe finish up with some Maroon 5.

bigbutchmistie 04-26-2011 08:44 PM

If you really knew me

You'd know I'm not mean spirited. I'm very open minded and love deeply.

You'd know how I have to have physical and emotional connection tsettle down with someone.

ypud know how much I love dogs and dolphins

How alone I truly feel most days .

JAGG 04-26-2011 09:07 PM

no no
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 327808)
Considering across the water a football is what we call a soccer ball, you're ON!

:thumbsup:

Let's start with some Daughtry and maybe spice it up with some Disturbed and maybe finish up with some Maroon 5.

No soccer is for sissy's. I mean a real football . A Pigskin. NFL official type .

Gemme 04-27-2011 09:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JAGG (Post 327870)
No soccer is for sissy's. I mean a real football . A Pigskin. NFL official type .







Um, you were saying?

:blink:

JAGG 04-28-2011 02:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 328582)






Um, you were saying?

:blink:

hahahah I knew you'd come back with something to slam me hahahah. good one.

Lost_punk_boi 05-01-2011 12:52 AM

If you really knew me....

You'd know I'm addicted to the group Tatu... I love being a drag king... I'm all about respect... I put others happiness before myself... I have both BPDs... I have a cat named Angel.... I'm crying right now

little_ms_sunshyne 05-01-2011 12:59 AM

If you really knew me you would know that...

I am a workaholic...
I STRESS!!!
I like wearing lingerie even when nobody is watching...
I am a SPEED DEMON on the road...
I curse at other vehicles on the road even if they can't hear me lol

Goo 05-01-2011 01:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lost_punk_boi (Post 330794)
If you really knew me....

You'd know I'm addicted to the group Tatu... I love being a drag king... I'm all about respect... I put others happiness before myself... I have both BPDs... I have a cat named Angel.... I'm crying right now

Aww...why are you crying?

Tcountry 05-01-2011 01:38 AM

...when it comes to things made from wood...if u can draw it I could probably build it
...probably only because I am missing 2 tools I really want
...if I can't fix it you probably really screwed it up...
...this does not include computer programming(you are own own there)
...my heart is bigger than my house & schedule put together
...I really want my grandma to make our wedding cake...even tho she hates our relationship(it is what she does)
...I am true to every promise I make...

little_ms_sunshyne 05-01-2011 01:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tcountry (Post 330804)
...when it comes to things made from wood...if u can draw it I could probably build it
...probably only because I am missing 2 tools I really want
...if I can't fix it you probably really screwed it up...
...this does not include computer programming(you are own own there)
...my heart is bigger than my house & schedule put together
...I really want my grandma to make our wedding cake...even tho she hates our relationship(it is what she does)
...I am true to every promise I make...

So glad you can fix almost anything as I can probably break almost anything...Why oh why am I so accident prone???

sierragirrl 05-01-2011 02:00 AM

If you really knew me you would know:
i would rather go out at night so i dont have to deal with alot of people
i feel abandoned everyday
my 6 yr old is my best friend
i am a horrible grand daughter i cant bring myself to talk to my grandmother for i feel like a big disapointment
i found my birth brother living in a town 15min from me and we talk or see each other weekly
it freaks my birth mother out that we have contact and i am the pink elephant in the room.
i have 2 other brothers from my birth father that live in GA and only one knows about me and does not believe i am related.
i really want to make new friends but i suck at it.
if you really knew me you would know i wish you a very happy Sunday:bouquet:

StillettoDoll 05-01-2011 05:18 AM

If you really knew me ... you would know I listen to public radio almost all day and everyday. It's the only thing worth listening nowadays. I keep the radio on 247 in my garage/ working area.
If I had it my way I would have a radio playing in everyroom in my house . which I almost do.
I truely hate television.
I believe movies should be watched in a theater

If you really knew me , you would know that I like almost nothing modern
except art. I wish fast food did not exist.
I Wish dinner parties were still in style.. and that I am really very old fashion when it comes to manners and marriage roles.

I also think that people that lived during the 1800's specifically 1890's and pre 1920 were actually smarter people than today.

To be continued...............

hpychick 05-01-2011 04:47 PM

If You Really Knew Me....at the Movies
 
You would know...

...I can't watch scary movies - where things could never happen in reality - because I'll have nightmares all night long.
...I can watch scary movies - where things could actually happen - and not be frightened at all.
...it is a rare find for me if I can't solve the movie within the first 15 minutes of a film.
...my favorite genres of film are true stories, mystery/suspense, Sci-Fi, drama and comedy.
...I very seldom like *stupid* comedy.
...my favorite snacks to eat at the theatre are popcorn, raisinettes and Dots, with a Coca-Cola.
...I like to eat the same snacks when I'm watching a movie at home.
...I can't have a conversation and watch a film at the same time b/c I'm afraid to miss the line that gives everything away.
...I like to pay attention to the beginnings of movies b/c that's where I think most of the clues lie.
...I enjoy going to movies alone (because a) no conversation, and b) I don't have to share my snackies!)

bigbutchmistie 05-01-2011 05:02 PM

You'd Know

How much I love Mexican food

How I struggle every day with social anxiety

How I've been making myself walk with Simon

How my hair is mostly grey and I'm going to have to start coloring it soon

I curse like I sailor

I'm impatient as Hell

I detest liars cheaters

I love NHL Hockey

Even though I'm extremely romantic and believe in fairytales. I've never had one of my own.

How I have no edit button and my mouth gets me in trouble all the time lol

Lynn 05-01-2011 05:19 PM

If you really knew me...

you wouldn't try to call me before 10am on the weekend.
You would save the yolk for me.
You'd bring me a cup of tea with honey.
You'd know that I'll always be a mom to my daughters.
You'd install a reading light on my side of the bed.
You'd know that not much gets under my skin.


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