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Elijah 11-21-2011 06:20 PM

Know when to say when, for both your sakes.

Leigh 11-21-2011 07:12 PM

Communication is definately key, so DO communicate at ALL times :)

girl_dee 11-21-2011 07:37 PM

Yes, talk and be present during the talk! :canadian:

ONLY 11-21-2011 08:30 PM

Remember her favorite snacks :eatinghersheybar: and :wine: .......and have it in the house at all times for those days that she just needs to unwind, put her feet up and have "her" time ....... when she is done with them, put them away (secret place) for the next time she needs it :thumbsup: cause we know....that to leave it in the open is just gonna get you in trouble :| :byebye:
I am teasin' :p
Oh have I ever mentioned teasin' each other as in being silly/ funny :p
Also leave her phone message at home (when she is at work) that you miss her and play a a few lines of both your favorite song :)

VintageFemme 11-21-2011 08:40 PM

do.... all the little things. they add up to way more than even one big thing.

girl_dee 11-21-2011 08:57 PM

Go on trips together, get out of the house and enjoy each other!

Hot monkey sex is a bonus!

bright_arrow 11-21-2011 11:29 PM

Remind each other that you are a partnership, not a competition.. and so therefore, it's "One for all and all for one!"

SoulShineFemme 11-22-2011 08:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ONLY (Post 470430)
Remember her favorite snacks :eatinghersheybar: and :wine: .......and have it in the house at all times for those days that she just needs to unwind, put her feet up and have "her" time ....... when she is done with them, put them away (secret place) for the next time she needs it :thumbsup: cause we know....that to leave it in the open is just gonna get you in trouble :| :byebye:
I am teasin' :p
Oh have I ever mentioned teasin' each other as in being silly/ funny :p
Also leave her phone message at home (when she is at work) that you miss her and play a a few lines of both your favorite song :)

I love it when you do these things for me. :bunchflowers: I am so lucky. XO.

girl_dee 11-23-2011 06:14 AM

Greet your love with a warm cup of coffee !!!!

amiyesiam 11-23-2011 12:10 PM

do the things that make them happy
especially if those aren't the things you would want done for you.
Feeling like you have been heard and having someone follow up on that is an awesome feeling!


Corkey 11-23-2011 01:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amiyesiam (Post 471845)
do the things that make them happy
especially if those aren't the things you would want done for you.
Feeling like you have been heard and having someone follow up on that is an awesome feeling!


This.... precisely.

girl_dee 01-28-2012 07:44 PM

learn from your mistakes and become a better partner/person

Kenna 01-28-2012 07:55 PM

Honor the friendship and familiarity you share... because it's very unique and will never compare or be the same with someone else... allow yourself to enjoy and not regret the connection you share ...don't regret, only relish and respect

girl_dee 01-28-2012 07:59 PM

Believe in each other!

Mr Nice Guy 01-28-2012 08:26 PM

Be real with each other.

girl_dee 01-28-2012 08:40 PM

be the same wonderful person in real time as you are on line

MysticOceansFL 01-28-2012 08:50 PM

If you can't be truthful and honest at friendship level how can you be anything else , and also was there ever a friendship to start? It takes time to get to know someone.

princessbelle 01-28-2012 09:23 PM

Go to bed together....and cuddle ;)

girl_dee 02-02-2012 08:36 PM

write love notes, we love that sorta thing!

softheart 02-03-2012 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JAGG (Post 319548)
Make promises you keep.
Make yourself easy to love.
Make the one you love feel safe and secure.
No matter what, make the one you love know she is a priority.
Talk about everything, and be brutally honest, even if it's difficult.
Treat her like a queen, and love her in all ways , always.
Build a bond together that noone or no thing can come between .
Apologize for your mistakes, make amends and do better next time. Then make amends again.
Take responsibility for your actions .
Validate her feelings by listening, stop what your doing, even when you're busy and pressed for time.
Always make time for her needs , even if your tired ,injured or bored.
Just a few things I always try to do when I love someone. It doesn't guaranty she won't still choose to walk away, but I don't think it hurts anything.

I love this!

TimilDeeps 02-03-2012 09:12 PM

Be real . . . .

Martina 02-03-2012 11:33 PM

Keep your car in good repair so you can go visit Her when She wants to see you.

:(

NorCalStud 02-04-2012 12:11 AM

Be patient

girl_dee 02-04-2012 02:55 PM

be realistic about things you like or don't dislike in the beginning, that annoying small annoying detail will become a monstrosity after you get serious!

~ocean 02-04-2012 03:08 PM

have your own friends as well as mutual friends. everyone needs space :)

girl_dee 02-04-2012 03:23 PM

don't ever let the honeymoon be over.

princessbelle 02-04-2012 04:25 PM

Always kiss hello and always kiss goodbye. Not to mention all the kisses in between :cheer:

It means so much!!!!!!

WingsOnFire 02-04-2012 05:10 PM

Take time to "be in the moment". Life is too short as I have recently found out the hard way. :)

girl_dee 02-06-2012 01:49 PM

talk, like to each other

MsTinkerbelly 02-06-2012 01:52 PM

Forgive each other for not being perfect.

Estella 02-06-2012 02:59 PM

Holy Mother of God do NOT stop having sex! There's a name for lesbian partners who don't have sex anymore ... they're called roommates.

Blade 02-06-2012 03:11 PM

SHHHHHhhhhhh LISTEN.........this requires your mouth to be closed

AtLast 02-06-2012 03:33 PM

Be present................

princessbelle 02-06-2012 03:36 PM

Go grocery shopping together.

Plan a movie night when you stay home and watch a movie and eat popcorn and curl up on pillows and snuggle!!!!! (f)

Don't ever let the romance go away. Intimacy...all levels of it...is SOOOOOOOOOOO important!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

dixie 02-06-2012 03:50 PM

Talk...openly and honestly.

Okiebug61 02-06-2012 04:11 PM

Love the things about each other that are yet to come.

girl_dee 02-06-2012 07:41 PM

be realistic! life is not a fantasy....

girl_dee 02-08-2012 09:02 PM

Be kind, and honest.

princessbelle 02-08-2012 09:47 PM

In the absolute quiet and stillness of the day....

Listen to the power exchange...it can be very intense and loud. :bunchflowers:


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