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Lady Pamela 04-23-2010 12:04 AM

A Personal Story Concerning LGBT National Silence Day.

My grandaughters movement on that day. She is almost 15 and this is her story.


http://outbeatyouth.org/index/wp-con...yofsilence.jpg



Throughout this school year she has had many harrassing moments in her school towards her. One in which 2 boys tagged her locker with lesbo signs and such. Another where a girl was bullying her because of being lesbian. And a couple which involved teachers. One teacher even saying," Your a HOMO! And I don't agree with anything you do!"

With all this happening to her in the school. She decided to use National Silence Day to act upon all she has had happen. A peaceful way to present her issues.

In her school there were aproximately 30 LGBT students and 50 students who supported LGBT students who participated.

They wore signs saying,
"TODAY IS LGBT NATIONAL SILENCE DAY FOR HARRASSMENT,BULLYING AND ABUSE!
We are in silence for all thos who have been or will be harrassed or battered as a result to the bullying and wrong actions against us and others. For our choice to be who we are!
Under those words was a big question mark
?????
If you are wondering why we are silent ...JUST ASK!

Then they would had out a card instead of speaking which expalined the movement.

http://americansfortruth.com/uploads...v-dos-card.bmp

Well throughout the day...This one girl had harrassed and bullied my grandaughter all day. Even pushing her at one point and spinning her around saying..YOUR A LESBIAN..YOU WON'T HIT ME!"
This went on a few times and then out of the blue...When my grandaughter wasn't aware she was right by her...This girl sucker punched her in the face very hard. My grandaughter feels awful about that but she had to defend herself and knocked the girl out in one punch! Of course this is being addressed. It was all seen on the monitors so my grandaughter was not in trouble for it as well. But what symbol as to the day.

I am very proud of her for trying to handle things in a non abusive manner...And it saddened me that she wound up having to use physical force to protect herself. It really hurt her heart that she had to.

As a result of this happening, I have decided to take on that day to help the youth of LGBT students. On April 16th from here on out...I will be at the schools to help keep order first of all. Second, I am going to unite with our LGBT Center and raise awareness of this day in advance so it will make a much stroger impact in my community.

To bring it to light so to speak...Before the day...so those wanting to support or be a part will remember the day. And will also be able to support our little ones who are just wanting to be themselves.

Any ideas on what could do this that I might not have thought of?
I am doing:
BANNERS
SIGNS
Even talks if this applies.

Below is a little description of what this day is for and it's impact Nation wide:

It was orriginally started by a family member of someone who was gay bashed is 1996..And it is a very important day to keep our children safe in the schools and community.
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Day of Silence 2010: Silent Protest on behalf of LGBT is celebrated as The National Day of Silence to protest against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) harassment in schools.

The question will remain open that if observance of Day of Silence can end anti-LGBT harassment in society especially in schools? LGBT bullying has given birth to many tragic stories in the nation, so the need to end this bullying was felt and first National Day of Silence was observed in 1996.

The need for observance of such a day was first felt by students of Virginia University who organized the first Day of Silence.

The Day of Silence has now become a popular movement throughout the world and students of all ages have joined the protest against bullying and harassment of LGBT.

Day of Silence 2010 is being observed on 16 April, 2010

The first annual Day of Silence was aimed to create better relationship between the gay and straight students.


On 16 April in observance of Day of Silence 2010, the students will remain silent throughout the day but at the same time not hindering the educational process. Some areas choose to observe it on April 15th as well. They would try to refrain from speaking in their free time such as at lunch, recess but they will carry all the other instructional activities by speaking when necessary.

The Day of Silence campaign is getting momentum day by day and today at 14th Day of Silence we have thousands of students participating in the campaign in order to spread awareness about the dangers of bullying the LGBT.

Here are just a couple sites describing this movement.


http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2089/...61cb1726d8.jpg



http://personalmoneystore.com/moneyb...ng-cards-lgbt/

http://www.dayofsilence.org/index.cfm



I posted this on a couple threads because I feel very strongly about it's content. Sorry if this affends anyone for me doing so.

Write14u 04-23-2010 01:02 AM

I wonder why an early morning of work is guaranteed to ALWAYS follows a late night of work. *le sigh*

Lady Pamela 04-23-2010 02:26 AM

Pulled a card for this thread...smiles

http://www.deviantart.com/download/9...by_Tyrantx.png


Meaning:

Introduction: Strength indicates the importance of mind over matter, and reminds you to focus on what you do want rather than what you don't want in your life. Its main point is that you have the ability to harness your thoughts and to use them for your - and everyone else's - highest good. Not only do you have the ability; you have the responsibility. So conquer your fears, control your impulses, and never lose patience with yourself or what you are doing.
General: It's important now for you to make time to meditate and contemplate and spend some time alone even if you are in a committed relationship and have nineteen children! Do not allow yourself to spend time in preoccupation and fear. Outward things will be going all right but what is of the most paramount importance is keeping your head on straight.

Work: Work should be going well. If you're looking for work, know that you have the wherewithal and the skillset to find it. If you're already employed, and there is room for upward mobility, don't hesitate to negotiate for what you're worth. You might be surprised at the positive reception that you get. If there's not room for a raise or promotion where you are now, give serious thought to finding something where there is this possibility, or consider what it would take for you to strike out on your own business-wise. You may have more options than you typically think possible.

Love: Love should be going very well - if you're committed, this is very likely to be a strong relationship that is mutually supportive and beneficial. If you're looking for someone, this is a much better-than-average time to meet people. You should be in a self-confident phase, so get out and mingle. You might be very pleasantly surprised by how things work out.

Finances: Money should be in a positive cycle. Be sure to save some, even if it's only a little, and even if you've been doing without for quite some time and feel a desperate need to treat yourself or the people that you care about. You may actually be getting ready to purchase a home or other big-ticket item. Don't borrow more than you can comfortably repay, of course.

Health: Your health and vitality should be strong and robust now. This is a great time to correct bad habits if you need to do so in order to protect your health. Starting with small goals like a daily ten-minute walk could very well lead you to where you want to be, which is even healthier and stronger than you're feeling right now. Yes, it can get better!

Spirituality: This is likely to be a very spiritual time for you even if you don't have anything close to a religious belief. To be truly strong, you must pay attention to and develop each leg of the triad we are made from: body, mind, and spirit. Be sure you are spending time on all three. That's hardest to do when things are difficult; if you receive this card when you are at a low point, know that things are very likely to be looking up soon. This card is a reminder that you are strong - probably stronger than you think.





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Rook 04-23-2010 09:56 AM

wow, Lady Pamela..
That was a very thought-provoking post..
I was trying to figure out how I missed it...
It was posted today so I said "duh, Rook"
We had our Day of Silence last Friday here in Ohio..
I carried around a few Papers similar to what your granddaughter had..
My relatives were a piece of work that day...
They kept saying things that Normally would have me responding sarcastic or pissy..
My brother at the beginning of the day says to me "This is too good, you're finally quiet, I dont have to listen to u harp on about the Queer agenda"..
I smiled, and flipped hm off...
At Dialysis, I would give the paper to whoever spoke and wanted a reply...
Mind you, the only times we were told we Should speak is for something very very important and there's no paper/pen around...Emergencies too.
My tech stared at the paper, and mumbled "I had no idea"..
Apparently he saw I was confused, and he said "I didnt know u were gay"...
I did chuckle a little...
We made a Hellacius Ruckus when it came time to "Break the Silence" And we each discussed our Experiences during our Silence..Some were really inspiring, some were surprising..and some only successfully pissed me off.
I truly hope the symbolism works for people like your granddaughter...

As for help with your Plans..
There's a Group in quite a few Schools called "GSA"..
Gay/Straight Alliance...
You could help your Granddaughter with it as well..

http://gsanetwork.org/resources/building-your-gsa
:)
Much Luck, we'll get there....slowly, but...we will

JakeTulane 04-23-2010 01:47 PM

Wow. Do people even understand how they make another feel? I am not perfect, I do not always "get it". However, to be blatantly mean? shakes My head.

That is all.

Lady Pamela 04-23-2010 01:58 PM

This is my GREAT GREAT NEPHEW

I am a very proud Great Great Auntie!

This is Kaison Anthony Burnett
4 lbs 5 ounces
He was born last night

He was born at 34 week into the pragnancy

He is doing well but he is another lil miricle baby!


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MsTinkerbelly 04-23-2010 04:23 PM

Based on past experience, vicious dogs should be leashed.:dog:

moxie 04-23-2010 04:23 PM

90 minutes of awesomeness...then he dipped.
end scene.

Mister Bent 04-23-2010 04:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JakeTulane (Post 90704)
Wow. Do people even understand how they make another feel? I am not perfect, I do not always "get it". However, to be blatantly mean? shakes My head.

That is all.

Intentional cruelty is something I can't grasp. It speaks only to the practitioner.

JakeTulane 04-23-2010 04:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Bent (Post 90777)
Intentional cruelty is something I can't grasp. It speaks only to the practitioner.

Indeed My Friend, Indeed.

Julien 04-23-2010 05:11 PM

I love thunderstorms.:rainsing:

Rook 04-23-2010 07:03 PM

Archie comics is going to Introduce a Gay character....
:wtf:

Enchantress 04-23-2010 07:13 PM

A sprained ankle is icky.

Write14u 04-23-2010 07:35 PM

Hour 12 of this work day rolling around with at least another good three hours to go before I can call it a day. Hopefully, tomorrow's day won't be as long. Not sure if I'll be at Talladega for the Nationwide race tomorrow, but I'll definitely be there on Sunday for the Sprint Cup race. I have a nice red sheen to my face and arms (we call that a Dega tan around here).

Andrew, Jr. 04-23-2010 07:38 PM


Brett Michaels...he complained of a horrible headache. He went to the hospital, and it was discovered that he had a brain hemmorage. Unbelieveable news. I hope he recovers fully. He has such a young family.

Rook 04-23-2010 07:59 PM

My first Lesbian Pub experience in the U.S. was... odd...
My girlfriend at the time wanted a night out , I didnt feel comfortable in a hetero pub...so we went to a lesbian pub in Columbus...
I was 20...
the bouncer liked me so she turned a blind eye...
after drinkin 3 cuba Libre's, I wanted music, went to the jukebox took my sweet time checkin what was available...somehow, That seemed to signal to a girl "available"..
She paused by the jukebox, I looked up and smiled, she grinned..
I went back to my curiosity, when I found a song, she offered to pay...
In another setting, had my girl agreed to poly, I would've been all over it...
I told her I was with someone she says "Awwww...tsk, I'll be at that table with my friends" pointed, and they waved, gigglin....

My girl wasn't amused...

I did get bored, saw the Bouncer, sat next to her and struck up a Conversation....
I asked how she got the Cast on her hand, she told me, in detail...
I was a cocky lil shit and mumbled my birthday's comin' up, wanna guess how old?..she had a slight pink hued cheek and said "no that's ok...and don't tell me, cuz then we might have problems"
My girl happily dragged my ass back to the table, and a hetero couple walked by..The guy made the mistake of calling me a redneck fag...
right there, middle of lesbian Pub...
I had to..
Walked over to the table, the girl kept apologizing saying they didnt want trouble, just a nice drink and quiet fun..
I smiled, bouncer was gettin closer, and I said quietly "I may look like a redneck faggot, but I can guarantee u, if I took lil miss beauty queen to the bathroom, you'd go home alone, me entiendes?"
he got up, Bouncer escorted them Out...

I told my girl "i'd rather be home, reading a book right about now"
:LGBTQFlag:

[yup im bored...join me lol]

Gemme 04-23-2010 08:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsTinkerbelly (Post 90774)
Based on past experience, vicious dogs should be leashed.:dog:

And so should their owners. It all flows downhill.

Rook 04-23-2010 08:15 PM

I agree with Gemme...
It's all in the Owner...
u can have a pitbull...or a Rottie...and how u raise them reflects on how they behave...
I've met the dumbest, sweetest rotties alive...
And I know people who say their pitbulls are big babies :superfunny:

Too much Animal Cops for me , I suppose..I need to stop watchin that show

Nat 04-23-2010 09:45 PM

I worked as an emergency vet tech for a while, and the vast majority of pits and rotties were very well-behaved, sweet-tempered dogs.

My bad luck was mostly with sharpeis and chows - but I think I just don't speak their language.


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