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often put a smile on your face when you are talking to your Other...if you have to think about it to do so, work harder at loving her or him. Its your responsibility to make magic happen in the relationship (well its both but I am only talking to one of you)
bring in the groceries and help put them away put a new roll of TP out before the old one runs out clean your own hair out of the sink and tub make dinner like she or he is the most important person in the world eat dinner at home instead of out, demonstrating you think the cooking there is better than anywhere else change the sheets on the bed together bring home a packet of seeds you think will look good in the garden be the first one to say you are sorry mean it |
Talk. About your day. About friends, family, birds, furniture, decor, dinner, politics, religion, love, lust, likes and dislikes. Talk. About the bad things. Past things. Gone things. Never to have them again things. Wishes, dreams and nightmares. Hopes still held and hopes dashed never to return. Talk. About what makes you happy. More importantly, what makes you angry or sad. Talk. Because we are not all mind readers.
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Appreciate everything that is done for you. Never take a single thing for granted.
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Stay up late and watch a scary movie in bed!
:nailbitin: Sorry to have kept you up so late Syr! |
Always if you have had her on your mind all day about what you would like to do to her LOL
Always go home and SHOW her LOL :bedfuck: |
Be intimate with her... intimacy doesn't always involve sex...
Laughter... A L L day foreplay... :: blink :: Be silly... |
Say thank you for everything... even if it's not exactly what you wanted.
Accept compliments with grace. Trade compassion and acceptance for anger. |
Let them take care of you, as you would for them. never miss a chance to tell them what they mean to you. do things together the little things a walk in the moonlight just holding hands while watching tv.. always remember what brought you together and how wonderful she makes you feel
PS Desd I love you to infinity and beyond |
Kiss me like every kiss is our first kiss...
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Tell them when you need to be alone
Use logic gently Be quiet together reading Listen to complex music together, really listen, with attention Sit in the woods holding hands Learn to temper your speech Embrace mindfulness Breathe Be present in your body Dare to reveal |
"For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are those 'It might have been.'"
- John Greenleaf Whittier Be true to your feelings and share them. Tell the person what they mean to you. If you do not, then you/they may never know what truly could have been. Never miss an opportunity of happiness and/or love. It is much better than having regrets or wondering "what if". |
Say I love your or whatever you are feeling in the moment because you truly want to express it, not because you want to hear something back.
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Use some communication skills! I am so terrible at this.
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Respect is a very important element.
Communication without it you have nothing. Learn to listen to your partner, what you think may not be important is to them. Compromise if you cannot do this then you are selfish. Never think you are always right, learn how to say you are sorry when you are wrong. Never, never make plans to do the uhaul thing so fast, will lead to the end. Know just because you talk to someone everynight does not mean you know them, people can be who they want on the phone and in the first few meetings. |
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If she cooks for me I will always clean up. If I cook for her I will always clean up and take out the trash...
Run her a bubble bath with candles and let her relax as I cook for her.... Let her eat and relax... Then give her a full body massage before she passes out asleep in my arms :) |
Be impeccable with your word.
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Make time.
Make amends. Make time. Make out. Make time. Make it all better. Make time, make time, make time. :sparklyheart: |
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