Butch Femme Planet - What have you learned?

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I am just not the tie me down type...in more ways than one. Relationships do not suit me well and I love my freedom and space to do as I please.

Also learned I find it incredibly sexy to finally have met someone who is secure enough in who they are and their sexiness to not feel the desire to push the "label" envelope...letting it flow is a BEAUTIFUL thing.

Learning..nervousness can be new and flustering.Your breathing increases..mmmmm

That everyone has an agenda.....

I have learned that sometimes we put too much energy and space into things that really just are not worth the effort.

I have learned.....

no matter what you do you can't make everyone happy....

no matter how far you go, you can't escape the past.....

despite your greatest efforts you can't always right a wrong....

letting go is sometimes all you can do...........

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I've learned I am demanding and for good reason.

conversations via text are not something I should have when the subject makes me frustrated. I fully admit this form of communication does not work well for me. But I have yet to learn that lesson fully yet.

Must learn to stop before I get frustrated.

I have learned that loving means letting go of any attachment to any agenda, that saying that I will love someone as they are means that I love all aspects of them, and that even though it did not work out, love remains.

I have learned that I really do, wish her happiness, I wish her peace.

I have learned that beautiful memories are priceless. I have learned that endings do not have to be negative, sometimes they just mean that a new beginning is on the road ahead, and that the lessons learned along the way, are all a part of loving someone.

I have learned to be grateful for all of the gifts that each new chapter in my life has brought to me.

I have learned...and I have learned.

Inquiring minds want to know, and I like giving the information.

i have learned that while i do not agree with the choices my 16 year old daughter has made, i 'can' make my own choices that will reflect on a healthier mindset in terms of the choices she has made.
i have also learned that it's important to me to keep her close, so that she keeps in touch with me and so i know she is safe. That arguing with her only brings stress on her and myself, and that i will do my very best to help her make positive choices when given the chance.

What is important to me, right now, is that she makes safe choices, and that if she should choose to find her way to go back to school, to come back home, and to her loving family that worry sick about her, We're here..

But the phone calls to check in each night and say she's okay and loves me, means too much for me to push her away.. i believe she needs me more than ever to be in her corner.. And while i 'can' be that, i will not allow her to steal, be disrespectful, or break rules.

i have learned, its okay to respect myself, to have feelings & believe one day she will understand that i love the hell out of her, and this isn't easy on me..but i also recognize this isn't easy on her.. She'll come to me.. in the meantime, i worry every day, i always want to hear from her, and i'll always hope for her finding her way, to happiness, success & safety..

I've learned that life is short and you should never take anyone or anything for granted. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Take chances and dont be afraid to go out of your comfort zone. And if you love someone make sure you tell them because there will come a time when you wont be able to anymore and regret is a terrible thing.

Not to over analyze my life, just live it. Live my life as the person I know in my heart I am. Live and love every day as if it were my last.

I've learned to....

never try to parallel park in a car that is not yours...

Refill the liquid soap BEFORE you clean the bathroom....

Always get gas before you go to CT....

I have learned:

age difference is unimportant in love.

he waited almost 12 years for me to come to my senses.

truly only love exists.

I have truly great love in my life with him and so does he.

I love him more than words can ever express and he feels the same way.

my teen daughter will ask the most embarrassing questions possible, and loudly, in public.

I cannot repair my daughter's heartbreak as a result of breaking up with her girlfriend and I really want to do more than just be there. I want to fix it.

Whoa, instantaneous lesson, ain't my place to fix it for her.

I have learned that only I can make myself truly happy.

I have learned to disregard some opinions and absorb the ones i want to hear.

I have learned to never let a person in my past direct the feelings i have towards anyone I choose to be in my future.

I have learned that gut instinct is always right.

I have learned that some people do not deserve the benefit of the doubt.

I have learned that life is still very much alive at 44. Infact, it can be the most exciting time of my life. I am looking forward to creating a life together with Sir and my pups in our new home.

I am so excited about the prospects of decorating it together.

Sometimes the hardest person to forgive is yourself.

I've learned some things never change

When I rilly want a chocolate chip cookie, there is no point to telling myself I should have a pickle instead