It took me quite a long time after breaking up to even think about dating. In fact it took me about 3 years. The first year you sit back a bit dumbfounded. You wonder what went wrong, you blame yourself even if it wasnt you fault. The second year you place ads, talk to a few people and that can be a major trip! You step back, re-evaluate and proceed with caution. You decide that maybe a forum of a bit of queer networking is in order and to take it one step at a time. By the third year you meet a few people and encounter some BS and drama. It make you really start to miss even the worse relationship.

Isn't that funny because I too have been approached lately by lots of younger boi's. Cute, playful but was thinking the exactly same thing as you. I'm honestly not sure what I want but I know "something" needs to get my interest to fully engage me. I'm too busy for causal nothingness so if I'm going to take the little free time I do have I want to invest it into at least an awesome life long friendship.

So if you're looking for good conversation then here I am. If you can manage a bit of fishing that might be good too.

:police:Hey ,, this is nice .. been single for awhile...

fishing? figuratively or literally? I'm always up for good conversation with an intelligent woman. Hit Me up in yahoo somtime...

Good Evening Everyone,

Berl, I agree with you. I broke up in early March with my ex. I gave up my job, apartment and my family to be with her. I moved to Seattle and unfortunately, the relationship didn't last. I moved home two and a half weeks later and I won't give up my life unless I know that my partner is in it for the long haul.

Lipstix, your family are missing out on watching you have a life. One day, they will realize this, but by then, it will be to late....When I had to make the decision of talking to my bio dad, it was hard, but one that I don't regret. My life is much better and I know who my true family is...Hugs...

Ruthie, tell that piece of shyt to piss off...You deserve much better than what she has done to you....Hugs


Hope everyone else has had a wonderful day,

Zimmy

Welcome to all of the new people and hope you all are having a wonderful day and are enjoying the BFP site...

Zimmy

I'm going to chime in for a moment and I haven't read through the latest posts so I'm probably off the subject at hand but.....

I'm single and will likely stay that way for awhile longer. I haven't been involved in long term for more than 18 years. I think I would like to meet someone eventually, but the thing is, I don't believe that dating has to carry
that goal. I would date to have fun, not to get into a relationship.

If, in the course of dating, I develop some deep feelings than sure. But I would never ask anyone out because I was searching. I'd ask them out to have a good time; I believe in dating around. I would also make that very clear at the start. I have resent being pinned down. Just my .02

I agree with you Jet I am the same way and I've been single ten years not because I had to but I needed to plus focusing on myself and my goals , I'm not getting any younger and I am finding out that the younger appear to be interested in the older folk which is nice but I perfer someone really close to my age. " No offense to the late 20's and 30's. just my two cent's.:police:

sometimes I get a glimpse of not wanting to be single when I see my friend's girl making dinner for him. I don't want her because I don3 make moves on anyone elses lady but I thought it must be nice. Ok I'm over it. Lol

I don't know why younger people are attracted to older folks. But...I'm with you...I'm flattered. Hey, we're not gettin any younger.

Good Morning Lipstix,

You are welcome and hoping your internship goes a lot better this morning...

Have fun~!

Zimmy

Good Morning Everyone,

Hope you all are having a good start to your day. It is in the low 70's here, but the high today is going to be near 100. Thank goodness, I don't have any errands to run.

Have fun,

Zimmy

Hi everybody :)

Just popping into this thread for the first time. I'm single and living in the Cincinnati area.

Hope everybody is bearing the summer heat well!


~Clever

Thanks
 

Zimmy thanx for the thread :)
I live in Az. and 103 degrees for today..last night at 10pm it was just 98...lol
anyway, I am single, not doing too much dating, but looking forward to meeting new ladies, who knows where it can lead to, eventually..also to meet some good butches and tmen as friends. My last relationship was about a year ago, we tried the LDR for 2 years, eventually I moved to be with her but, well...it just wasn't meant to be, nuff said. We're friends now, I guess that's all it was meant to be, and that is OK.
So, "I'm back on the market", so to speak.
Anyway...guess that's all for now.
Everybody have a great weekend :)

Welcome FC and Paposeco!

The only way to beat this heat is to go swimming or stay inside if you can. I'm not looking forward to August and September here in Florida.

Leaving cool drinks and have a good day,

Zimmy

Good night everyone....

Hope you all sleep well and have a good start to your day tomorrow..I am taking my three year old niece to school tomorrow for my mom and then I am coming back home...

Zimmy

Sweet dreams!