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- Impatient
- Control freak
- Dismissive
- Stubborn

Trusting to readily

1. I'm OCD
2. B/C of #1. I only see things as black and white.
3. I maintain complete control of every aspect of my life.
4. B/C of #3 I operate on the fight or flight response quickly.
5. As I age , I have no tolerance for putting up with nonsense.
6. I will never freely give trust to anything or anyone . Trust is something that can take many years to get from me.
7. I never forgive nor forget if I have been lied to. I take grudges to the grave.
8. B/C of #1 I fixate on the smallest things and will go to the depths of hades to prove a wrong or a right.
9. I am a Pitt bull daddy and way to overprotective.
10. My coping mechanism is to seclude , wall up , shut down
and bolt if I think I am going to get burned . Which would
fall in the fight or flight category.
11. I over analyze alot of things.

Being stubborn (I'm a Taurus)
Being too perfectionistic
Being disorganized (in an organized manner as everything is in piles, and I know where everything is at)
Spreading myself too thin at times
Rejection issues

1. I have lost too many people in my life (adopted, then lost few close family members to death)
2. Bc of number 1 I have a fear of losing people or something happening.
3. I can over analyze things.
4. If I get hurt seriously or feel like I'm about too I tend to fight or flight. My recent relationship hy broke things off with me during which time hy said he was never in love with me (to hurt me), than we got back together he said he never meant it however I couldn't get it out of my head and ended things. Now I'm thinking I didn't fight hard enough.
5. I'm sarcastic
6. I'm hard headed

:badcook: I've been told I use too much salt..i luv salt :bbq:

I think there are times that I have unrealistic expectations. I tend to treat people with courtesy, respect and caring. In return I feel people should treat me the same and its a huge disappointment when they dont. Huge..

I am not particularly introspective...annoying to some...a life saver to me.

I tend to find amusement in just about all of the "human condition"...annoying to some....a life saver for me.

These are some of the ones I am more aware of and also the ones that I make an almost constant effort to address with some success I hope....

I can hold a grudge

I can be selfish with my need for solitude at times

I over analyse and over think

I am distrustful and suspicious which can make me distant and watchful

I have expectations of people

I dont always listen to my gut instinct and make the same mistakes again until I finally learn the hard way

I try to cover all bases at all times and get frustrated when I cannot

I find it hard to accept that someone else can handle something for me as well as I can myself or better, I can take self sufficiency to the extreme

I can be very stubborn

I can shut loved ones out when I am processing hurt which in turn hurts them

I can be very outspoken at times but then there are times when I refuse to engage at all

I used to want most things on my own terms

I am very much my own harshest critic !

Daisy { a work in progress } :bouquet:

I worry too much about everything.

So many...

I trust waaayyyyy to easily

I have a hard time saying no because I don't like to hurt other people.

I don't express myself often and when I do, I can be determined. Lol

I forgive too easy. There are many times when I will just not remember when someone hurts me. But... if you are on the short list and you have really done something thats hurts me bad, I will never forgive or forget.

I am not OCD. My house us tidy but not immaculate.

I can be ruthless when it comes to righting a wrong....

If only I could use my genius for good.... lol

Faults
 

I am very stubborn, I will not ask for help and usually I will not accept help when it is offered.

That is all that I can think of.

Oh gee, where to begin?? I have a real hard time trusting people, I'm very stubborn, I'm a cleaning freak, I've got OCD and can't stand a messy house! LOL I clean every day! I will hold a grudge forever (but I'm trying to work on that), I'm overprotective of my spouse since she is sick, I worry over everything, I let myself get super stressed out, I over analyze everything. Guess that's it?:koolaid::koolaid:

I'm introverted to the point of shutting people out until they think I don't care and then they go away. I tend to worry a lot and obsess about goals and problems. I think if I make room for someone in my life, chaos will ensue, everything will fall apart, and no one will be there to pick up the pieces but me. I guess that means I'm not very trusting.

Jaded & bullheaded:seeingstars:

Severely insecure
Too nice
Too forgiving
Too laid back

After falling in love, I almost never fall out of love; to this day, my heart starts racing (or hurting) when I meet certain women, even though we have not been in touch in years

Started transitioning 10 years ago, but still feel that there's something "wrong" with me; it affects all of my relationships

I do not believe good things said about me

I tend to keep "a safe distance" emotionally from people

I'm ashamed to cry in front of people; it makes me feel very weak & I hate being weak



Great thread; Thanks. Hard to read & hard to reply.