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clay 03-16-2016 03:51 PM

For that young man who died today in a motorcycle wreck...
 
Sending healing wishes for a young man (whom I do not know) killed in a Semi VS Motorcycle this afternoon.

We passed by just after it had happened & his body was on the road. How my heart aches for the tragic news someone is going to receive this evening....:(.

RIP young man whomever you are!!!!

Blade 03-17-2016 06:25 PM

Lighting a candle and sending up special prayers for my Aunt. She was diagnosed with stage 3 or 4 lung cancer today.

Glenn 03-26-2016 09:55 AM

Her relative told me yesterday... that my best butch bud was in a very bad car wreck three months ago. All her relative said was everything is broke, and she is still in a hospital somewhere in New Mexico. She loved being a park ranger, and when she was offered a job there, she packed everything, and left Indiana alone, eight months ago. Keeping a strong little candle lit here for her, who has been an awesome friend, who is in a hospital far away, trying to live through this pain, alone.:praying::candle:

Blade 04-02-2016 04:05 AM

Lighting candles and praying for my aunt. She was taken to ER yesterday disoreinted, heart rate 157, dropping BP and 103 fever. She just finished radation and had started chemo. They said late last night she may not make it threw the night. Please pray for her.

Praying for my coworker, hospice said Thursday that he had about 48 hrs.

Continuing to pray and giving thanks to God for NN, another coworker she's had lung cancer for nearly 2 yrs, is on expermental treatments and though she has some bad days, she is doing very well and even came by the plant to visit a few weeks ago.

God is good! God is good all the time!

Blade 04-08-2016 05:01 PM

Lighting a candle and saying prayer for my family traveling across the country to my Aunt's funeral tomorrow. Praying for my Uncle, cousins in their children. She was an amazing woman and still so involved in her community at 72 yrs old. She will be missed by many. Thanking God she didn't have to suffer long.

kittygrrl 04-12-2016 05:50 PM

Happy Birthday Mom..I miss you so much:candle:

JDeere 04-21-2016 10:41 PM

Lighting a candle for my girlfriend's ex mother in law, who is not faring well. They still have a close relationship for the sake of the grandchildren.

I pray God takes her swiftly so she does not have to suffer.

Gayandgray 04-23-2016 08:30 AM

Lighting a candle for my oldest dog Brandy. Had to rush her to the vet first thing this morning. The meds they put her on for the CHF were helping, she was just there on Thursday and the vet was happy with the improvement. But she woke up this morning coughing bad and now has to have her Lasix three times a day, and more heart meds were prescribed. She is still her usual hyper self, still has a lot of life in her to even think about putting her down. But I made it clear to the vet I do not want her to suffer. When the time comes, we will know. My spouse and I are devastated. Please say a prayer for Brandy.:candle:

Jesse 05-04-2016 03:09 PM

Lighting a candle for our neighbors in Alberta Canada. Some 88,000 have been evacuated, and no telling how many are hurt or have been killed due to this raging fire. Please keep them in your prayers and thoughts. :vigil:

JDeere 05-04-2016 04:02 PM

Lighting a candle for my girlfriend's ex mother in law and all families involved.

May God watch over everyone through this difficult time.

Gayandgray 05-16-2016 12:10 PM

Lighting a candle and requesting prayers for our dog with CHF, Brandy. She suffered a mini-stroke during the night, and we rushed her to the vet early this morning in our pajamas. The vet gave her steroid injections and said she may get better in a few days, or she may get worse. Only time will tell. I have to take her back in a week. We are praying she will be ok, but if not we will have to think about putting her down. I will not let her suffer. :vigil:

kittygrrl 05-18-2016 01:36 PM

for our little kittygirl:candle:

Stone-Butch 05-18-2016 07:04 PM

Feeling
 
Feeling sad. One of my best buddies mother passed away and they were so close , life sucks at times.

Bubala 05-18-2016 09:21 PM

Motek sheli....It has been 12 years since you were violently taken from this world by the hand of terror... I remember you... I have not forgotten... I will never forget... Every day I survive is a living tribute to the strength, beautiy and generousity of your spirit.

MysticOceansFL 05-19-2016 04:20 AM

Lighting a candle
 
For all those who need it in time of healing and in strength!

Blade 06-15-2016 12:07 PM

Lighting a candle and saying a prayer today for my friend in TN. Her Mom lost her battle with bladder cancer this morning.

Blade 06-27-2016 05:48 PM

Lighting a candle and saying prayers or the legendary Lady Vols basketball coach Pat Summit and her family. Pat is in her final days in her fight with early onset Alzheimers. This absolutely crushes my heart.

BullDog 06-27-2016 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Blade (Post 1072816)
Lighting a candle and saying prayers or the legendary Lady Vols basketball coach Pat Summit and her family. Pat is in her final days in her fight with early onset Alzheimers. This absolutely crushes my heart.

Me too. I have my Vols cap on. So incredibly sad.

kittygrrl 06-28-2016 03:01 AM

for my dad..
 
:candle:

Gayandgray 06-28-2016 04:31 AM

Lighting a candle for my handyman's daughter, who is battling depression/drug addiction. The husband and wife team we hired to put up our fence and do general handy man duties are wonderful people! Both very honest, hardworking, reliable people. That's hard to find these days. They give us a break because my spouse is sick, and they do good work. They are raising their grandson and now had to put their daughter in a rehab. :candle:

clay 07-15-2016 09:08 AM

For my Heidi "Grilla"
 
:candle::candle::candle:

My baby dog is at the vet's clinic now, undergoing some lab tests & observation. She began having seizures yesterday morning...has had 3 since then, 2 being this morning!

She is my whole world & my heart...I have had her since she was 2.5 years old. She just turned 14 a couple weeks ago.....

Fight baby dog, fight. Momma loves you so much.....my heart is broken....

candy_coated_bitch 07-15-2016 09:47 AM

I will keep you and your baby in my thoughts.

Chad 07-15-2016 11:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1075978)
:candle::candle::candle:

My baby dog is at the vet's clinic now, undergoing some lab tests & observation. She began having seizures yesterday morning...has had 3 since then, 2 being this morning!

She is my whole world & my heart...I have had her since she was 2.5 years old. She just turned 14 a couple weeks ago.....

Fight baby dog, fight. Momma loves you so much.....my heart is broken....

I am so sorry my friend, I am thinking of y'all and hoping for the best.
Chad

clay 07-23-2016 06:26 PM

In loving memory of Heidi Girl
 
:candle::candle::candle:

My sweet little dachshund had a stroke today & is gone.
I am so heartbroken & filled with sadness & my eyes are so swollen...

Run free & happy lil Heidi...mommy loves you sweet baby.

I will see you at that Rainbow Bridge one day...wait for me....

CherryWine 07-23-2016 06:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1077554)
:candle::candle::candle:

My sweet little dachshund had a stroke today & is gone.
I am so heartbroken & filled with sadness & my eyes are so swollen...

Run free & happy lil Heidi...mommy loves you sweet baby.

I will see you at that Rainbow Bridge one day...wait for me....

Clay, I am so sorry. :( I know how much you loved your sweet Heidi. Love and hugs to you and yours.

~ocean 07-23-2016 06:36 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1077554)
:candle::candle::candle:

My sweet little dachshund had a stroke today & is gone.
I am so heartbroken & filled with sadness & my eyes are so swollen...

Run free & happy lil Heidi...mommy loves you sweet baby.

I will see you at that Rainbow Bridge one day...wait for me....

(((((((((((( clay & Heidi ))))))))))))) soo sry.

Gemme 07-23-2016 06:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1077554)
:candle::candle::candle:

My sweet little dachshund had a stroke today & is gone.
I am so heartbroken & filled with sadness & my eyes are so swollen...

Run free & happy lil Heidi...mommy loves you sweet baby.

I will see you at that Rainbow Bridge one day...wait for me....

You have been such a good mama to her, clay. She is healthy and happy now and will greet you one day when you see one another again.

I know it hurts, my friend. You stood by me when I had to walk that walk myself and I now stand by you.

Much love.

:vigil:

girlin2une 07-23-2016 06:51 PM

Clay, I am so sorry for your loss.
Thoughts and prayers to you...

Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1077554)
:candle::candle::candle:

My sweet little dachshund had a stroke today & is gone.
I am so heartbroken & filled with sadness & my eyes are so swollen...

Run free & happy lil Heidi...mommy loves you sweet baby.

I will see you at that Rainbow Bridge one day...wait for me....


Gayandgray 07-23-2016 06:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1077554)
:candle::candle::candle:

My sweet little dachshund had a stroke today & is gone.
I am so heartbroken & filled with sadness & my eyes are so swollen...

Run free & happy lil Heidi...mommy loves you sweet baby.

I will see you at that Rainbow Bridge one day...wait for me....

Clay I am so, so sorry about your little dog!!!!!! I know how bad it hurts, my friend. My prayers are with you and your family.

Jesse 07-23-2016 07:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1077554)
:candle::candle::candle:

My sweet little dachshund had a stroke today & is gone.
I am so heartbroken & filled with sadness & my eyes are so swollen...

Run free & happy lil Heidi...mommy loves you sweet baby.

I will see you at that Rainbow Bridge one day...wait for me....

Clay, I am so very sorry about sweet lil Heidi. I know you know she is without pain now, but I also know about the abundance of pain in your heart. Just know her love is still with you and that you did all you could. Big hugs...

Blade 07-23-2016 08:36 PM

Sorry to hear about Heidi, clay. Seems they take a piece of us with them when they go.

clay 07-24-2016 06:44 AM

Thank you all so much for your compassion & kind words of comfort!

I am still numb, thinking that just a few hours ago, she was still here, then I realize, she is not here physically BUT her huge spirit is very much in my heart.

I can't eat, or think, or do much of anything. I know I have to get up & go on with life, but damn it sucks losing her...she was everything to me, my Heidi Grilla.

Her transition was very peaceful & I got to be with her, feeding her her fave snack of mini beggin strips...bacon..bacon...

Sorry for derail of thread....:(

Brooklyn 07-24-2016 06:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1077554)
:candle::candle::candle:

My sweet little dachshund had a stroke today & is gone.
I am so heartbroken & filled with sadness & my eyes are so swollen...

Run free & happy lil Heidi...mommy loves you sweet baby.

I will see you at that Rainbow Bridge one day...wait for me....


My condolences to you and your partner clay. As you said, Heidi is free -- dancing across that rainbow bridge like a young pup-- she will be be waiting for her mommy I am sure. :rrose:

Brooklyn 07-24-2016 07:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1077719)
Thank you all so much for your compassion & kind words of comfort!

I am still numb, thinking that just a few hours ago, she was still here, then I realize, she is not here physically BUT her huge spirit is very much in my heart.

I can't eat, or think, or do much of anything. I know I have to get up & go on with life, but damn it sucks losing her...she was everything to me, my Heidi Grilla.

Her transition was very peaceful & I got to be with her, feeding her her fave snack of mini beggin strips...bacon..bacon...

Sorry for derail of thread....:(


NEVER apologize for sharing your sorrow clay --it is holding it in that harms us. I know I am new, but if you need to talk you can PM me. :rrose:

Chad 07-24-2016 07:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1077719)
Thank you all so much for your compassion & kind words of comfort!

I am still numb, thinking that just a few hours ago, she was still here, then I realize, she is not here physically BUT her huge spirit is very much in my heart.

I can't eat, or think, or do much of anything. I know I have to get up & go on with life, but damn it sucks losing her...she was everything to me, my Heidi Grilla.

Her transition was very peaceful & I got to be with her, feeding her her fave snack of mini beggin strips...bacon..bacon...

Sorry for derail of thread....:(


Oh buddy,

I am so sorry. You are in my heart and in my thoughts. Call me if you need to talk.

Love you,
Chad

LOQUI 07-24-2016 08:04 AM

I'm so sorry about your lost clay...
My thoughts for peace go after you and your partner...
:(
Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1077554)
:candle::candle::candle:

My sweet little dachshund had a stroke today & is gone.
I am so heartbroken & filled with sadness & my eyes are so swollen...

Run free & happy lil Heidi...mommy loves you sweet baby.

I will see you at that Rainbow Bridge one day...wait for me....


not2shygrrl 07-24-2016 02:33 PM

awww, I can see her chasing that elusive squirrel....running like the dickens with her ears flopping and ever so thankful for her Mom and the love she was given here with you. Her k-9 journey she is now on will be a great one, for her mom taught and loved her so! No doubt she will continue to protect her mommy. You my friend have the love of one small but huge hottiedog in your heart!!

Gayandgray 08-29-2016 06:02 PM

I'm asking all who can to please light a candle and send out prayers/energy healings for my spouse's daughter, who has been battling heroine addiction and other issues for a long time now. Unfortunately my dear stepdaughter does not fully understand or care or whatever, that her Mother worries constantly about her and the stress is contributing to my spouse's already decking health. But I (we) are praying for a fresh start this time and hopefully we can repair our family before it is too late.:praying::praying::candle::candle:

clay 09-14-2016 04:13 AM

RIP Myra
 
:candle::candle:

My sweet cousin & the youngest of my 1st cousins, was found dead yesterday morning.

May your soul be at peace & you will be in a better plane.....I love you cuz!!!

homoe 09-14-2016 04:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clay (Post 1092762)
:candle::candle:

My sweet cousin & the youngest of my 1st cousins, was found dead yesterday morning.

May your soul be at peace & you will be in a better plane.....I love you cuz!!!

So sorry for your lost Clay


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