1. I make a conscious effort every day to find good.
2. I have sometimes crippling anxiety, but was raised to hide it at all cost
3. I have HUGE feet... a size 11 in women... someone told me I had tug boats.
4. I hate to clean a dirty space, I know... that makes no sense... but if I let things get out of control, it takes me 5 times as long to clean it...
5. I love love love Lindt white chocolate truffles.

1. I wanted to be a cartoon artist when I was little and I still make a lot of cartoons in my spare time.
2. My favourite cartoonist is Don Rosa, whom I have met and he was super awesome.
3. I've lost a lot of weight and feel really self concious about it.
4. Actually I'm just self concious in general :p
5. I dont think anything feels better than making someone laugh


Oh my gosh thats so cool. Ask him to do cards against humanity on table top- pretty supercalifragilistic please!

1- When I cook I need to have all the cooking implements (measuring cups, spoons, bowls etc) ready with all the ingredients out.

2- When I cook I need to clean up as I do (that is including washing dishes)

3- I tend to update my bankbook at least 2 a week sometimes more (depending if I am near a bank machine and I pay my bills at the ATM also....YES I am probably the rare few who do this lol )

4- I have an amazing respectful son.

5- My girl (f) and I are working towards immigration. We are hoping to start the paper work within the next month or so :) She is American and I am Canadian. The plan is for her to move here with my son & I.

PS If anyone has gone through this (American immigrating to Canada), if you are willing to, maybe you could message me and let me know how the process was for you :) Thank you.

1. I'm very compassionate. I come off here as being precise and exacting, but with a lover, friend, child, or service person, I am as patient and understanding as the day is long.

2. I don't place a lot of value in bodily form or integrity. I can be attracted to the right person regardless of her size or shape, and regardless of disability or affectation. I find all forms potentially lovable--depending on the personality of the person inside there.

3. While I come off here as very intelligent--I am--but I can also be disarmingly stupid about things. That's why those with complementary intelligences meld well with me. I'm dumb about so many of the more femme/subjectives things and I suffer from that.

4. I'm open to exploring friendships/relationships from anywhere. Though I am ensconced in Maine, with a son here and a full life, I am adventurous and long for more travel beyond the extensive moves and journeys I have done.

5. Probably my number one personal trait is that I'm comfortingly and frighteningly forward about what what I think and feel. You never have to wonder about me, "Man, what's that tapu thinking?" I'll fucking tell ya.

It's all so individual.. can be easy peasy or a 5 year long pointless quagmire. Canadians and Americans seem interchangeable but we are not , on many levels, and that border can make a 20 foot difference into a thousand miles.

Hmm, only 5?
 

1. My college expenses where paid for in part via tennis scholarships. (with part time jobs filling in the void).

2. My education in college was with aspirations of being a National Park Ranger (life member of the GSA was my inspiration) until the first female Kansas park ranger was murdered 30 miles away from me.

3. I am not PC and sometimes it has caused my personal and professional biting of my tongue more times than I would prefer.

4. My son is my most important gift that I was and am able to give to all who know and share his presence.

5. I am not as good of a listener as I should be. I am deaf in my left ear

1 My best personal trait is my ability to get along and communicate with anyone. No matter their background, education level, handicap, age gender ...
you get the picture.

2 Helping people if only by listening is my biggest joy.

3 I grew up believing that I should be or end up in a better place then my parents were financially. I am better off in a lot of ways and more importantly I consider myself a better person.

4 Although I was never lucky enough to have children I think that the type of patent you are says a lot about you as a person. Which is why I do not have anything to do with most of my bio-family. After all kids and animals are the best judge of someone character.

5 I am the worse speller in the world to the point that it embarrasses me. No matter what I have done there ate just words that I can not spell and I am ok with this most times. However it has stopped me from going into chat and I dislike being corrected publicly. I am however very grateful for the Google browser since it has spell check :)

-i'm really short
-i adore classical music
-i love parlour games
-i love to travel
-i like crunchy peanut butter

I love:
rain
acorns
pink tulips
the ocean
antique wood planes

5 more things

1 I do not like nuts of any kind

2 I like to receive flowers mainly bcs I rarely get them being a guy

3 Although I put on the front of being a hard ass 24/7 I do have a soft side I am very comfortable with and share with those that know me the best.

4 I have a code that I live by that no one has to understand or approve of but is at the center of who I am.

5 with all the different hats I wear the two biggest honors someone can give me is to call me their friend and to call me Daddy both of which I believe in earning and once I have I continue to do so for as long as I know the individual

1) *surprise, surprise* I have health insurance now but I'm not so sure I will find the kind of service providers I would like to have. I'm not sure what to do about it, yet.

2) I give up, when it comes to my vision: My last glasses worked for a few months and now I can't see anything at all with them on. I fear that I am better off being half-blind, but I will find another eye doctor (soon).

3) I want to go swimming but it's not that time of year yet.

4) I know I need to prepare my taxes but I am putting it off for just a little bit longer.

5) I want a new bed but can't afford to get a new one.

1. Loud people can irritate me.

2. I have sexy feet.

3. When I was a kid my dad would take me to the zoo and I loved feeding the seals little fishes from a cup. Each cup was $.15 and my dad would buy one after another for me.

4. I have way too many clothes.

5. I still wish upon falling stars.

1. I think making your bed is stupid... since you're only going to mess it up again in a few hours.

2. When I was a kid I loved to drink hot Jell-o when I was sick... and it still makes me happy now.

3. I don't have a lot of good friends, but the ones I donate family... and will always stay that way.

4. I collect hats and scarves... my favorite hats are my witches hats.

5. My dad had my name picked out before he graduated high school.

1. Ive probably road tripped to every town in North America with more than 5 people in it

2..I laugh at my own jokes.

3. I wear sweatpants when no one is looking

4.I can whisper French sexual innuendoes like nobody's business

5. I have no idea how my oven works.