FTM's Attracted to Femmes
 

I have noticed that many of FTM friends date primarily butch women or FTM and I wanted to know how many FTMs are attracted to femme women? Is there a reason why you are attracted to femmes and are you also attracted to butch women or other FTM as well?

I haven't found that to be true at all, and everyone is different and it has nothing to do with how they identify. I myself am attracted only to femmes.

it seems like to me every time I find a nice guy attractive they tell me they are not interested in me because I am too femme and it sucks. I know everyone is different but no guys has proven me wrong just yet.

Too femme? That's funny. When did such a ridiculous boundary develop?

I really couldnt tell you but I have been turned away for being too girly and its hard and I hate it

I am all about the femmes. I have no romantic or sexual interest in the fellas. But hey, there's nothing wrong with FTM's who like butches and other FTMs. To each their own.

I agree completely!

There is no such thing as "too girly" in my book.
The more femme the better.

It's funny, as I read the OP's post and realised that all the FTM's I know are dating femme(y-type) girls, even if they didn't necessarily before transition.

I can confirm the "too femme" response. I've been told that by women who are not FTM.. That I'm too girly, and they prefer a soft butch or someone who is "sporty".
*shrugs* but it's all about visual preference to some. Which is cool, it's their thing.

In the world of love and lust we just can't generalize. Of course we can have a 10 page tread proving that point yet again, debate, even argue or what we all know is true... it doesnt matter how you ID, what color, religion, etc. we're going to fuck who we want. As it should be.

I'm only attracted to Femme women, being it lesbian, bisexual or straight.

hard to find a good woman that even looks at FtM guys.

GPS - If I could find FTMs I would be in better shape lol - I have looked and most are taken or are not interested

I'm attracted to women, and I find women who identify as femmes, to be the kind which I am most compatible with.

I'm trans and I'm only attracted to femmes. The girlier the better. :tease:

Hi.....and welcome to the Planet.

Where are you from in Florida? It's beautiful down there.

I'm attracted to feminine energy.

Eye openers ;)

Trans here and I Adore all femmes. <3

For those femmes that can't seem to find a ftm, Trans, or Butch interested in them, I think you finally came to the right place ! :)

hey ~Bo I am on the east coast and it is beautiful in FL but right now in my opinion it is way to hot for it to be Christmas!! I would like some 60 degree weather about now!

Frankly I don't understand why people get so offended when they find out someone isn't attracted to them. I don't/won't slam anyone for their preferences. It isn't my place to judge them. Someone who says someone is "too butch" or "too femme" is really just saying "I am interested in X" or "I fit best with X", but of course, it could be said in a gentler way.

I think the majority of people are attracted to a particular segment, or segments on the gender spectrum. It's less common for people to be attracted to every single possible gender /gender ID.

If someone doesn't like you, or your apprearance, or your eye color, or your clothes... just move on. It really IS that simple.

I've noticed it too, but I have met very few ftm's in Cleveland. :4femme: WHERE are you!

Never too girly. The girlier the better like Bo said. I like someone that will balance out my masculine energy with their feminine energy. A friend of mine got cornered once in a lesbian bar because she's femme. They assumed that she was straight. I thought it was very narrow minded of them. For a long time I didn't realize I could have a girlfriend that was femme, hell I didn't even know what it was. A friend of mine said to me that I liked straight girls so I thought I did, until I found the butch-femme community and realized that I just liked femmes.

Before anyone starts a lesson on gendernomics I realize that straight girls can also be butch and femme girls can be straight etc and so on....

I sure as hell will look at FtM guys, however, I don't know if I would be classfied as a 'good woman' or not.

<----aime la femme

Hierarchy sucks
 

Honey, you are a good woman! No one should have an say so on that alone, I'm not the girliest of girls, not hyper pink, or glittery but I am woman and my guy got hooked not on those aspects but on other things that make me who I am. If someone is gonna judge and date you based on some scale of femininity then they are losing out cause damn one can't be all make up and high heels 24/7 a girl has to be grungy once in awhile!

Ladies maybe it is not because you are a girly girl or to femme for them , it's because they might think you are a high maintenance femme whether you are or not. They just might be saying that you are too femme instead of coming out and saying you would cost me alot of money .Not saying this to be nasty but alot of guys automatically think this way if they think you will need alot of things to keep you happy.

i certainly hope so!!

maybe we arent lookin in the right place and just missing each other?

<<<looking Matthews way very seriously.

Honestly, and for us femmes that are interested, we cant get anyone to take notice.

waiting for the look

**Looks at you from afar, a smile on My face**

:)

I thought I would stop by and see what's going on in this thread and introduce myself. I'm Julien and hello to one and all. I hope you are having a great evening. :sunglass:

Maybe not, but you always look girlie in that wet t-shirt. :tease:

I too have been accused of being 'too girly' which is freaky as aside from the way I present, there is nothing girly about me, even my husband doesn't think I'm girly! I know some people just don't like long hair and makeup regardless of personality, but others just assumed I would be 'girly' purely based on looks. From the point they clapped eyes on me it was all about the box they thought I fit into, rather than the actual person who was in front of them.

Luckily my FTM loves me as I am and didn't care that I suck at romance and have to be reminded to change the bedsheets..

Daddy June needs to buy you a muzzzle!
 

Now now ~bo we all know breasts do not equate girl/girly!!! :p