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What do you prefer to be called on the site?
Just wondering...what do you prefer to be called on here? What would you rather people not call you?
For instance, I prefer to be called either Tranzman or Jesse. :thumbsup: On the other hand, I truly detest being called Tranzy, Tranzy Poo etc. :twitch: Don't do it! |
i don't care what you call me as long as you do it in front of my face and not behind my back.
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Greyson or Grey. One person refers to me as "Gayson." I find it offensive only because I suspect his use of it is queerphobic. I have no issue with my gender nor sexuality.
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Corkey or Cork are fine with me, but please leave the cutsey shit off the end. I'm not that kind of guy to be calling cutsie names, it may come back to bite one in the rear end. As my wife uses Corkey when she is ticked at me and needs the first middle and last names to grab my attention she is the only one allowed to do so. It's called boundaries, I haz them.
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Arwen. Ar.
My given name is Stephanie. That's what my mother and father named me. Some folks still prefer that over Arwen and that's okay. Just do not shorten it to Stephie. I hate that with a passion. Steph I can handle but Stephie sends me right over the edge. And, just so you know, I don't think it's cute to tease me about it. At all. One of my triggers and you will get a curt response. If you are lucky, I'll send it back channel. Of course, darlin' is always good. :) |
BullDog, Bully or Jules. I also don't mind other terms of endearment when they are good natured. :)
As to my gender I am butch and/or butch woman. I do not use female identified butch- which I find to be very jargony and seems to be used because of male identified being used. So for those who prefer female identified butch that's fine and I will refer to you that way, but it does not refer to me. |
Really it depends on who it talking to me. Different people get to call me different things.
Brandy is always a safe bet. As is Potty. Bete works. Bête noire if you've got a bitchin' French accent. Never Bran or Brand or Pots, thanks. |
I chose a stupid site name, and now get called, "wax." As long as it is not ear ...
Also been called bastard, but that is reserved for special folk. Just call me Terry, if you remember. Otherwise, whatever. It's only nether space after all. |
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Since this thread was created, I think its as good a time as any to mention what it is that we prefer to be called. I've used Braedon for a long while and thats what everyone online knows Me as, but since I will soon be transitioning I have chosen a permanent male name that I will change it to legally when I can afford it:
Matthew Alexander Those who prefer Braedon can still call Me that, though I'd prefer Matthew or Matt if that can be arranged. Other then that, I'm all good as long as you don't call Me late for dinner :readfineprint: |
i get turasultana, tura, tura tura.
all fine. Hey sultana is fine too. Laura is my actual name. that's fine by me too. although if i don't know you and you say it, i'll probably totally forget that I posted it and be confused for a minute. :) |
S works fine. Strappie was calling me Softie in the chat room which was a new one for me. Like Wax, it doesnt matter here. I prefer not to be called by my given or nick names on the site, unless its in private. A real transgression of boundaries happened on another site when my given and nicknames were used in public posts aimed at harrassing me. Its amazing how web bullies can find cyber ways to maim....
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call me
chef
andy king andy baby boy daddy dumbass asshole asshat dick prick fucker billy's boy toy (jk) any or all of the above |
Dapper is fine by me.
Perhaps for those who want to be called by something other than their screen name, they can put it in their signature? Just a thought... |
Just about anything works for me, from my screen name to my real name to "hey you". Pet names or nicknames are good too, unless they just sound downright goofy or offensive.
My real name is Crystal, but hardly anybody uses that. Even my parents have called me "Jake" since birth, so it's all good. Or Chris, which I'm not a big fan of although I do allow one ex to call me that since she's never called me anything else. Oh, and my mom does have a habit of embarrassing me in public by calling me "Chrissy-poo". *shudder* :| Most folks usually just call me "dixie" and that seems to work best for me. MrSunshine calls me Dixie Crystal Sugar, but since he's my bestest buddy he gets away with it. Heaven forbid anyone else call me that. :twitch: |
Here I'm mostly called Tink, or occasionally Cindy by those that actually know me...at least to my face. LOL
My Spouse and Sister call me Cin (as did my Mom when she was alive), and my Mom used to call me Cindyrella Pumpernickel :| Rarely am I ever called Cynthia, which is my name |
Here on the Planet, I suppose any name that catches my attention works
I've had people use my entire screen name, Wolfy, W1 (fishinabaggie started that *smiles*) There are a few that know me and use the initial of my first name I really won't get pissed online for what you call me, but you better have a good running start if it's really nasty should I ever meet you in person :| And most know, it takes a lot to make me angry |
I go by, and everyone usually calls me "Theo", which is my legal and preferred name, amongst friends and family. I also get called "Adam" (my first name) with official stuff, including my union/work responsibilities/connections. That's okay, too, because I answer to both. :)
Occasionally, I get called "Mr. <surname>", but when that happens, I usually look around for my father. :| ~Theo~ :bouquet: |
great thread Jesse!
it's usually Entycing, if we're interacting for the first time, but after that, it's Deanna, which most folks call me- cept Wolfy and a few others who still call me Ms E from way back in the day... my mama calls me Dee, Damon calls me kitten, and I roll with any of the above- I'm easy like that! :) |
lotsa people on the site call me Dark, Crystal, or DC. My scene name is jenny pigtails, which sometimes gets shortened to "pigtails." Plain ole Jenny also works. Or even Jennifer. But not Jennifer LYNNE (!) b/c that means you're my mom and i'm about to be grounded or something |
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Don't forget, ............. Bella!!!!! |
AtLast. And I don't like my real name used by folks that know it.. just 'cause!
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I go by Jen, Jenny, Apoc, A, Mommie, Aunt Jenny, JP and AuntieJen.
If I know you I am fine with sweetie, darlin' and all that, since I live in the South, but please try to somehow refrain from calling me a Southern Belle, I hate that. Please do not use my last name on line. I am fine with Miss______ in person, but not on here. On the dash site someone used my entire name, I do prefer at least a drop of annonymity. I will try to remember to call those of you who do not like your screenname by the name you prefer, but I can be a space cadet, so please do not feel slighted if I forget. |
Shug Lil Shug Shuggita I prefer to use your screen name unless you tell me otherwise and ask that you do the same for me. I too, like a bit of anonymity, but if we get to know each other become friends, then I will let you know my real name so you can use either. If we don't really know each other--Shug works just fine. |
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My Name is Rebekah--- Rebekah or Reb are good... Rebbie is NOT nor is Becky---eeK.
I am not into cutsie stuff.... but Princess is a cool name to be called....LOL LOL |
On the site I prefer Guy or the obvious Guy In Florida.
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Sue or Suebee, both online and in real time. I'll answer to Susan - after all it's my name. "Suzanne" will be rewarded with my most potent shot of venom eyes. One or two folks get away with Susie or Susie-Q. If you call me by either you'd better be sure you're one of them! ;)
I have one young friend who still calls me Jedi Sue, 'cause I took him to see Star Wars when he was about three feet tall. :darthsmiley: He's gained about three more feet since then. I guess the name's here to stay. :| |
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*grinz* I'm okay with Gemme, Gemmie, Gemmelicious, Gemmekins, Gem, or Kat. If you know the name that was written on my birth certificate, good for you. It means that either I trusted you at one point or you got very lucky/nosy. No matter how you came to be knowledgeable about it, don't use it. One "person" used my full given name on the other site once. I. Was. NOT. Amused. :twitch: I don't mind Southern sweetisms like darlin' but please be respectful. Only one butch gets to call me baby or babygirl. My Austin sisters can do it, but not the rest of yous.:eyebrow: |
~Diva. (Candace calls me 'Licious". Or "Divalicious", too.)
~Janey. (That's JanEY.....not JanIE, please, and thank You.) ~I'm not fond of being called Jane, as that's what my Mom used to call me. And only Mr. Moon calls me Miss Jane. It's a 'thing' with us. ~I loathe my first name and even in jest, I just will not like it. ~For those Southern nicknames.....It depends on who is using them, but as a rule, I don't care for "Dear" or "Sweetie". They remind me of my former mother-in-law, who thought I was neither 'dear' OR 'sweet' & used them with dripping sarcasm............bless her heart. ~I enjoy being called "baby" or "girl" by the right one......"Honey" or "Darlin"? Again....depends on the user. ~And I find "Mujer" to be rather hot....but again...coming out of the correct mouth. ~Edited to add: ALso very hot: a boi sayin' "Yes Ma'am"..........oh hellz yeah.......... :eyebat: |
Fairly obvious, but.....Jo. Yep, just Jo. :)
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Ma'am
Momma Deborah Isadora Deb Isa Randal calls me Deborah Isadora. Well Randal screams.... Queen Mistress Goddess Midnight Mistress |
I go by my name, which is Lynn, really and truly. Some people call me Lynnie, which is OK, but not really how I see myself.
Don't call me "dear" or any other sugary endearment unless you mean it. Used as a sarcastic preface to a criticism or reprimand, it will not win you any points. I started using my own name when I realized how uncomfortable I was, trying to engage with anyone on a hopefully meaningful level, using an alias. Also, I've learned that privacy is an illusion on the internet. The people I try to avoid always find me anyway, so I figure, fuck it. |
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I agree, "Dear" sounds patronizing...I quite hate it! Mujer is indeed hot! and Yes Ma'am? love it! |
Pink works. Pinky if you know me. Miss Pink if you are nasty. Ha, I had to go there!
Girl, bitch and baby are ALL on reserve for a certain Papa. |
Gayla.
Yes, it's my real name. No, I did not make it up. Yes, my mother gave it to me. No, I did not change my name when I came out. If you call me anything else - online or off - I won't know you're talking to me. |
SassyLeo, Sassy
June-y & Medusa (as well as a few others ;)) have given me nicknames, but it's weird if others use them... |
There are some on the site that know and use my "real name" offline, but I'd prefer that's not used here.
Just call me SAB for short. Or SimpleAlaskan. Just don't call me boy, or late for dinner & we're cool.:koolaid: ~SAB |
Well I prefer to be called by my real name which is Gail but lipstixgal works too. People on here call me lips which is ok tooo!!
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My given name is Amanda and I'm perfectly okay with folks using that, as well as Manda...but please note I won't answer if you call me Mandy.
Of course I've been femmedyke for almost as long as I can remember on these forums so I'm fine with that...or fd and if you wanna go all hip-hop and call me femmeD, that is fine too! ;) |
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