How to tell if she's into you...
 

... this is meant to be a thread for all of us, not just for me to ask advice :lol2: Seriously, though, am I the only one who has trouble reading a girl? What, in your opinion, are the signs that she's interested?

Or is this "signs" theory just a bunch of crap? ;)

no, there are signs. just look out for the one that says "crap ahead" :|

Even if it's just for that night.
 

If she's all up in your space asking you to buy her breakfast...

She might be into you

If she's asking you to dance.....

She might be into you

If She takes you to meet Her friends across country...she is really into you!!!
:mohawk:

If she tells you her given name...

She just might be into you

Good Thread! I am new and just dipping in and jumping out trying to get used to the temp on the planet..Please bare with... She is into you if'?..? You cant go to the bathroom alone on your first date..

I gave up tryin to figure out what girls /women want,its like tryin to row a boat thrue mud.I get the name and number then they dont anser the phone nor return your call when u leave a mesage when u call,they will chat on line and pick up all the info from u they can.Then when things are seemingly ok...poof, they are gone,if they arent intrested then why take the calls,im's ect to the length some do?Come on shurely nobody can be that bord they are willing to do stiff like this for fun and games.I dont play games with anyone so I gess im a target for some folks..Yes im hard headed, so I gess I must have missed something while we were swapipng info.Dense is the word I think.U can bet I an being way more careful now.

Haha... well... it's hard to tell sometimes, especially if she's one of those super sweet girls who are in a band...

If she tells you that you're cute, and gives you her number... is she into you? :lol2:

If she is interested, and really listens to what you have to say (and may give feedback!), she could--possibly--be into you.

I would say if she wouldn't let me go to the bathroom alone that is scary weird! :bolt:

She gave you her number? Without prompting?

Yeah, she's into you. Call her!

I think you would at least be on the right track..:goodluck:

phoned
 

When you first meet someone, if they smile alot when they talk to you, they are probably interested. If she askes for your number and actually calls you, and returns your calls and text messages, good sign she is interested.

Ha Yes it was very scary..and thats why Jax never knows until its on me!!:jester:

If she is in your bed..........she might be interested in you

Haha, thanks!

Well, it's a really funny story how it happened, but to sum up? My good friend, who is her good friend... told me to "go for it."

Only, this girl I like... doesn't know I'm friends with her friend. Did that make any sense? :hamactor:

I've heard that if she gives her number, instead of asking for yours, it's a good sign she's interested... I guess I'm just nervous because she's pretty much one of the most gorgeous girls I've ever met. Mhm.

She asked for my FB, first, though... is that normal these days?

I'm probably not the best authority on what folks do these days but I would that her asking you for any kind of contact info is a good sign. :)

Set the nerves aside, breath, and call her!

And then come back and tell us what happens!

Oh, but you see, I don't have FB - hence why she then gave me her phone number, written in eyeliner on a receipt ;) Well, she had a friend write it for her, but still :lol2:

And, I've already been texting her since last night... I'm trying to keep it casual, but I'm also being sweet - I complimented her on her show the other night ;)

She's definitely the type to ask me out, first, and I'm completely shy... though I'm proud of myself for approaching her and talking to her, because I NEVER DO THAT. :nailbitin:

You photo-stalked me? Should I be concerned? :sunglass:

I'm actually going to let things happen and try really hard not to overanalyse anything - something I have a tendency to do A LOT. This girl has major points with me already because the friend who told me she was great, is someone I trust with my life. And I don't say that about just anyone.

Haha, no! This one's local ;)

I know, right?

Thanks for the prompts... I'm pretty sure I need them. Gah, I can't believe girls make me this nervous :|

So, my friend tells me that this girl dates a lot of people... which makes me... curious. But, she also says that she didn't tell me I was cute just to "be nice." I guess it's one of those things I have to try not to overthink, and just see if she texts me again.

Also, she's older than me, which is a good thing :)

There's just something about her I can't explain. I like it.

I don't necessarily want to do that, mainly because I don't want to put any pressure on the girl. I figure, if she's interested in me, she'll let me know. Until then, I'm just going to relax and let things happen the way they do ;)

You didn't come off snide at all, no worries :)

hmmm
 

id say when she shows up at in the morning on your day off with your favorite coffee and said i thought you might like coffee...lol