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Sam 11-15-2009 02:00 PM

Social Networking
 
Are you on Twitter, Facebook, Myspace, Friendster?

Any others out there that interest you?

How do you feel about Social Networking?

violaine 11-15-2009 06:35 PM

i do not maintain the fb page, although it is really a great way for people to see the work we do as a committee of the humane society. i think the feedback received is beautiful, and connections are awesome- like rescue ink ! my personal fb page is separate and while i enjoy seeing friends there, i love the non-profit page most of all.

PoeticWitch 11-15-2009 06:50 PM

I am torn on how I feel about social networking... I do have an fb page I have a myspace but I haven't been to it in a very long time... (maybe I should check it)

but why I am torn is because I do not like getting silly things on my page... or advertisements.. and this has happened before...

at the same time it can be very helpful...

so yeah that is my opinion

Rufusboi 11-15-2009 06:51 PM

No to FB
 
Not a social networker. My girlfriend has a FB page but forgets to post most of the time. I think she loved it for about 2 weeks then got bored with it. At least I haven't heard about it in a while. Maybe she's secretly posting to it and I don't know. :confused: Rufus

suebee 11-15-2009 07:06 PM

I must admit, I'm a facebook addict. I have myspace and twitter accounts, but don't do anything with them. I've found long-lost cousins, friends from highschool, and of course many of the members here are friends too! If anyone would like to befriend me, PM me! Especially if you're into farmtown and farmville - always looking for new neighbours!

MsDemeanor 11-15-2009 07:26 PM

I guess that I don't understand putting a lot of personal information (including my real name and location) out on the internet for everyone in the world to read. Plus, there's the time thing. I have barely enough time in a day to get through here and my news web sites, I can't imagine where one finds the hours to socially network in different places. It's 5 PM on a Sunday, I'm watching football *insert football smilie here*, working :pcthink:, doing laundry :laundryday:, writing this post :computer:, and figuring out what to have for dinner :cooking: pretty much all at once. I'm tapped :help:

I looked up this Farm Town thing in wikipedia; add that to the list of things that I don't get :confused:

Sam 11-15-2009 07:34 PM

I am a farmville and mafia addict. i have found many people from my past on fb. i dont drama with myspace anymore, too many toddlers. i twitter all day long.

Vlasta 11-15-2009 08:36 PM

I am on FB and I do have my space page , but I don't go to my space at all .. I simply don't have time to be looking for pictures and posting them on other people pages . I like FB , because there I have real friends and family from my home and other countries where I lived .

When I get home from work I really don't feel like to have any serious interaction at all . I need to relax and FB it's good for it . I am in my bed on laptop not in office , I am watching a news and click on facebook to see if my friends are OK or need some support .

As for people on Facebook that have a need to post when they eating , taking showers and every movement in they life it's annoying and I ignore that .

I am not concerned about my privacy , because with Internet these days we have none anyway . If someone wants to find me or something about me they will. They don't say that Zaba Search it's like Google on steroids for nothing .

PoeticWitch 11-15-2009 08:40 PM

never heard of zaba search... but I am going to have to look it up if it is better then google... hmmm

MsMerrick 11-15-2009 09:37 PM

Facebook addict here.. '

D-Money 11-15-2009 09:46 PM

i adore facebook!! myspace is dead. twitter seems dumb to me but i know a lot of folks like it. also ... i am one of those dinosaurs who still uses LiveJournal!!

oh, and i am a game freak on FB ... Mafia Wars, Prison Lockdown, Farm Town, Fish World, Pirates and Castle Age!! :D

Jett 11-15-2009 11:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by June (Post 6023)
I deleted MySpace a while ago. I do have Facebook and Twitter, but post only sporadically. It just seems like there's so many things vying for attention! Plus, I am just not into Farm Town *GASP* or any of the other apps and actually *whispering* ignore them.

With a name like Farm Town how can you resist... ;) heh.
.................................................. .

I myself do have a MySpace and FB but am also reminded now and again how ironic it is for a introverted misantropist (again love/hate really ;)) reclusive artist type to be "social networking".

So yes I do it, like it, but I'm just not very good at it... lol

atomiczombie 11-16-2009 12:44 AM

I never liked myspace. The pages were too messy and over-filled with disorganized information and music I don't want to hear. I never signed up for that one.

I do have FB, and I mostly log in to keep up with what's going on with my friends there.

Sam 11-16-2009 07:12 AM

i like fb more so because i can control privacy. im all about keeping my business to myself.

Semantics 11-16-2009 07:17 AM

Lazy Facebooker here.

My little blue pond is polluted, my plants are withered, and my fairies flew away.

PapaC 11-16-2009 07:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Metropolis
I myself do have a MySpace and FB but am also reminded now and again how ironic it is for a introverted misantropist (again love/hate really ;)) reclusive artist type to be "social networking".

So yes I do it, like it, but I'm just not very good at it... lol

I love love love how you said this. Because as true as I'm sitting here, if there were no computers, I've likely be classified as a hermit. I'm not sure that I'm a misanthrope, I'm just painfully shy (most don't know this about me at all because I don't present that way)

Diva 11-16-2009 09:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Easton (Post 5851)
Are you on Twitter, Facebook, Myspace, Friendster?

Any others out there that interest you?

How do you feel about Social Networking?


My goodness....I began thinking just how MANY networking sites there are.....and how I think I have tried so many!

~LJ (don't use anymore)
~MySpace (rarely use anymore)
~Twitter (never....I laugh everytime I hear the word "Twitter" or "Tweet")
~BF (phasing out by the end of the year)
~LinkedIn (I think that's what it's called.....rarely)
~FB (every day....and my puppy has an account, too.....she's addicted to FarmTown)
~Plaxo (rarely)
~MyClassmates.com (because I'm back in my hometown)

....and of course.....


~FBP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My new favorite place to be!!! I love it here!



~Diva :musicnote:






Eddie 11-16-2009 01:52 PM

I use Facebook regularly, don't sign on to Myspace much anymore (except today cause I wanted to see who's sent me messages) but do keep up with folks who update regularly on LiveJournal (but I don't update there myself).

My frustrations with Myspace came when I couldn't figure out how to remove Tom from the Activity Stream. I don't give two shits what he is listening to cause it's not my genre of music or contests that I don't want to be a part of. OH AND....people who flood the Message Board with their adverts several times in one hour about shows, gigs, stupid surveys and such as well as phony missing child alerts.

Some folks *coughRhoncough* I still enjoy reading about on LJ because they use it on a regular basis and there are groups I'm on that keep me updated about things that I don't see on MS or FB.

Jet 11-16-2009 02:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by June (Post 6023)
I deleted MySpace a while ago. I do have Facebook and Twitter, but post only sporadically. It just seems like there's so many things vying for attention! Plus, I am just not into Farm Town *GASP* or any of the other apps and actually *whispering* ignore them.

I think its all silly stuff.

Rogue 11-17-2009 03:55 PM

I think its great!
 
I think social networking is great!

It's funny that I found this thread because I just bought social networking software for my website.. it is a cross between myspace & facebook.. with forums, a banner exchange, groups, email lists, photo galleries, a shop, etc.. We will have paid and unpaid memberhsips.. paid memberships will go to support the site and bandwidth etc.. people will pay for what features they want on their subscriptions..

I will be using this website to promote, advertise, and feature community websites that relate to butch femme trans people, businesses, websites, etc etc..

I'm very excited about it, but I'm still working on it.. it probably won't be public until after christmas.. however I have invited a few people to have a look at it, give me advice, and maybe help out if they want.. so.. we'll see how it goes.. I've been very busy working on it.. LOL.. I want to make sure that I get all the bugs out of it before going live to the public!

I loved reading this thread and listening to what everyone had to say..

I deleted my "myspace" account a while ago.. I only use FaceBook now.. and I may go check twitter out :)

Sam 11-18-2009 08:53 PM

i like twitter, its growing on me

NotAnAverageGuy 11-18-2009 09:35 PM

Facebook junkie here hit me up in pm for my name if you wanna add me....

Vlasta 11-18-2009 09:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NotAnAverageGuy (Post 8250)
Facebook junkie here hit me up in pm for my name if you wanna add me....

noooooo , not you I am shock ;)

pajama 11-18-2009 10:02 PM

I cracked up at Diva's post, 'cause I thought the same thing when I started thinking of all the socializing forums I'm on.

Let's see...
FB - LOVE IT!!!!! Go there lots of times a day. I love that I've connected with all my best friends from elementary school through college on there! And most of my family is on it too.
LiveJournal - I have one friend that posts frequently on there and I go read her stuff. I don't use it.
MySpace - Like D said, "It's Dead", although I do still have my account.
BF - ended that relationship about a week ago.
FetLife - Just learning about it.
Collar Me - seldom go there 'cause I couldn't understand it.
Twitter - Don't understand it at all, so don't have an account.
Here - Learning my way around it.

I love all the updates, and have nothing better to do with my life than live vicariously through my young co-workers. :D

A

NotAnAverageGuy 11-18-2009 10:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vlasta (Post 8256)
noooooo , not you I am shock ;)


OH YES ME ahahhahah :bolt:

Leigh 11-18-2009 10:40 PM

I am into social networking but am not into alot of sites because I have My few favorites including:

1)Facebook - this is one of My favorite addictions, especially playing games on there (Farm Town, FarmVille, Fish World, FishVille, Mafia Wars etc)

2)BF - I still post there sometimes, but not even close to what I use to

3)BFD - I still go there alot, but not much

4)Myspace - I do have an account there, however I only log in once in awhile to check out things

5)Twitter - I have an account there too, but only log in once in awhile to see whats happening with the people I follow

6)LJ - I am going to be opening an account there soon for blogging, and as My own way of venting when I can't (or don't want certain other people to see it)

7)The Planet - This site is My absolute favorite place, and I plan to stick around here for a LONG time to come :thumbsup:

Kimbo 11-18-2009 11:30 PM

I am extremely leary of social networking sites. I use them everyday, I am also monitored on some of them everyday. If I don't need it or use it, I shut it down.

Many HR companies routinely google names on the internet and social networking site. I prefer the sites, like here at the Planet, where the communtiy is smaller, it doesn't feel like I am so searchable through friends pages and "fan" networking. Be very careful what you put out there.

I love having so much data at my fingertips, but that same data is also available to others.

Petal Soft 11-19-2009 03:35 AM

People keep inviting me to join facebook, but how many forums can you use and dont you just end up going from one to another telling the same things?? I dont have that much time. I get all the chat with people I like on the 2 sites I use....for now anyways.

~~~Petal~~~


Sam 11-19-2009 05:37 AM

I dont see facebook being a forum, soo much more to fb. :)


Quote:

Originally Posted by Petal Soft (Post 8470)
People keep inviting me to join facebook, but how many forums can you use and dont you just end up going from one to another telling the same things?? I dont have that much time. I get all the chat with people I like on the 2 sites I use....for now anyways.

~~~Petal~~~



Kimbo 11-22-2009 02:03 PM

I worry about the amount of privacy that is given up on these sites.

PI's don't even have to leave thier offices any longer (sorry Itty) -- If you are internet search savvy you can find anything.

If you are internet savvy you know there is a backdoor for almost all of these social sites.

Click

HumV4me 11-22-2009 02:21 PM

I've learned to enjoy FB more... I have a MySpace but never go there.

I'm not a Twitterer and other than here... those are all I do.

I FB more because I can update quickly with all my friends and it's easier to check the status of everyone. Plus I like to goof off and mess around with the apps and the gifting.

I don't do any of them for popularity... thats not my thing and I don't compete for things... it's just all down time when it comes to the apps... but how I love to ~~FARKLE~~. LOL

dixie 11-22-2009 02:39 PM


here - I absolutely love!!!!
BF - hardly ever go there
BFD - banned ..lol
MySpace - i'm a survey addict
FaceBook - it's really growing on me
Queer-Space - i post occasionally
Twitter - uber boredom to me
FetLife - love it

and a variety of others, but those are my main ones...

MsDemeanor 12-20-2009 02:00 AM

Here's an article about protecting your privacy on Facebook that popped up on Yahoo.

linkyloo

BestButchBoy 02-07-2010 06:20 AM

Social media is having a profound effect on marketing, advertising, and...privacy. Most, if not all, employers search online prior to any phone call or interview of a prospect. Once it's out in the ethers, it's there forever.

Personally, I do not have any online presence, save b.f and twitter. I haven't the time or the inclination. I am, however, fascinated by it all. It's opened many doors. Closed even more. And, has change socialization, not necessarily in a good way.

I prefer to meet people in person and real life. Then, it's no longer an ideal (sometimes it is!) or just virtual. But, I do dig meeting people online as well.

Cheers for Queers!

Daktari 02-07-2010 09:08 AM

I'm a facebooker too. I refuse to play the mafia/farm/cafe et al games but I love keeping in touch with folks I don't see in rl very often. It's a great place to keep an eye on what other urbexers are doing too.

I visit Fetlife on a regular-ish basis too.

Soft*Silver 05-05-2017 02:15 PM

wow, I came across this 8 year old thread and re-read it...so much has changed!

BFD is gone

BF is gone

no one does My Space anymore

Twitter has picked up in popularity because of 45

Linked In has lost most of our interest unless you are looking for a job

Facebook has caught us in its snare...it is THE #1 social media


when I came back to the Planet, I wondered where everyone was. I think FB has taken alot of people away from here

and I wonder why

I personally love the forum set up on the planet. And I like how we are screened for participation, so the likelyhood of trolls coming in for stares and rude comments are reduced.

wondering what others think about social media nowadays and how it affect the Planet?

*Anya* 05-05-2017 03:22 PM

It makes me sad to be reminded that Daktari has passed.

I think I still have FB deactivated.

I never did My Space.

I guess I like the forum format the best myself.

I have found other forum-type sites but they are not not butch-femme.

That seems to be rare these days too.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Soft*Silver (Post 1142044)
wow, I came across this 8 year old thread and re-read it...so much has changed!

BFD is gone

BF is gone

no one does My Space anymore

Twitter has picked up in popularity because of 45

Linked In has lost most of our interest unless you are looking for a job

Facebook has caught us in its snare...it is THE #1 social media


when I came back to the Planet, I wondered where everyone was. I think FB has taken alot of people away from here

and I wonder why

I personally love the forum set up on the planet. And I like how we are screened for participation, so the likelyhood of trolls coming in for stares and rude comments are reduced.

wondering what others think about social media nowadays and how it affect the Planet?


Soft*Silver 05-05-2017 03:49 PM

wait..what? Daktari has passed??

Why do we not have a thread to memoralize all those members who have passed? I did not know Duchess passed! Now Daktari!


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