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whats your style
I was wondering, on this board who likes to persue and who likes to be persued? you know whats your style?
are you the hunter or the prey :D |
I tend to be a hunter...
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Hunter, definitely! Must be that Leo in me! <wink>
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Predator :grindevil:
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Its the shyness that I have. So I would say I am the prey. I need to be pursued.. :)
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Hmmm...
I will pursue enough to make sure that I am the prey. :cheerleader:
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I tend to be the hunter...but im not gonna lie I dont mind a femme hunting me for a change lol...
So Incubus, Lady Snow and Claybaby..in life are you a go getter and competitive? I tend to get gungho at work and in games lol Bigbutchmistie....so do you think its because you are shy you dont persue? |
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LOL I like that answer thanks :) |
Yes ma'am....competitive to a degree....in affairs of the heart....not so much! I want someone to WANT to be with me....if competition is involved...I am "walk away, Jo"...<wink>
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Thanks, dude!!!!
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Hmm...
In matters Of the heart, prey-yes. I have a hard time being the initiator. I think I have pretty much been socialized into this role and I try to break out and to be more of the pursuer but it is not comfortable for me. I am pretty shy too.
In matters of the heart, no competition. Refuse to play games-either want me or not. In work and life, yes I will and have-pursued jobs and opportunities that I have wanted and have also been competitive in those arenas. Somehow it is much easier for me behind my professional role than in my personal life. |
Hungry like the wolf.
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I definately like to be chased....but I can also chase Im a skilled hunter! lol
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im enjoying your responses, im thinking shyness might have a lil to do with it what do you all think?
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I'm definitely a hunter.
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i am the hunter...but some how i always end up being the prey..
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I am to shy, so they would have to chase me
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Dreams now there isnt a thing wrong with that :)
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I too, wonder if the shyness around romance is socialized in me as well. Or maybe not being out for very long has something to do with my shyness. Don't know, seems the older I get the more shy I am. Oddly, though, the older I get the more confident I am as a person. Okay, I don't have a clue (or, perhaps too many). I appreciate it when someone shows interest. I try to show some interest by making direct eye contact and smiling. If the person doesn't show any interest back (maybe playing it cool, or just not interested, or doesn't know I am gay) then I back the heck off. I don't know, how does a femme let someone know they are gay? Do we even register on the gaydar?? |
i don't consider myself shy. i am prey. i have been attracting predators since I was little!!!
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I don't think I'm competitive at least that's not how I carry that natural ability to want to be successful or attain things I may want or desire. It's just is what it is..
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I am definitely the prey, I wouldn't have it any other way. If I am interested in someone I will let them know with coy flirting, smiles and the like but I will not initiate at all, guess I am old fashioned that way. That and the dominant, alpha personality thing is so dang sexy *fans self*. lol
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Femmes show up on my gaydar just sayin ;) Quote:
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I do find its a natural ability to me as well...it just happens to be I am good at a lot of things I try |
First of I dont play games with anyones feelings, but that being said if the right intrest is shown...watch out things can change in a heart beat.
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I'm like Mistie in the sense that I'm very shy and will not likely pursue someone making Me the prey ~ I am slowly beginning to come out of My shell, so maybe this whole shyness business won't last too long ;)
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I am the prey, until I am not.
I have periods of shyness, interrupted by bouts of coyness and manipulation. |
I tend to start out being the persuer but I have gotten off that train and have decided to wait on someone to woo me. I deserve it. Looks like I'll be waiting a while.
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I'm a hunter
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Im shy and dont go after people, especially since I do like older people then me, and not alot of them give me the time of day.
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This is how I roll. Throw down my credentials. Represent.
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Usually, I am the hunter. Although I will pretend to be the prey. ;)
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Even though I posted a little above, I think I will always be shy and therefore somehow will always be the prey! :|
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I like being the prey, but there are times I also like being the hunter. A friend of mine once described me this way: femme in the streets, butch in the sheets...LOL, I am more flexible than that but it's pretty darn close. I do so like to hunt. But at the same time, I enjoy playing coy and making eye contact and smiling making you come to me. So you figure me out, I don't know...
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being that i am prey sometimes i feel very baitish...today is one of those days!!!
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