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hottprof 12-04-2009 08:52 PM

What's the difference between Romantic and Sexy?
 
I thought this would be a fun little thread to start to see what others think the difference is between Romantic and Sexy.

Is there a difference?
Are they one in the same?
What about that fine line between the two?

Just curious as to what others opinions are about it.


Smiles :frog:

hottprof 12-04-2009 09:00 PM

webster dictionary:


Main Entry: sexy
Pronunciation: \ˈsek-sē\
Function: adjective
Inflected Form(s): sex·i·er; sex·i·est
Date: 1925
1 : sexually suggestive or stimulating : erotic
2 : generally attractive or interesting : appealing <a sexy stock>

Main Entry: Romance
Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): ro·manced; ro·manc·ing
Date: 1655
intransitive verb
1 : to exaggerate or invent detail or incident
2 : to entertain romantic thoughts or ideas
transitive verb
1 : to try to influence or curry favor with especially by lavishing personal attention, gifts, or flattery
2 : to carry on a love affair with

WILDCAT 12-04-2009 09:25 PM

Oh, I'll bet you'll get a fun little thread out of this!!
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I could get into ALL kinds of wild fun and trouble here! But, I will not. (TOO SHY with my private stuff!)

The two are generally overlapping for me though! And you can have one, but not the other. Also, you can have BOTH, individually and separated. THAT IS FUN TOO!!!

I enjoy the BLEND. (However, just GOOD HOT SEXY is... quite "alright".)

OK, enough... (!) have FUN here!!

:D

Diva 12-04-2009 11:34 PM

Romantic ~ Heart

Sexy ~ Lower

:eyebat:

daisygrrl 12-05-2009 11:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva (Post 16673)
Romantic ~ Heart

Sexy ~ Lower

:eyebat:

Ms. Diva's hit the nail on the head for me...

Although, I can see when the two blend into each other--and I must say that I like it better that way ;)

For instance: Dollin' up :spruceup: for a fancy dinner :toast: + conversation & flirting (which can be both sexy & romantic) = :fallenangel: [insert your favorite naughty emoticon here]

The_Lady_Snow 12-05-2009 11:58 AM

Romantic-- Your blood and skin underneath my nails

Sexy- Dancing

Words 12-05-2009 01:54 PM

Romantic - You touch my heart.

Sexy - You touch my cervix.

MrSunshine 12-05-2009 02:05 PM

Romantic - thinking about it

Sexy - getting it

hottprof 12-06-2009 12:14 AM

Romantic: getting a text message from hym saying that hy wants to make love to me

Sexy: hym telling me how he wants to do it


Romantic: holding hands in public, walking on the beach together, snuggles on the sofa watching football or hockey

Sexy: having hym tell me I am sexy in sweats and a tee shirt

Smiles :frog:

UofMfan 12-06-2009 09:24 PM

Romance makes my heart skip a beat.

Sexy gets a totally different physical reaction.

Corkey 12-06-2009 10:00 PM

Romance, a play and a movie
Sexy
, her playing in the movie.
:daddy:

Andrew, Jr. 12-08-2009 10:11 PM

Romance vs Sexy
 
Romance is cutting flowers from my backyard and giving to a sweet femme.
:bunchflowers:

Sexy is erotic.

LadyRieinAL 01-20-2013 10:47 PM

Romantic: candle light, perfume, cologne, soft gentle boat ride, massage, basket of flowers, a single bloom, poetry, being read to, bubble baths, home cooked meal, feeding one another, moon light stroll, a walk along the beach, blazing fire, blanket on the ground, picnic basket with special goodies, soft music, horse back ride,

Sexy - erotic movement, lace, leather, the smell of leather, attitude, Intelligence, deep connecting voice, erotice movement, confidence, eye contact in any position,

Bèsame* 01-20-2013 10:50 PM

Romance almost always leads to Sexy ;)

kittygrrl 01-20-2013 10:59 PM

romantic: whisper in my ear

sexy: then do it

clay 01-20-2013 11:30 PM

decadent lingerie....mmmmm

Tommi 01-20-2013 11:49 PM

Kiss your neck

Nibble lower

lower

Greyson 01-21-2013 12:39 AM

Romantic - She touches my heart. In that moment it will always be her, only her. I feel inspired by her, and who she is, really is.

Erotic - In my experience erotic does not require romantic. It can but not necessarily. Passion, desire, thirst, need.

Lady Pamela 01-21-2013 03:31 AM

Sexy:
An article,body movement,thought or look that creates inner desire to want more. By accident or on purpose.

Romantic:
An intentional act that is intended to make the other person feel personally attended to and feel special, on many levels.

sharonsuburbia 01-21-2013 03:42 AM

romantic she is there when you wake up - sex is you look for underwear and say fuckit and get a ca:moonstars:b

Gemme 01-21-2013 05:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hottprof (Post 17049)
Romantic: getting a text message from hym saying that hy wants to make love to me

Sexy: hym telling me how he wants to do it

This. Exactly.

Being romantic is like having a nice pot of gravy or sauce on low, simmering. Being sexy is when you forget about the sauce and it boils over.

PearlsNLace 01-21-2013 08:48 PM

Romance : the sweetness
sexy: the spice

Crow 01-21-2013 11:58 PM

yup
 
Romantic is the note I find slipped in my lunch.

Sexy is when you show me just exactly what it said.

miss entycing 01-22-2013 12:09 AM

romantic-
a sweet lil innocent note slipped into Hys briefcase-
cuz i miss Hym.

sexy-
Hys favorite and most sexiest panties of mine... slipped in Hys briefcase-
cuz i want Hym.

Lazy Daze 01-23-2013 08:01 AM

Romantic- Him making me dinner because He loves me

Sexy- watching Him making dinner

Bèsame* 06-16-2013 10:51 PM

romantic...
Summer breeze, moonlight,car door open to hear the music, drinking wine

Sexy....
When that wine kiss leads to a slow dance with hands holding each other tight

Sweet Bliss 06-18-2013 11:34 PM

Romantic: impromptu picnic

Sexy: flash of lovely leg under skirt

GraffitiBoi 06-19-2013 02:01 AM

Romantic: Awww

Sexy: Rawr

Happyfemme 06-23-2013 03:58 PM

Romantic
Walk in the park holding hands
Spending the day together
Chocolate covered strawberries
Soft kisses
Dancing
Making him a special dinner
Leaving notes in his lunch bag

Sexy
Lingerie that he picks out for you
Cowboy boots and sundresses
Surprising him after he had a long day at work
Passionate kisses
Him caressing your leg under the table at dinner
Texting certain things

BstlMyhart 06-23-2013 05:01 PM

Romance--ignites a fire in the soul
Sexy--ignites a fire in the body

little_ms_sunshyne 06-23-2013 05:20 PM

Romantic--Cooking dinner together

Sexy--Dessert ;)

VintageFemme 06-23-2013 05:40 PM

Romantic - Dancing in the kitchen.

Sexy - Getting 'busy' in the kitchen.

Trev 06-23-2013 07:16 PM

Romantic ... Slow dancing under the stars with my truck door open listening to the music.

Sexy...The skin from my back under her nails

Electrocell 06-23-2013 08:24 PM

Romantic is holding hands and going for a moonlight stroll and or a picnic by a babbling brook .

Sexy is when she does a striptease for you or dirty dances with you :tease:

Metro 06-24-2013 05:06 PM

Romantic -- that look in her eyes.
Sexy -- THAT look in her eyes.

Katniss 06-24-2013 05:20 PM

Romantic-- That butterflies in the tummy feeling of a first date.

Sexy---That still have butterflies in the tummy feeling on a 20th anniversary.



Katniss~~

JAGG 06-24-2013 06:23 PM

Romantic - kissing on a dock with the lights shimmering on the water.

Sexy - the curves of her naked body in the moonlight as she sleeps.

little_ms_sunshyne 06-24-2013 06:36 PM

Romantic~~a soft kiss on the lips

Sexy~~ a soft kiss on the curve of my neck

imperfect_cupcake 06-24-2013 08:22 PM

I can have Romantic Friendships that have zero sexy in it. I do not desire to have sex with them, but there is a deep kind of romance there.

I have have sex with no romance - just dirty fun.

it's nice where they are both there, but I can have both without them being from the same people.

Some of my closest mates I have strong romantic feelings for, but no sexual feelings.

Tony 06-24-2013 08:28 PM

Romance....dancing to Kem's Share My Life.

Sexy.....dancing to the Dramatic's Door To Your Heart.


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