The Single Bravehearts, Queer thread
 

There is a singles thread for FTM's and Butch/Femms but not one for as another thread labels us the Bravehearts the Trans that cannot or choose not to transition or Queers.
So because I fall in to the category I figured I would start one. Where we can have a place to come mingle and meet each other. I feel awkward posting in the FTM single thread and in the Butch/Femme thread. This way if I am flirting with a femme in here she knows I id as a trans man that cannot translation.
So hello everyone and happy TGIF lets get the flirting started! I cannot be the only single trans man and there has to be at least one single lady out there that loves us...so come out of hiding and mingle awhile!!!

i'm not single, but i wanted to come in and show some love. i'm happy you started this thread :) there are lots of folks in my life who can't or don't wish to transition medically but who are trans*...i know it is a hard road for many. we femmes love and appreciate you :)

:: poking my head in and smiling ::

I was married for 11 years to a TG butch who ID'd as male but chose not to transition, so yeah, I get it. :)

Hi Dance with me and you to Leigh and thanks for the support aishah.

So Dance with me any plans for the weekend?

Well it is Saturday and a beautiful fall day one of those fall day where I would love to take a nice long walk in the park with some special looking at the colors in the trees and trees. Then have a picnic lunch down by the lake to watch the swans before it got to cold.

I'm house/dog sitting for friends this weekend. This afternoon I'm meeting someone for a late lunch/early dinner, then joining other friends this evening to watch roller derby. Tomorrow I head home but plan to stop first at a reception for my state's Democratic candidates, including a chance to meet Sen Coons who I've grown to really admire. So a relaxing and hopefully enjoyable weekend!

How about you?

Love this thread
I will be going for top surgery but thats about it
Thanks for the thread

Wow sounds like fun especially the roller derby haven't seen a good roller derby in a while. As for my plans nothing special just researching some states to see if I want to move to them because the one I live in (my home town) really is not friendly or open to butches let alone trans men. Then if weather permits I am going to do a little hiking in the state park to look at the colors before the all are gone.

Your welcome Julien and I hope you post in here

Just giving the new singles thread an afternoon/evening Saturday bump. Hi everyone... a little damp and cloudy here a perfect night for good conversation and cuddling or a watching a good movie together.

Good to see you online :)

Its getting to be that time of year where I wish I had someone to cuddle with; until then I'll just snuggle with my stuffed bear :blink:

I, personally am not a brave heart but I'm dropping by to show my support. Think this was a great idea for a thread. Good job Alix.

Thanks bro that means a lot to get a thanks and support from others in the community. Thanks too everyone else that has stopped by to show their support for the thread.

LOL I can not recall the last time I used one of those Julien but I do understand what you mean by not having plans on a Saturday night bummer here too. Yet like you I have seemed to have found my writing ability again accept I am real old school pen on paper first before it gets on here. There is not enough white out in the universe for me to use a typewriter lol.....:blink:

Late night bump
 

Okay since it is a Singles mingle thread and I am single and want to mingle I thought I would I ask a couple of questions. What is your idea first date? Do you believe in LDR?
Now this is for both femmes and those that id as Bravehearts or Queer whatever you know those that would date us lol....not real good with the words tonight.

Late night bump
 

Late night bump time and maybe a definition for those that do not know what a Braveheart is. It is a term that was coined here on the site for a TG that can not or chooses not to transition for whatever reason. For some it is because of financial, medical, or because they have come terms with living in the body they have even if does not represent how they feel.

It is a gloomy rainy Sunday here hope the sun is shinning some where if it is how about sending it my way.....

Did you see the date ideas thread someone started a couple of weeks ago? Lots of good ideas there.

To combine your date question and your LDR question which to me also includes an implication of having met online.... To a degree I think that LDRs can work but to ME, they can't work or even truly exist without regular in-person contact - and there is no real relationship without that contact. To ME, there is just too much that you can't possibly know about someone until you spend a lot of time together.

So for me, the first time or two (or even more) that I meet someone from online, it's not really a date, or at least not the same kind of date. We are instead just getting to know each other and check each other out, no matter how many times we've emailed or talked in the phone. I honestly for myself like to keep these first meetings very casual, not dressy or romantic, because there's just nothing that can be as awkward as doing a big romantic date then realizing that there really isnt the chemisty to sustain or justify that kind of date. Then if we discover that the chemistry is there, we can plan something much more romantic, pull out the femme finery, etc.

Beautiful day here - just cool enough to know its fall but warm and fresh enough to throw all the windows open. Sending some your way!

I so agree about the meetings in a LDR that the first couple really are not the big romantic kind. No matter how much I want to pull out the big guns and reserve the nice restaurant and be all mushy and have the nice romantic walk I would like to know there is chemistry first. No matter how much time is spent on the phone, email, text, and Skype you can not know if the chemistry is there until you meet and get rid of those first meetings jeeters out of the way.

Thread bump
 

Bump, Bump, Bump
 

Thread bumping time....
 

Spring is in the air here on the west coast so I figured it was thread bumping time