Butch as an umbrella of presentations
Do you feel that butch is a single way to act and dress, or a grouping of ways?
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what do you think?
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Yes, tell us what you feel.
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In my opinion,
The answer to that question is certainly not if butches are being compared to each other. And the answer is yes if they are being compared to a femme...of course Butches come in all forms,styles, and dispositions. People may personally define BUTCH seperately depending on personal prefrence. But that does not make other styles or forms of Buth any less valid. Just saying. . |
To be honest, I'm mostly asking because I feel like a butch, but I worry others would not define me that way. I love using the word "butch" to describe my gender as well as sexuality, but I have several characteristics that would, if going by the standard definition, contradict this identity. For example, I love bright colours and often wear them, am a total mush for rom coms, and tend to giggle and jump around when excited (which is frequently). But I also bind, and feel uncomfortable when my appearance is too feminine.
If butch is an umbrella term, I'd fall under it. But if it's more solid and unalterable, I probably wouldn't. |
Ay Dios Mio!!
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Haha Lady! I was sorta feeling the same but prolly for a different reason. |
Only you define who you are. It doesn't matter what "they" say you are, or what a butch is, or anything. There's a real freedom when you decide not to listen to the "thems" in your head.
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To be or not to be, that is the question! lol...
ps: Idk..is it just me..I'm kinda receiving strange vibes here...AGAIN! |
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If you wear bright colors then butches wear bright colors because you identify as a butch and do so. While there's a spectrum of butch such that in most circles, if a group of people 'in the life' were to walk into a room and someone said "woo! look at that butch over there!" everyone would probably look in the same direction there is a point, ineffable as it might be, where people wouldn't look at the woman wearing a dress with her hair coiffed like she'd just stepped off a 1940s film noir set. What that point is, I don't know but as a practical matter it exists because we all have some idea of what the other person means when they use the word 'butch'. You are butch because you identify yourself as a butch. The things you do are butch because you are doing them. Butch is just a label, wear the label proudly, don't let the label wear you. Cheers Aj |
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Thanks for making me laugh OUT LOUD! at work...:hangloose: |
I was thinking EXACTLY the same thing. I hate the fact that we have to feel "en guard" right now.
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this poor kid picked the wrong day to start a thread like this........laughin...
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I giggle. I cry. I laugh. I can act like a fool. I do not like or feel comfortable in feminine clothing.....lace, frills, short skirts, prom dress, gown.....I will not say that an article of clothing without legs (a skirt/sarong/kilt) is strictly for girls cuz I know some Maori and Scottish men who would kick my ass up into next week. I do not bind It makes me nuts when folks are afraid to say they are butch just because they have and express their emotions or because they pick a particular style of clothing.... |
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I hope you aren't too confused by the seemingly odd answers that some of the other Planeteers posted in response to your question. You showed up just as a very annoying person with a fake ID, who took up a tremendous amount of attention with her pestering questions, was being shown the door. One of the queries from the false poster sounded a bit like your innocent and legitimate question. Once again, welcome. |
Drat! I just revisited Woody's infamous Wikipedia pic, and she's wearing a black tank top. What you can't see is her pair of awesome rainbow shorts. I know she was wearing them because I have so many other pics of her from that day that show her bright clothing. She loved her neon coloured tailcoat, and the crayola cummerbund that looked so good under her leather tailcoat.
Anywho, I'm with Aj and Toughy. Be who you are, and do as you please. No one else gets to tell you how to be you. |
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Ok what is a rom com? |
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Oh ok. I was thinking like comic-com for romulans. |
ayyy dios mio, santa maria, y nino! hehe.
hello Fanbutch. Are you a fan of butches? There is lots of threads here regarding butches. I say start there! Butches is definitely a grouping of different ideas and folks! :) |
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