Butch Buyers Guide
 

:beerbros:

For all those, young and old, a buyers guide to all things "butch". I'll start it off by saying I lost weight and need a new set-up. I can't remember where the h*ll I bought anything! I use either small briefs or the "shorts" type harness... any suggestions?

We ordered this bike short harness not too long ago for Jess...

http://wildhearts.com/spandexbikestrapon.aspx

Hy's been rather pleased with it. They also have good prices on Vixskins if you are in the market.

We had a size problem (shorts) with the first shipment - they pulled and sent the wrong size. They also didn't overnight the shipment as we had paid for. When I called, the overnight shipping was refunded and the correct size short was overnighted before I returned the wrong one. I was very pleased with their response and customer service.

This harness is so damn comfortable and it's machine washable. :boxers:

http://store.babeland.com/harnesses-...-joque-harness

I thought that this thread would be about buying butches, a sort of shopper's guide for the single femme or for someone looking to trade in on a newer model.

My bad.

I got the large. According to the chart I could have gone with either size and didn't have a problem tightening it for me, but smaller one might have worked for me too. I think it's very comfortable and it does stretch so probably the small would work for most who fit within that size waist range they recommend.

Maybe I'm old school, but I've long been a fan of the Terra Firma for sexual activities. I recently bought a very comfortable harness for packing, and it was fairly inexpensive. It's called the Undercover Harness on the babeland site. I pack with the Goodfella, and this harness works great, and is easily the most comfortable I've used. I took at a look at the Spareparts harness, but I prefer to, um...wear my balls outside the harness. The Spareparts harness doesn't really allow for that. But it did look really comfortable.

My harness is the Tera Firma, and I love it!

I have the terra firma too. It's a great harness, but my new one is a lot more comfortable. :D

me

Me too - rushed right in with my wallet and some 50% off coupoons :awww:

A must in every butch's accessory bag :boxers:
The cup can be a bit big and they are great to wear under leather and I love the way they fit...

They also really enhance my experience because I feel more.. I'd highly recommend them.

http://www.qtantra.com/store/index.p...products_id=76

Aslanleather.com is pretty good. They're the makers of much of the leather stuff you see on other sites, anyway.
The jaguar is a nice one.

Hack, the spandex harness that Christie posted up higher seems to allow for balls out, although, I think aesthetically speaking, I like the one Kimbo linked to (but that's just me.)

I just bought the same packing harness you did but haven't worn it yet. How do you like it?

Old School Harness wearer too...Terra Firma - tight against the body and stays in place no matter what!

I find it to be quite comfortable if I remember to wear it low. I have a tendency to want to "hitch" everything up. lol But I if I just wear it low, where it naturally sits, it is easy to wear. The times I've tried to wear it higher made everything feel...askew...if you know what I mean. ;)

I hear ya, Dapper. I like to strap tight too. Better cock control. ;)

Exactly. :beerbros:

ROLF!!! Hey, I clicked over thinking it was butch fashion thread!!!


Double ROLF!!! But, no coupons!


Bully- I love this model. It is great for those of us that just don't like the feel (and smell) of leather. I find it to be very comfortable, easy to clean and no problems with control. And my comment has nothing to do with anyone's style of sexuality. LOL.... and the sound of cinching and uncinching can be a great post-sex conversation starter! :lol2:

Thinking about the royalties on the terra-firma... used one for a long time and remember when it was practically the only made! Really glad to see harnesses out now that are not made from leaather, though. Feel like I have a choice.

[QUOTE=MsDemeanor;43312]I thought that this thread would be about buying butches, a sort of shopper's guide for the single femme or for someone looking to trade in on a newer model.

My bad.

:superfunny:

Had this one for years, the only issue I had with it during sex was the "snaps" were rather uncomfortable for my partner. There is good "ow" and bad "OW"...

Are you using the vixskin Goodfella? I find it a bit to em, firm for everyday packing. Great for fucking , anal and blow jobs... not so much for packing. At least for me.

The shorts type harness Christie linked does allow for balls out.

Still looking for the perfect pack and play ( for me).

Do we have a fashion thread? Or can we use this space for that also?

Need to find some clothing sites that offer well rounded apparel. Casual, dress, etc for folks my age. I will wear some clothes that are fairly youthful, but at 46 , I don't tend to like a lot of today's styles.

"Pants on the ground, pants on the ground.. lookin like a fool with your pants on the ground"!

The girl says I need to stop shopping the clearance rack at Wally World or thrift stores... Any ideas folks?

I have used these shorts too, and although the snap problem makes sense (and is a good point of caution), my partner (ex) never said this was a problem for her.

However, again, I am a big Terra Firma fan, so I was never using these shorts on a regular basis with a partner.

I don't pack 24/7, so it works ok for me, but I have found the tighter the boxer briefs while packing it, the, um, better.

And I hear you on still looking for the perfect pack and play.

The person who invents the perfect pack and play is gonna make a bundle! :greendollar::greendollar::greendollar:

I think you'd need some kind of engineering degree to make that happen. lol

Can you help a butch out? I've used the terra firma for years and always ben very happy with it. I've had a harder time finding a harness or strap to pack with. I'd like to check out the Undercover Harness mentioned here, but when I put toys in babeland in my search the freaking store doesn't come up. Can slomeone send me the link, either to the store or to this product?

Thanks!

http://www.babeland.com/

They shortened their name to babeland a year or so ago.

Okay, I found the site but couldn't find the undercover harness - apparently right now I am packing-challenged!!!

http://www.aslanleather.com/catalog/...products_id=32

Always happy to help...

Jake

Here's a direct link:

http://store.babeland.com/harnesses-...leather-d-ring

bump .....

One of my faorite sites for bumping supplies
:bedfuck:

and another for everything else

howdy yall...
i have been on the lookout for something and have no idea where to find it... but... not givin up...
anyone know of a place that sales maybe vintage toys? i used to buy this one particular deal to wear out... i enjoyed it just and only for that reason...
i havent had to look for one in about 15yrs... i assume it has been replaced by bigger and better...
however... for the purpose i used this set up with it worked perfectly... and i dont wanna change it up...
so..
anyone got any idea of where to get less cutting edge toys???

hey jesse...i agree we need a fashion thread. i am 35 and when i shop for a little nicer casual clothing i go to structure for men. their clothes are geared for those who want to dress a little trendy...but they also have a good collection of more classic and essential clothes. and don't give up on the thrift stores...i always find good stuff there.

hey jess and chef...

here is a link to the butchwear thread...

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...read.php?t=812

i get really damned tired of all the predictable butch wear too...
as for shopping tho... i end up with all the same tired stuff...
hell... i know i am getting old... been doing the madras thing lately... thinking too about starting to blouse and roll my sleeves... like gpa used to...
so... i know i gotta do somethin soon....
tho...i gotta admit... i do like a ducktail... and penny loafers... so... helll... maybe i will stay with my aesthetic... least til something better comes along...
i am personally glad it is winter... i can do a lot more with layers... that way i can just keep removing them until i feel like i am right for the room...