The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.
A place to visit and relate to each other being in our 40s & 50s and over. Topics vary on anything you want to share.
(Barb I stole your original thread and moved it over here lol) |
I'm bumping this up. Am I the only one who's old?...LOL
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Nahhh, lots of oldies here :)
I love being 46 though, nothing to prove. :) |
You're way young....
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Zygote here....:)
Seriously though, so many of my friends have always been younger but I am pretty settled now and don't party like I once did. I do feel very old in some ways. My immediate circle of friends is changing radically.
I find myself more and more wanting to be home in front of the fireplace with my honey and our dogs and kitties, I never imagined I would reach an age where I would rather eat dirt than go out. The only time I have more than 2 cocktails is at family stuff...and I consider that medicinal...ha. Last weekend, we actually went to a bar with a friend, and as soon as the crowd lumbered in, we went home. It was 9:30. Yep. There used to be a time when I was at the bar almost every night...though who can afford that and a house now? Anyone else see a change in things you enjoy and friendships as you age? |
Oldie here..........
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I really enjoy staying home. Now the big change for me is to move, had the economy not tanked I would of done it by now. My bones need warmth and sun...the cold, damp Seattle winters have run their course with me. I'm sure I'll be back with more but right now I've gotta take a nap..hehe:shocking: |
Hey all :) I am 48 and would not change all the years of experience to be young again for all the money in the world. I am in place where I know who I am, where I am going and really like myself.
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I think I got very lucky and pretty much avoided the bar life. And for sure at my age, I have zero interest in it.
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~~HEY~~ 41, here. And a Grandmother... I prefer it as **G-Ma**.
And I'm just waiting to get over to whole "Hang on to your youth" thing so I can just stop dying the grey and cut the color right outa my hair... yes... I'm go'na to cut that color right outa my hair. LOL I find myself focused on taking care of the parents now... the role has totally flipped... I'm the caretaker now. CRAZY! I would never had imagined such a thing happening. I do good getting 3 or 4 events a ~~YEAR~~ now with all the ((grown up)) things I have to do. |
I'll be 57 my next birthday (Feb).....that sounds so surreal to me! lol I don't FEEL 57......I don't feel as though I LOOK 57.....I certainly don't ACT 57!!
That being said, I DO find that I am increasingly more impatient with people who act the fool. If You're cranky, mean to people, shit~stirrers or passive~aggressive, I really don't have time for that. There's a part of me that is really looking forward to being a grandmother, but I'm not telling my daughter that! lol And I'm not having the "Grandma/Granny/MeeMaw/Nana" stuff.....I'm going to teach them something unusual....like "Diva". Yes....it has served me well for many years.....it might as well continue on..... :eyebat: |
I'm thinking this is where I belong - cuz I've kissed 50 and s/he kissed me back a couple of times :3femme:
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Looking around the place and liking this Loft. Wondering how I missed seeing this thread. Pulling up an overstuffed recliner and getting comfy because.....well, just because I can, lol. I'm just gonna watch for a while as I sit back and check ya'll out.
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I became a grand kinda person/parent last year when my son married a woman who has a child. He is 16, I think he's to old for us to bond...and he just calls me Kim which is alright with me. Happy weekend Lofters... I am fortunate to be spending the day with many others from my B-F family -- I feel some trouble coming on. |
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... hell no. ya old fart...... :superfunny: thank u ....... Ol jet. for giving us other old farts a hang out place.... hehe :bunchflowers: |
Well hey everybody welcome to the thread...I'm on and off here real fast, getting ready to see the movie Precious. I should say I'm bracing myself for it considering the subject matter and some pretty upsetting scenes.
Y'all have a good day. |
Hi All! I'm 46 yo. This last year has really aged me. Life is very unfair, and unkind, but I am surviving.
I will definitely be back to see my friends who are in the same boat. Namaste, Andrew :hangloose: |
Well, let me say this! being 50 something: I cannot say that I am the most knowldegeable nor poetic about my age! But I can attest to being my age is wonderful! (only if I knew then what I know now) kinda info! Adding a 23 yr old son to the mix has added even more of "wishes"!
It is great to be settled and sound in many ways, but 'newness' is always a venue that I admit I am attracted too! To have the ability to enjoy fresh and open thoughts and experiences etc. is what keeps me striving for knowledge! Please do share words of wisdom and adventures that willl assist me away from the 'rut' that I so easily fall into ! ks |
Hi Lofters, just got back from seeing Precious. I have no comment about the movie. Good to see people joining in the Loft. I'll be around tonight checking in from time to time.
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Hi Jet: sorry if I am outta the loop...."Precious" ? Help me out lol! I am an old 50 something :cat:
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Both coast newspapers and Rolling Stone are singing its praises. it opened in Atlanta a few days ago. |
....... im hangin here about 15 miles north of Louisville KY.. into Ind.....
bored to tears.....:whine: i been reading some postings here........ and i must say .. it makes me wonder how I made it this far.. in my life.... heh.. and the mention of life being unfair... and just surviving... well .. tis can be all true i guess.. and i am sure i could dwell on all that myself but ya know what.??? i am still alive..... and enjoying my life to its fullest.. despite some set backs. its amazing how we all keep moving forward.. its not a matter of just surviving.... its a matter of living and enjoying life and things and those around you. |
Aww yes have heard...being in Kansas the theaters are not up to the latest news or flicks! will take notice! thank you jet......
ks |
45 and getting younger!
:3femme: hi there, I'm happy to see a room for oldies :)
I'm 45, living in the UK and feel younger every day! |
mawning lofters for some reason i could not find the coffee drinking smilie on the list thingie.. http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o...0725080604.jpg |
I'm 45, a mom of 3, a grandmother of 6...and guess what??? I'm still sparkly!!!
Life gets more beautiful as the days go along. |
44 year old butch here. I still stay up until all hours of the night, but I'm much more of a homebody than I ever used to be and I rarely drink or go out to bars anymore. I truly have no interest in dealing with anyone who tries to bring drama or chaos into my life. If you don't like your life or the way you feel, work on it. I've worked hard to overcome a lot in my life and I expect others to try to do the same. I moved home last winter to take care of my mother and she passed away in August. My father, who was my favorite person in the world, died two years ago. It's been hard but I've learned a lot about myself, including how strong I am. I think most of us at this age start to really understand ourselves.
My nephew (23) and niece (19) are extremely important to me, especially because I don't have kids. Unless we are counting furbabies. If we count them, I have a black lab named Murphy and a little black cat named Reilly. Okay, more than enough about me. Thanks for starting the thread, Jet. :thumbsup: |
Great thread Jet. 47 years old and still going strong. I can't say I have slowed down much from my wild and crazy days since I wasn't ever that wild and crazy to begin with, lol. One thing that I have discovered as I grow older is time definitely does seem to fly by the older I get. I try to remember to take the time to appreciate people and things in my life. Also nothing replaces life experience. Nothing. And us older types do have more of it. ;)
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You're right. Sometimes I can't get over how fast times flies. I don't feel like I'm 53 and they tell me I don't look 53 either. lol You know, I missed out on my 40's from being a trauma survivor, and now that I'm passed so much of that, it feels like I'm picking up where I left off. I work out like I'm in my 30's and I'm really grateful to be able to do that so as time passes I can stay as fit as I can. I quit smoking 3 years ago and don't even miss it. Anyway, I feel like I'm 53 going on 35.
Hello Lofters! Gotta keep this bumped up so more people join in. Hope you're all enjoying the weekend. |
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Awwww hell, ain't it grand to be older to remember great stuff? [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PNl5p-TpGPU"]YouTube- I'm Gonna Wash That Man Right Out Of My Hair - South Pacific - Complete Audio[/ame] |
I'm 49, going on 50 in August. I always felt good about getting older and, hopefully, wiser. But, 50 is kind of daunting. I'm told I look younger, like in my 30's. But, does that eventually catch up with someone, and become odd rather than attractive? We'll see! I'm a lot happier in my 40's than I ever was before. Coming out and being myself, and all that, is a great stress reliever and source of energy and inspiration! I'm always looking for the right hangout, so thanks for setting this up.
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Welcome to the Loft, Lynn.
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oh wow.... i can relate to a lot of that..... i think as butchs get older....... they get more handsome... heh that distinguished look.....;) |
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My dear Jet,
I prefer polished, refined, experienced, wise and /or vivacious references myself. Afterall, I have lived beyond that 1/2 century mark. 'The more you grow the more you glow'. |
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Now that is a good one... I didn't think about that tune... but the tune I was thinking about was the old hair coloring commercial ~~I'm gon'a wash that grey right outa my hair!~~ LOL It's all along the same lines though.[/QUOTE]
that's where Clairol or whomever got their Idea..lol |
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