Hello to all in overseas.
 

I have been desperately looking for someone who can relate to my upbringing and my cultural background. I joined some Europeans forums, yet all the people there are heterosexuals. This is nice to exchange recipes, talking about grandchildren, etc. I didn’t found yet , a forum where I can talk about femmes , butches dynamics and honestly to be myself and feel free . I will never be accepted in The United States of America and I accept that a long time ago.

I would be grateful if someone would give me suggestion or to be able to communicate with me even in a different language. I have been working on my state of mind that I will never be able to return home. I can’t even sell my home in the state of GA due to an obvious economy and move to California which was my goal .

If anybody reply thanks so much
Vlasta

Hi there, Vlasta! Good to see you here. :)

I'm sorry you feel isolated.

Is renting your home in GA an option? I remember seeing photos of it over the years and recall that it is a beautiful home. There are so many people out there who lost their homes and need to rent now that it just might be a solution for you.

Welcome to the Planet!!

Thank you so much for your reply Thinker :) and welcome I just always felt I am not welcome here. Honest! I am really in a deep depression what to do with my life right now. I don't belong here and the same time I can't go back to my country. I am getting old to start all over again. I had done this one too many times in my life. I lived in a few different countries, yet I no longer have that strength. I have a need to be myself even if anyone disagrees with my views. I am coming from different society.

My house in GA isn't option to rent. I owe two other houses in SC and renting was just a disaster, more money after renters. I wouldn't get even my mortgage if I rent my home due to a present economy I have very good financing rate 4.1 since I bough points to lower my rate .

As , I am getting old I have some medical issues and as a nurse clinician I am lucky to work for one of the best Atlanta hospitals where technology and doctors are experienced and they are my friends taking a good care of me .
Atlanta is a gay men town. I believe it’s due to socioeconomics issues. Lesbians are much in disadvantage in many cases. I feel it’s so wrong, but that’s the way it is here.

I am sorry that people thinking I am a moron due to my English writing and the same time I do understand. I am equally picky in my language about writing, context and spelling.

thanks again for your reply and being supportive .

Vlasta

Hello Vlasta and welcome. You can be yourself here.

No way!! Don't let anyone chase you off! And if people treat you badly because of something so beautiful as language then here's something real effective to tell them in English........

Ready?

Tell them, "Hey! Eff off d-bag!!"

And then go on your merry way. :D

You've always been a sharp, savvy, sophisticated lady around these parts. Don't let anyone ever tell you differently!

Hey, where are you originally from? Sorry you feel the way you do. Its understandable that sometimes it's just difficult to feel understood when there's that culture clash. The only European butch/femme forums I've really run into are British or German. The German forum is not as active as here, but still if you speak German you might want to check it out.

Anyways, hope you feel better and that you don't let it get you down. If its others making you feel that way on purpose, I'd just forget them.

Hello Ebon. Thanks for welcome, encouragement and stopping by. I will try to be myself. I have to admit I am not so good at. I have a tendency to keep personal things inside. To some people on the boards I come across as a hard, stuck up person when in the reality, inside I am very sensitive.

I am aware that a written communication is my major obstacle and can be interpreted as a negative reply which wasn’t meant to be.

thanks again :)

Vlasta

Hey!!
 

Hey Vlasta!!!

Welcome!!!!!

My Peachhhhhhhhhhh .... welcome (f)

Idea!
 

If anyone harrases you Vlasta you can report it to the Moderators!!!

(((( Wolfy)))... back at ya :)

You are the one with such good heart and my savior always. I will never forget when we met six years ago and you with Mo dealt with my 300 lb suitcases.... lol. What a nightmare:|

Yes, I and you battle on FB almost daily since I have been home. However, FB is full of drama and some people on my friends list plastered on my wall things that could been simply send by message. Needless to say I unfriend them and to be honest I unfriend everyone from community except few that I know of they integrity and to prevent more episodes like that. I do have my coworkers and friends from overseas that they no need to be reading crap like that.

I am not so sure about being adored ... lol ... I was doomed from day one in community dating someone locally not knowing they have a long distance relationship with other femme . I found out almost two years later and I wrote her letter of apology and finally then I understood why there was so much anger towards me.

Anyway, thanks, love ya and see you on FB in few :)

Wow , I am sweating rocks here a, an , the :(articles anyone ?
 

Hi,

I am originally from the communist Czechoslovakia back then from Prague. For the obvious reasons I immigrate to Italy, a long time ago I lived in Germany for year my German is very rusty. I speak most Eastern European languages and Italian where I lived for eight years.

I have done a lot of research for forums, unsuccessfully. Also, I feel like if I was living in a different location let’s say little more gay friendly I would feel different. I am not saying that Atlanta is not gay friendly, but still limited in many ways.

Thanks so much for welcome :)

Welcome!!!!
 

Glad you are now here with us Vlasta! Sorry you were not treated nice!!!

Grant

welcome, Vlasta. I hope you will be comfortable participating here. I look forward to reading your points of view.

:stillheart:

cara

Back at ya :). I know , I know I should listen to your advice back then . I am not even sure if you remember . :rrose:

Hi sexy thang! I know I can report someone even it's not my style. However, I can't say I have been harassed by anyone on boards in the past.

Yet, my reason for leaving before, I felt, I was being moderated lil too much. After few posts I was given advice in other words to shut f up. It really hurt my feelings since there were some that posted things that my hair went straight up on my head.

I will do some reading here and not to be jumping into discussions without any knowledge. I was looking your pictures in gallery and you look great. I am proud of myself, because I gained some weight and I am no longer asked if I have bulimia..lol

hugs to ya :rrose:

My Orange !!!!!! :stillheart: where have you been ? I need to catch up with you .Our regular talks bitching , crying on phone together and much more . I haven't been able to travel a long distance due to my four surgeries on my tumors . I can't sit in car for a long period time yet , but getting there . I would definitelly take your FL weather right now . It's cold here and I don't even want to go out there .

love ya always