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SoberBoi 05-09-2011 08:43 PM

Describe Mr/Mrs Wonderful
 
For all the singles out there....

Something fun on a Monday night....

No holds barred.... describe your perfect partner.... :sunglass:

bigbutchmistie 05-09-2011 09:00 PM

Hmmm. That's hard I guess the basics for me would be someone who is on my level that I can connect physically spiritually and emotionally. Someone. I trust without reservation.

bigbutchmistie 05-09-2011 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie (Post 335981)
Hmmm. That's hard I guess the basics for me would be someone who is on my level that I can connect physically spiritually and emotionally. Someone. I trust without reservation.

Also I love aggressive women who are extremely girly looking

jules5041 05-12-2011 04:45 PM

Lets see... describe my perfect partner...

Ummm...definitely has to be butch.

2. SHORT hair.
3. A good sense of humor.
4. Must be able to type a complete sentence including knowledge of the use of nouns, verbs, adjectives and adverbs.
5. Has a job in the medical field or is a chef or cop.
6. Will give me my space when I need it.
7. Affectionate.

Rockinonahigh 05-12-2011 06:48 PM

A good sence of humor is a must.
Can cook.
Dosent mind some of the stupid stuff I do and can laugh at it right along with me cause being dyislex can be doawn right crazy at times.
Me mindfull if the rest of my idiocys..think absent minded proffessor.
Like fur kids.
Be adventurious.
Good kisser dosent hurt.
Understan I have a fetish for hawiian shirts.

Tcountry 11-19-2011 06:40 AM

wrote this earlier...seems like a good spot to put it...
 
The perfect (for me) femme...

-Is true to her sense of self, faithful & honest
-Appreciates my cheeziness, but doesn't fall for it
-Is sweet & silly & loving.......& passionate
-She has a huge heart, loves affection, is understanding, & giving
-Loves sweet kisses, "us" time, & life's simple pleasures....& fits perfectly in my arms
-She is independent, stubborn, & fiesty...but can come home to being taken care of & loved up on
-She is smart, sexy, & beautiful(inside & out) & has the ability to just say "thank u" when I tell her
-She loves her family.....& tolerates my friends
-She knows my story, faults, dreams, & fears...& loves me anyway
-She can reach the depths of my soul with just one look
-& she actually has an answer every time I ask what she is thinking ;)


Sachita 11-19-2011 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Tcountry (Post 467983)
The perfect (for me) femme...

-& she actually has an answer every time I ask what she is thinking ;)


I love that! I'm always asking that "What are you thinking about?" and I hate hearing "nothing". Even if its an array of random silly thoughts I love to hear about it.


wow seems like there are so many threads listing and describing the person of our dreams. Maybe we need a matchmaking service exclusive to our community here? lol just saying



My perfect person is intelligent, stable, secure and strong enough to relinquish control to me. They don't view a female lead relationship, me being in charge, as a sign of weakness but they enjoy the woman I am. My perfect person is health conscious and spiritual without being a fanatic. We eat organic most of the time but every now and then pull into Buffalo Wild Wings to snag a shitload of hot wings, pick up a quart of ice cream at Cold Stones, go home, watch movies and pig out. They love animals, especially dogs and animals need to be part of their life. My perfect person loves gardening with me and we have a fabulous garden that includes flowers, fruits and veggies. My person loves country living and could not live in the city. its just not an option. My ideal mate is outgoing, spontaneous and playful but also respects my space. They dont get offended or passive aggressive because I enjoy lots of alone time. My perfect person might have a bit of baggage but they wake up each day with a clear mission to bring happiness into our lives. yes, its work but my perfect person isn't afraid of hard work!

Julien 11-19-2011 08:25 AM

My perfect Ms. Wonderful is intelligent, witty/sense of humor, loving, the same morals and ethics that I have, compassionate, not afraid to speak her mind, a woman who listens to what I have to say, not just hear my words, wants to learn new things and explore the vastness of the world around her and at the same time is content to share time together with just us, confident, comfortable with herself and me, and with all that comes a woman who is sexy and beautiful. This is just the beginning of a rich partnership built on love and respect. Those of us who have found the perfect partner are truly blessed. (f)

deb_U_taunt 07-17-2013 12:39 PM

Describe Mr/Mrs Wonderful

Mr/Mrs Wonderful needs to be a friend and PARTNER. We will have each other's backs.


(and front :blush: )

imperfect_cupcake 07-17-2013 07:02 PM

sarcastic
Playful
ironic
kinky
high sex drive
dominant in bed, does top and bottom. Likes a bit of pain.
Bit of a fabulous dapper
adventurous
nonmaterialistic - doesn't care about having "stuff" (house, things, matching plates, "nice" furniture)
Likes new food, new cultures, new places
isn't afraid of telling me off
loves talking with me and trading stories

physically? really not fussed but if I got pick the whole thing??
lots of tattoos - full sleeves, legs and some up neck
little bit taller than me
I love small boobs

I don't care what gender (woman, genderqueer, butch-as-gender) as long as they are fine with being female/happy with it/or at least made peace with it. Someone who ok with any pronoun, even if they have a preference for one or the other (I don't want the evening ruined just because we got called "ladies" at the restaurant or some clueless femme called her "him" without asking. Making a joke and dropping it and moving on is what I do when people make mistakes about me, I'd like the same in others).

I've had a relationships with people who were ok with who they were, accepted themselves who who they were, had the odd blip with gender/body, but generally had no issues with who they were anymore. I found the relationship became about us and less about how small their cock would become if she/they/per held my bag for five minutes while I picked something up.

Although I don't particularly care for being seen as "butch" by straight people (and they do call me that on a semi regular basis when they find out I'm gay, cause they are clueless), it's not an insult, it's not embarrassing and it doesn't wreck my day. I don't care for partners that see being mistaken as feminine in some way as insulting/embarrassing/cause for a long sulk.

I'd also like someone that although enjoyed my cooking, a lot, liked to make me meals too on occasion, even if it's mushroom soup from a tin and some toast. Someone that understands that if we are going to move in together to save some money - some of that money is going on a house cleaner cause I ain't no haus frau and I'd rather spend that time cleaning or arguing about house work having sex or laying in the park looking at men's fashion magazines with them.

:D

please and thanks

Kätzchen 07-17-2013 07:34 PM

The person who becomes the 'Special Someone' in my life will care deeply not only for me, but for themselves as well and equally, as much as humanly possible, we'll think of and put each other first (above all else).

That's a rather tall expectation:
but I stand tall in most, if not all, aspects of my life.

Girl_On_Fire 07-17-2013 10:36 PM

Character traits I want in my Mr. Wonderful:
  • Patient
  • Self-Sufficient
  • Goal-Oriented
  • Laid-Back
  • Good Sense of Humor
  • Gentleman in the Streets
  • Freak in the Sheets
  • Politically Aware
  • Spiritually Awake
  • Protective

Katniss 07-17-2013 10:39 PM

Someone with a 6 inch tongue that can breath through their ears.

Debb 07-18-2013 07:13 AM

Someone who has traits that turn me on/that get my attention........

-Understand that I'm being me
-Likes me to cook ANYTHING; doesn't have any hang-ups about food
-Understands I have "down" time
-will help me get back in school
-understands that I enjoy GROCERY SHOPPING, time at resale stores, books, spending money on my daughters
-just loves me for me.

JAGG 07-18-2013 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Katniss (Post 823507)
Someone with a 6 inch tongue that can breath through their ears.

Great !! Now I can't get rid of this visual . It's not pretty.lol

barnes 07-18-2013 09:16 AM

a femme that is sweet and kind to a fault.
a femme that will accept my back pain and the problems it causes me.
a femme that is honest and open and loves to talk .
a femme that is ready for true love in her life and gets excited as I do about love.
a femme that is self sufficient.
a femme that has passion for the fine arts.

Sweet Bliss 07-23-2013 05:26 PM

Funny, sweet, adventurous, willing to try new things, strong hands, big heart, loves Mom/Dad/family ...... and totally gets me.

The butterscotch topping for my French vanilla.

thedivahrrrself 07-23-2013 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss (Post 825686)
Funny, sweet, adventurous, willing to try new things, strong hands, big heart, loves Mom/Dad/family ...... and totally gets me.

The butterscotch topping for my French vanilla.


Totally gets me. That one is a big deal, and really, really hard to find. There are people who know a lot about you, but they never understand the choices you make or why you do things the way you do, because they don't really know or understand you.

There are some friends I've had who just got me, right from the start. Oddly enough, I've never expected that from a partner, maybe because I assume I'm just too weird for most folks to "get". LOL But it is very important, I think!

Corkey 07-23-2013 06:43 PM

~~My wife.~~

Metro 07-23-2013 06:50 PM

Smart, sexy, sweet, and sure of herself!


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