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girl_dee 04-13-2011 07:46 PM

What TO DO in a relationship.....
 
Ok I'll start....


BE HONEST!

Softly 04-13-2011 07:47 PM

ALWAYS kiss goodnight!

:bunchflowers:

wolfbittenpoet 04-13-2011 07:48 PM

Take every moment as a gift. Never go to bed angry.

girl_dee 04-13-2011 07:52 PM

Make a list of priorities in your life, make "partner" #1.

justkim 04-13-2011 07:53 PM

Laugh... often... at yourself... with each other...

moxie 04-13-2011 07:53 PM

Respect that the person you are with is always going to have individual needs and their own life outside the collective needs/life of the relationship.

girl_dee 04-13-2011 07:55 PM

Turn the computer off, and your partner on.

Miss Scarlett 04-13-2011 07:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sassy_girl (Post 319501)
Ok I'll start....


BE HONEST!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Softly (Post 319504)
ALWAYS kiss goodnight!

:bunchflowers:

Quote:

Originally Posted by wolfbittenpoet (Post 319505)
Take every moment as a gift. Never go to bed angry.

Quote:

Originally Posted by June (Post 319512)
Go to therapy if you're in it for the long haul. There's no shame in it, and it can help a lot when you're trying to figure out why you keep doing the same things over and over again that aren't working.

All of the above plus...

If you are wrong, don't be afraid to admit it but most important of all never, ever forget to say "I love you"

violaine 04-13-2011 07:56 PM

give each other s p a c e .

Softly 04-13-2011 07:57 PM

take showers together :drool:

go on dates no matter how long you've been together

do communication exercises to learn new things

make dinner together :awww:

Duchess 04-13-2011 07:58 PM

Do maintain a sense of privacy. Family and friends don't need to know the intricate details.(f)

Duchess

girl_dee 04-13-2011 08:00 PM

Meet someone before you commit to a lifetime. Online is only half the story.

Bard 04-13-2011 08:01 PM

Talk to each other about everything even the hard stuff
take the time to show her how you feel actions do speak louder then words
make each other laugh
kiss her every chance you get
be honest be true but be kind
let her share your world for she wants to be part of you
never ever take each other for granted tomorrow is not promised
take time for the two of you to walk in the rain
hold her close when she is sad kiss the tears away
AND Cowboi don't you ever forget she is a lady and should be treated as such open her door walk her to her car before work bring her flowers just because
(f):bunchflowers:

scootebaby 04-13-2011 08:03 PM

Be honest--dont sugarcoat or rearrange the truth to make yourself look better or to garner sympathy

say thank you

say i love you

enjoy the silence sometimes

talk about things--even if it means things might get tense for a moment

never go to bed angry--if space is needed at least give them a kiss goodnight and let them know you love them


Scorp 04-13-2011 08:09 PM

Unload the dishwasher

Oiler41 04-13-2011 08:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sassy_girl (Post 319501)
Ok I'll start....


BE HONEST!

Yep; this is the highest priority to me. If I can't trust you to tell me the truth, everything else is pointless.

Glynn

justkim 04-13-2011 08:14 PM

Remember to say *Please* & *Thank you*
Listen and hear what is being said...
Be patient... Be kind...


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