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This one femme (stubborn as hell) stands out and apart and well above all ... She is the only woman I had such strong feelings for ... that I wanted to marry.
Her mind is what I fell in love with long before the physical happened, she has the ability to keep me interested (forever more) in things she thinks and tells me. Then, for me, our lovemaking ws icing on the cake. I was slam-dunked and never saw it coming. I will always love her and keep those good memories of her. |
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We became friends and eventually met. And it was wonderful! Comfortable, relaxed, casual. I *knew* I liked him when he stole my croutons and I did not want to kill him for reaching into my lunch without asking. I left that weekend thinking about how I wanted someone just like him. I never really thought about having "him" because I felt that, looks wise, he was out of my league. So, the foundation in friendship, the shared lifestyle, the cocky attitude and gorgeous green eyes drew me in. Thinking I could never have him kept me in check. His asking me to mentor him in the lifestyle captured my mind. And his asking me to be his Owner won my heart. The funny thing is that the first few times he said "I love you" I would reply with a :) because I did not want to fall for someone who I felt was out of my league. BTW, he hates that I felt that way. :sparklyheart: |
That is absolute hilarity and amazing connection!
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I'd love to contribute to this but he's annoyed me today.
He always say's 'But would you change me?' and I always reply with 'No, but there's bits of you I could happily live without.' |
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Positive Attitude
Great Smile Gorgeous Blue Eyes He really 'gets' me He listens to me Positive Attitude Makes me feel special Makes me feel safe Makes me feel beautiful Makes me feel loved Positive Attitude Great Kisser Kind Considerate Great Arms Awesome Outlook on Life and did I mention his Positive Attitude :cigar: |
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I was in the photo galleries on The Transitional Male website at the time, with a link to my personal website. Stacy saw something in my photo that caught HER eye, and led her to my site. She read my transition story, that included a heart attack and internal bleeding requiring a 2nd emergency surgery, when I had my hysto in 2000. She was very touched by my story, and emailed me. Her email was short and sweet, letting me know that she had been there and was moved by my story. She also said she didn't expect a reply, and didn't want me to think she had ulterior motives for contacting me. I sat and read, and re-read her email all day, and I didn't know why, but I felt compelled to answer her. So I emailed her back, and thanked her for her sweet email, and we started chatting. We became friends very fast, and not long after, realized we had feelings for one another. We were both in relationships with other people, so we agreed that all we could have was a friendship. We just got closer and closer, and felt that we were meant to have found one another, and to be more than just friends. Fate has a funny way of making things happen, and within months, we were both out of those relationships and immediately got together. We were married in 2003, and will celebrate 9 years together on the 28th of this month. We are true soul mates and I am so grateful that the universe brought us together. The things that made me fall for her, are things that I still admire in her today. She is the most honest, gentle, down to earth person I have ever met. She loves deeply and with her whole heart. She is so giving and so selfless with those she loves, and she doesn't even know how wonderful she is.
If you happen to read this Stacy... thank you for the most wonderful time of my life, thank you for accepting all my quirks and baggage, and thank you for showing me unconditional love. I love you back... with my whole heart. |
It is beautiful to sit back and still see the very things that drew you in, even if it is years later.
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Your patience, your love, your gentleness, your understanding, your ability to see past my weaknesses or insecurities, are such a blessing to me. You will forever be... my last first kiss. |
The honesty through those eyes....
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Why do I love my butch?
Striking intellect Strong personality and sense of self Gentle heart and soul Ethical and moral Honest and loyal Fiercely devoted Loving, caring and kind Easy to laugh, great sense of humor Logical when I am not Wonderful lover Calls me on my crap when well-deserved Always has my best-interests at heart Able to communicate on an open and feeling level |
Lover
There are so many things about her.But I enjoy her laughter!You only live once be happy.
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Her eyes I got lost in her eyes I still do I see love and kindness strength beauty .. she took my breath away then and she does now to... she is my wife my partner the mother to my daughter and I was so blessed the day I met her and finally smart enough to marry her
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I love that she's.......
Good with her hands.
Affectionate and romantic. Not afraid to embrace her life. She's a retired NYPD Captain, marathon runner and an awesome rocker chick. She travels all over the world rockin' it out with her guitar. So proud of her. She makes me feel loved, safe and totally pampered. She's exciting and has a sense of humor that's off the charts. She's simply amazing. To finally have someone I feel completely connected to feels like a dream. |
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My initial attraction, most often, was undeniable chemistry. I was always attracted to the person that I either had a crazy spiritual connection or someone that I could totally see just "doing" in the parking lot before even an introduction... (that crazy fantasy thing)..... but that doesn't mean love
Someone who hold my hand just to make sure I don't trip and fall, someone that can hold a conversation, someone who is genuinely interested in how my day was, the person that would be first on my list to call when something really great or even really bad happens. A sense of humor, someone who will dance with me in the middle of the kitchen. An unspoken connection that allows you to just know. A gooday kisser in mandatory. Lol |
Don`t know how I had missed this thread up til now.....? So in answer to..
``` what was it about your partner that caught your eye? What drew you in and captured your attention, mind and ultimately your heart?``` Initially it was the quick and fun banter that we shared and how we laughed at the same things and fell so quickly into step with each other as if we had always been the best of friends....that was a few years ago now. After that it was time and different situations where time and time again Hys love was unconditional, unassuming and ongoing. Hy never had any expectations of me, never pressurized me in any way, just patiently allowed me space to work through many things always being there for me. Due to the distance, commitments we both had I, in my infinite wisdom, decided our relationship was bringing more heartache than happiness...given the endless longing and other issues LDR`s present. And so I set Hym free, go and have a life in real time I said, find a Femme who can be in your bed every night, go out and actually do stuff with you etc etc...I was told gently and lovingly that `it would always be me for Hym`. So we had hardly any contact for a long time...... And now, after all that time and my cancer diagnosis...I found Hy was still there for me, waiting patiently as ever, loving me and making me laugh. Hy is content to enjoy what we have, Hy has taught me so much and taken the restless analyzing from my outlook. And so I can answer the question...that Hys unconditional love, strength and patience ultimately won my heart. I am blessed to have Hys love.....I finally understand that was all I ever needed. :rrose: |
We know what love is but tell us... what was it about your partner that caught your eye? What drew you in and captured your attention, mind and ultimately your heart?
Hmm.. well. I have been thinking a lot lately about the nature of attraction because the saying is that the qualities that attracted you to your partner initially are the ones that you will come to resent the most in them. Probably because if they attracted you then they could attract someone else? With my spouse-ish I think it was that conversation came so easily to her. She was larger than life and funny. She was focused on me - and interested in me - and enjoyed talking to me. We had deep conversations... and I think that bonded us in a way. We spent hours talking about nothing too... It was an intense time! Shortly following that it was her insistence that I was the one for her. She proposed within 6 months even though we were long distance for 2yrs. She fostered a feeling in me that I was the most beautiful and desirable person on the planet. I had a faith in her love that I didn't think could ever be shaken. I loved that she made me feel safe in her love and that there wasn't anything I could do to change it. Of course that was a long time ago... lol! |
beeyotch...
We know what love is but tell us... what was it about your partner that caught your eye? What drew you in and captured your attention, mind and ultimately your heart?
her humour, smile, eyes, gift for gab, wantin' to play games, her mind, her 2 children who became mine. and then not so much when she was wit' someone else same time she was wit' me. bitter much, damn straight... 6 years together gone jus' like that. |
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