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Sachita 02-08-2010 09:39 PM

Did you ever just know?
 
Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?

Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?

Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?

Strappie 02-08-2010 09:49 PM

I guess my "just know" feeler is a bit off.. I'm still single.

Andrew, Jr. 02-08-2010 09:50 PM

This is funny you brought this up. It isn't about love or anything of that nature. It is about my late sister, JoAnn.

When we were at NIH, there was a young girl who was participating in a clinical trial for Melanoma (same one as my sister). We all just "knew" instinctively that she would be ok.

Sure enough, after she went thru chemo and the stem cell treatment, all of her results came back clean. Her 6 mo. checkup - clean. Her 1 year checkup - clean. She was in remission, and pretty much cancer free.

Call it instinct or deja vu. You just know it.

Rockinonahigh 02-08-2010 09:51 PM

Yes I have,but she will never know about it.
Rockin

Soon 02-08-2010 09:56 PM

I was a total cynic but then--
 
...I just KNEW!

(and that took many years of not knowing and/or not settling)

:cheer:

Diva 02-08-2010 10:32 PM

Yes.
Yes.
And yes.

A beautiful and tragic torture.



Just_G 02-08-2010 10:55 PM

I have met a few that have been "the one for now"....and have not given up on the "one", but I am learning patience and having a lot of fun until then! :thumbsup:

Corkey 02-09-2010 12:16 AM

yes x 3 ...

Passionaria 02-09-2010 01:23 AM

Yes, :vigil: and it is delicious, touching heaven on earth. My heart so moved, that I would travel through time for just one kiss.


[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJ1LrJI2U7w"]YouTube- Looking For Your Face -- Rumi[/ame]

Daktari 02-09-2010 03:04 AM

yes, on two occasions - one of them I still share a house with after 12yrs and the other is my wonderful girl, Ingress...I am truly blessed to have found 2 such amazing women to share my life with along the way.

Cyclopea 02-09-2010 03:10 AM

Yes. I still remember the first moment my eyes rested upon her. We spent much of our life together.

christie 02-09-2010 06:32 AM

Yes, yes, yes... and still do
 
I have often thought of some contemporary christian songs as beautiful love songs of adoration and boundless love...

This one is the epitome of how I felt, and continue to feel every moment of every day, about my perfection, Jess.

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hwEhXwJ86g"]YouTube- Born Again (with lyrics)[/ame]

Random 02-09-2010 07:04 AM

Yes...

What Diva said...

Jess 02-09-2010 07:08 AM

That was beautiful baby!! It's wayyyyy too early to be all mushy and leaky eyed.

I love you so much! Knew it fifteen minutes before I felt forever

NJFemmie 02-09-2010 07:20 AM

Yes, on all three.

Softly 02-09-2010 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita (Post 46882)
Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?

Yes, it's happen that way with my current. when I first saw saw her it wasn't like explosives or anything...we were meeting as friends...but we also kissed that same night before we parted ways and my stomach did flips and I felt like I was going to be sick LOL in a GOOD WAY when I got into my car. :flowers: ever since then her mouth makes my heart explode.
:sparklyheart:


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Originally Posted by Sachita (Post 46882)
Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?



I knew I was in love with certain people a couple times and I recall the feelings...
1. the first time he kissed me, he grabbed my hand and looked me into the eyes and we both looked like we were going to cry it was really beautiful.

2. the first time we made love and I felt my body react like it hadn't before and I really thought this was the one and it would be wonderful and stuff.

and then my current lover, who as I said above, still after almost a year makes my heart thump thump and my body tingle with a slightest touch. xo

Jess 02-09-2010 07:27 AM

When home became her instead of a place...

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjky7v7JIow"]YouTube- The Notebook - Feels Like Home[/ame]

Sachita 02-09-2010 07:27 AM

wow thank you all. Sometimes its scary, I'm sure but the most amazing thing is how peaceful I feel. In the past I always would go back and forth, unsure, battling with myself and others. I always had doubts and always always figured time would change this... I should give it time, a chance to grow. It just wasn't complete or elating.

I am spellbound. Literally captured and have not doubted or questioned my motives at all. It is the most amazing thing. I feel peaceful, safe, excited and feel like I'm dreaming. This has never happened to me before.

So again, thank you. I know I'm crazy. We both know we're crazy but we're gonna be slap ass crazy together and have an incredible life. Never have I been more certain of anything.

Softly 02-09-2010 07:30 AM

:bunchflowers: :thumbsup:
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

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Originally Posted by Jess (Post 47038)
When home became her instead of a place...

YouTube- The Notebook - Feels Like Home


christie 02-09-2010 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Softly (Post 47040)
:bunchflowers: :thumbsup:
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

This is why i love hym so.

Sapph 02-09-2010 08:50 AM

For me.. my "one" is standing by myside. From the moment I first talked to her I knew she was different, something I couldnt let go. I remember telling my friends (and her) that I was going to marry her on the very first day I met her. I knew it wasn't going to be easy, and I knew we were going to fight (and sometimes we do), but we don't give up and throw in the towel. I'm her ass, and shes my pain in the ass, but I wouldnt have it any other way.

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNujH-PHXao"]YouTube- Garth Brooks-She's Every Woman(Performed by Chris Tincher)[/ame]

Kenna 02-09-2010 09:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sachita (Post 46882)
Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?

Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?

Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?

...wish I could answer all three...I had thought I did, but it was all a fairy tale dream...

But this was certainly love at first sight:
http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/z...g?t=1265727791

Sachita 02-09-2010 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet&Content (Post 47067)
...wish I could answer all three...I had thought I did, but it was all a fairy tale dream...

But this was certainly love at first sight:
http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/z...g?t=1265727791

how cute is that? omg I'm in love too!

never give up. it took us many many moons... past 50, both of us to find this. Life prepared us, taught us and now we can spend many golden years gazing into each others eyes and helping each other get up. lol kidding, we're pretty spry!

christie 02-09-2010 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Sachita (Post 47161)
how cute is that? omg I'm in love too!

never give up. it took us many many moons... past 50, both of us to find this. Life prepared us, taught us and now we can spend many golden years gazing into each others eyes and helping each other get up. lol kidding, we're pretty spry!

I wonder if the make the HoverRounds in an all terrain? :goodscore:

Sachita 02-09-2010 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by christie0918 (Post 47163)
I wonder if the make the HoverRounds in an all terrain? :goodscore:


lol- we can still hop on a gator! but seriously when we get to that point the farm is going and we'll get a beach house in costa rica with a ramp! lol

Blade 02-09-2010 02:17 PM

Yes to all three, but never love at first sight.

I realize my picker is broken or defective or something. So now when I feel all of these things at once I back up and regroup and start looking for what is really wrong with a relationship if there is a YES to these in the early stages.

Not saying it doesn't happen for others just saying that I've realized when it happens with me, usually it doesn't turn out to be real after all. Like red flag city. Thanks for the lesson. One of many in life I'm sure.

BullDog 02-09-2010 05:26 PM

No I haven't. If I ever do have that feeling it won't mean a thing unless the relationship stands the test of time, which takes two willing parties to work through the thick and thin of things. So I don't believe in "knowing" anything at first sight. There's a lot more to relationships than work, but without it you won't have one. You don't know how much someone is willing to do what it takes, or perhaps also what you are willing to do to make things work, no matter what your butterflies may be telling you. Maybe total infatuation drives the willingness to see things through. I don't know. I actually hope that's not it.

Best wishes to all with those feelings. May your love live long and prosper.

The_Lady_Snow 02-09-2010 05:31 PM

Yes...

Each time I pushed and sweated and my body went rigid and then next thing I knew there were these eyes, staring back at me, and I fell in love.. I fell in love five times...

Jess 02-09-2010 06:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 47314)
Yes...

Each time I pushed and sweated and my body went rigid and then next thing I knew there were these eyes, staring back at me, and I fell in love.. I fell in love five times...


Is that like "mulitples" ? heh.. Love is love, no matter in what form or how often, slow or quickly it descends upon us. We are truly blessed to have it visit as often as possible for as long as it chooses to stay.

(f)(f)(f)

The_Lady_Snow 02-09-2010 06:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jess (Post 47354)
Is that like "mulitples" ? heh.. Love is love, no matter in what form or how often, slow or quickly it descends upon us. We are truly blessed to have it visit as often as possible for as long as it chooses to stay.

(f)(f)(f)

The kids were born at different times....

My orgasms well, them are not about love my friend... yet...

heh:smileywhip:

Jess 02-09-2010 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 47358)
The kids were born at different times....

My orgasms well, them are not about love my friend... yet...

heh:smileywhip:


LMAO.. awesome!

suebee 02-09-2010 07:53 PM

We met on the dash site and flirted for a couple of months. On Christmas day we were chatting online and she mentioned a GLBT dance that was going to take place a couple of days later. So I went. We'd never even talked on the phone, but I knew I wanted to meet her. When the day came I got into the car to make the two hour trip to see her. The weather was NOT good. In fact, it was our first real snowstorm of the season. I didn't answer my cell phone the whole way there, because I was afraid she was going to call and tell me not to come because of the road conditions. When I got there she was waiting outside for me. I got out of the car and walked over to her, and she just held me for the longest time while I trembled, with the snow falling down around us. I knew right then.

Sachita 02-09-2010 08:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BullDog (Post 47309)
No I haven't. If I ever do have that feeling it won't mean a thing unless the relationship stands the test of time, which takes two willing parties to work through the thick and thin of things. So I don't believe in "knowing" anything at first sight. There's a lot more to relationships than work, but without it you won't have one. You don't know how much someone is willing to do what it takes, or perhaps also what you are willing to do to make things work, no matter what your butterflies may be telling you. Maybe total infatuation drives the willingness to see things through. I don't know. I actually hope that's not it.

Best wishes to all with those feelings. May your love live long and prosper.

I agree but that thick and thin is so much better when you're connected. I don't think its infatuation. I know what that feels like and even when I had that there were doubts and concerns. When you meet the one there is a comfort, peacefulness and balance you just know everything is going to be ok. It also takes faith.

A friend of mine told me the story of her meeting her hubby. She also said that the highs were intense and the lows just as intense. Love is fueled with fire. Sometimes a warm glow, sometimes a raging inferno and then periods of smoldering.

If I didnt feel a deep friendship then it would be infatuation.

always2late 02-09-2010 08:07 PM

This is not a story about me...but its true.

My brother met his wife when he was 16...on a blind date. That night he came home and told us he'd met the girl he was going to marry. Of course, none of us believed him and I, being the mature, all-knowing 19 year old that I was, laughed at him. I told him he was crazy.

Over 20 years later..they are still together. They both just knew. :)

Sachita 02-10-2010 06:18 PM

Only two more days!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm so excited. I know, in my heart that everything will be fine.

Thank you for your stories. They give me so much faith.

Kenna 02-10-2010 06:54 PM

Head over heals...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Sachita (Post 47161)
how cute is that? omg I'm in love too!

never give up. it took us many many moons... past 50, both of us to find this. Life prepared us, taught us and now we can spend many golden years gazing into each others eyes and helping each other get up. lol kidding, we're pretty spry!

Thank you very much for your encouraging and sweet response. Your love story, passion and positive attitude really helps on my worst days.

LOL, Willy steals everyone's heart with those big "gotta love me" eyes! Biggest Love Bug on the East Coast... but now I've fallen head over heals for Love Bug #2... Tashi... my new "belly bump" (she'll have to fight Willy for his spot on my belly...)
http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/z...g?t=1265849472 http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/z...g?t=1265849541


Soft*Silver 02-10-2010 06:58 PM

I had always believed in love at first sight, but waivered on believing in soul mates. I felt that there always was more than one person in our lives we could fall in love with so the need for a soul mate was moot. However, one day I met, whom i will call, My Samarai. From the moment she pulled into the driveway, before she came out of her car, all of my energies began to swirl and I felt light headed and seasick. She had come to look at a horse I was buying. She felt it too...we talked later and she confirmed that the mixing of our presences up close had indeed rocked her energies. We became friends and when together, people around us would stop and stare, or be drawn very closely in. Our friends remarked that the energy in the room changed when we were together. Eventually we became a couple, even tho she was straight. Or she had always believed she was straight. Unfortunately she could not come to terms with being a lesbian. We departed...but years later, I met her brother...not her brother in this life, but in the life we all once shared....but thats a different story...

Random 02-10-2010 06:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 47314)
Yes...

Each time I pushed and sweated and my body went rigid and then next thing I knew there were these eyes, staring back at me, and I fell in love.. I fell in love five times...

Isn't it funny how it's different for everyone?

It took me two days to fall in love with my son... I was so scared and hadn't a CLUE what I was going to do with this baby... Then this click came... and he was my baby.. not just a baby..

sigh... remembering....

The_Lady_Snow 02-12-2010 07:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ms Cyn (Post 47949)
Isn't it funny how it's different for everyone?

It took me two days to fall in love with my son... I was so scared and hadn't a CLUE what I was going to do with this baby... Then this click came... and he was my baby.. not just a baby..

sigh... remembering....

I was young when I had my first, so when I first layed eyes and we connected, eye to eye, for me the bond came with the last moment of pain I felt when they decided to breathe in this life.. I knew.. Each day I wake up in a state of awareness that reminds me my heart is literally out there exposed, roaming this realm with each step they take.. One small incident, event and my heart can be torn to shreds by any harm coming to any of my pack..


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