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AlphaDrug 08-12-2011 09:58 AM

Femme Fashion
 
:moonstars: So the Butchs have a thread for their fashions, and how the hell do we not have one for us?! ^__^

Post what you like to wear and how you like to wear it. Photos are good too! Lets make the Butchs drool. <3

http://i1184.photobucket.com/albums/...sInterlope.jpg

I made a comment about 1920's fashion on the Butch thread, and just wanted to share what my 1920's fashion style would have been, this is on of my favorite dresses and I wear it any chance I get, usually without the headband... lol It's a silver beaded flapper dress with hundreds of beaded fringe falling off it all over the place.

http://i1184.photobucket.com/albums/..._6960039_n.jpg

http://i1184.photobucket.com/albums/..._7914382_n.jpg

Outside of my crazy interest in historic fashions, I usually dress in tight jeans with a cute tight fitted top, usually frilly or lacey to be honest. 95% of my wardrobe is black though... I need to work on that. Haha!

julieisafemme 08-12-2011 03:15 PM

Fun! This is one of my favorite femme fashion sites. It is not necessarily what I would wear but I love the posts and pictures and descriptions of the clothes!!

http://fitforafemme.com/blog/

My taste runs very conservative and old school. I loved those hat pins you wore in another picture.

The_Lady_Snow 08-12-2011 03:19 PM

Grunge, leather, boots, dresses it depends on the occasion, place, or mood! Great thread!

AlphaDrug 08-12-2011 05:04 PM


:moonstars: Going out tonight, Town in DC, and tomorrow night, Grand Central in Bmore... having trouble picking what to wear. So far I'm leaning toward the red dress tonight and the black dress tomorrow.

The_Lady_Snow 08-12-2011 05:06 PM

Cute outfits!
 
Love the red, & polka dot is CUTE!!!!!

Gemme 08-12-2011 06:10 PM

It depends on what day you catch me and what's going on, really. I have everything from yuppy-wear to frilly femmie foo foo stuff. Mostly it's about comfort for me.

Artdecogoddess 08-12-2011 06:40 PM

Excellent thread! LOVE this...

I am gravitating towards pinup style lately - its quirkey and cool and I can dull it down enough to wear to work (flats not heels, cardigan over the low cut top, etc etc)

Red Dirt Girl 08-12-2011 07:05 PM

Hey! We're on our way to the Phase tonight. It's nothing like Town but it's one of my favs. I'm in a black skirt with pretty pink sequined hearts, if you happen to stop by. :)
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Originally Posted by AlphaDrug (Post 397153)

:moonstars: Going out tonight, Town in DC, and tomorrow night, Grand Central in Bmore... having trouble picking what to wear. So far I'm leaning toward the red dress tonight and the black dress tomorrow.


MissPriss 08-12-2011 07:08 PM

Heels, Heels and more heels. I am a proud Heelaholic! Its safe to say I have at least 3 in every color ranging from 2.00 to 2000.00. I love skirts and dresses and the majority of the time thats what I wear. lowrider jeans and shorts, flip flops, tons of tank tops most with some sort of cocky saying on them, camo!! and lots of it,lots of black and red, silk, lace I most likely own one of everything that can be found or has been sold in the past 10 years from Victorias Secret..its kind of my home away from home!

cara 08-12-2011 08:31 PM

During the work week, I do business casual unless the trustees are in the office. Once home, you will usually find me in jeans, a t-shirt, and a black hoodie. On weekends if I'm at home, I'm usually wearing a pair of pajama pants and a t-shirt. I generally go for comfort, but if money were no object, I would probably dress up and go out more.

:stillheart:

Soft*Silver 08-12-2011 09:41 PM

I wear riding boots with spurs and thick leather belts with a buckle that would hurt...with my pink cowboy hat

I also have soft sundresses, flowing evening gowns and lacie tank tops

and I like being in my soft terry cloth short sets around the house

I pretty much dont do the younger gen clothes. I am too old and too unimpressed with things that arent designed for Dames my age...

Novelafemme 08-12-2011 10:27 PM

i am also a heels girl. :) this past year i have been on an orange, polkadot, slingback hunt and have found that kate spade makes them in to die for styles!! mostly i wear vintage. dresses, shoes, handbags, jewelry...you name it. if it came from the 30's through the 60's, you can pretty much bank on it that i will love it! if i were filthy rich i would be wearing more haute couture items made by sorbier, gaultier, dior and andre. <drool> but for now i stick to my thrift store and ebay finds. ;)

betenoire 08-12-2011 11:12 PM

Mostly I am going to be pissed once summer is over and it will no longer be reasonable to wear flipflops every day.

AlphaDrug 08-13-2011 01:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Red Dirt Girl (Post 397253)
Hey! We're on our way to the Phase tonight. It's nothing like Town but it's one of my favs. I'm in a black skirt with pretty pink sequined hearts, if you happen to stop by. :)

:moonstars: Sadly I wanted to go to Phase, but no one I was with was 21... except me. I'm looking forward to meeting you in a week though.

There were only a SMALL handful of butches there, and fag hags outranked the lesbians by 10-1. T_T It was awful and I didn't dance with anyone but myself and my friends.

Red Dirt Girl 08-13-2011 04:13 PM

Phase was dead, dead, dead. And after that it was a little more dead. Never have I seen it so empty in all my years in the area. Yeah, as far as I know, Town is more of a gay boy place, isn't it?
Quote:

Originally Posted by AlphaDrug (Post 397407)
:moonstars: Sadly I wanted to go to Phase, but no one I was with was 21... except me. I'm looking forward to meeting you in a week though.

There were only a SMALL handful of butches there, and fag hags outranked the lesbians by 10-1. T_T It was awful and I didn't dance with anyone but myself and my friends.


AlphaDrug 08-13-2011 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Red Dirt Girl (Post 397739)
Phase was dead, dead, dead. And after that it was a little more dead. Never have I seen it so empty in all my years in the area. Yeah, as far as I know, Town is more of a gay boy place, isn't it?

:moonstars: I know this is getting off topic buuuuuuut... it panned out like this, 65% gay men, 25% straight women, 8% femmes, 2% butch. I wanted to cry, there were all of maybe 7 or 8 butches there and I'm pretty sure they ALL had girlfriends. :bigcry:

Botticelli64 08-14-2011 12:55 AM

That is a stunning dress.

Botticelli64 08-14-2011 01:00 AM

I am a dressaholic
 
who also spends a lot of time in long black skirts. Being a goth in the 80's meant that I developed an addiction to long black skirts and black lace blouses, and black mary jane shoes. However I have been known to mix it up with green and pink and purple. I wear vintage and home made clothing and spend way too much time on Etsy.

Medusa 08-15-2011 06:44 PM

WANT.
 
:|:|:|:|:|


http://www.zappos.com/product/7791822/color/585


http://a2.zassets.com/images/z/1/4/8...p-DETAILED.jpg


Ohhhhh, to wear heels again!:blueheels:

Medusa 08-15-2011 06:49 PM

And WANT:

http://www.zappos.com/rsvp-alli-wild-berry

http://a2.zassets.com/images/z/1/5/4...p-DETAILED.jpg

Artdecogoddess 08-15-2011 07:56 PM

@ Medusa - Holy Mother of Pumps - simply stunning....

http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-si...ge%2F10200.jpg

http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-si...ge%2F10200.jpg

LaneyDoll 08-15-2011 08:23 PM

Oooo, pretty heels! I adore high heels and do not own any "sensible shoes." I have one pair of flip-flops (aka toe rapers) that I bought for a recent trip to Florida-they are still in the trunk of my car.

:sparklyheart:

Medusa 08-15-2011 09:17 PM

I love flip-flops and have about 10 different pairs! Some have sparkles, some have Hello Kitty, some are "athletic" flip-flops with arch support! HA!

AlphaDrug 08-20-2011 12:39 PM

:moonstars: On the topic of heels!! I have a problem I need help sorted out or fixed, I love my heels and I love my platforms and what-have-you. The girl I just started dating is an inch shorter then I am in flats... T_T I've always dated girls taller then I am, so heels were never a problem. How do you handle dating someone shorter and still wear heels? I dont like the idea of towering over her... but I love my heels and the way they make my legs look! :seeingstars:

AlphaDrug 08-22-2011 08:16 PM

:moonstars: I went on a first day this past Friday and this is what I wore! What cha think bois and girls?

http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r...2_edited-1.jpg

Gemme 08-22-2011 08:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlphaDrug (Post 403464)
:moonstars: I went on a first day this past Friday and this is what I wore! What cha think bois and girls?

http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r...2_edited-1.jpg

Pretttttty!

Oh, and I want those white shoes with the funky heels to your right and I'm intrigued with the black and white polka dotted thing crumpled up on the floor on your left.

AlphaDrug 08-22-2011 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 403479)
Pretttttty!

Oh, and I want those white shoes with the funky heels to your right and I'm intrigued with the black and white polka dotted thing crumpled up on the floor on your left.

Haha! The white shoes with the wooden soles are called Rocking Horse Shoes, they're pretty old and beaten up, first made popular by Vivian Westwood in her fashion shows, the models fell and tripped all other themselves because they didn't know how to walk in the platforms. ^_^ Some come with thick ankle straps while other ribbon up the leg like ballet shoes.

The black and white polka dot thing is a big Hello Kitty bag, like a beachbag or overnight bag... Haha.

Gemme 08-22-2011 09:02 PM

Okay, I definitely want the bag.

lol

ruby_woo 10-24-2011 09:39 PM

Yay, are we talking about clothes? I spend waaaay too much time on Etsy looking at vintage dresses. My vintage collection has seriously doubled since I discovered Etsy had a crap-ton of plus size vintage dresses.

I used to be more goth, but these days my uniform is black pencil skirt, black tights, high heeled oxfords, and cute sweater or blouse.

SecretAgentMa'am 10-24-2011 10:44 PM

I have the clothes I would wear if I could afford them and had anyplace to wear them to. Then I have my actual wardrobe. I would love to wear sexy rockabilly dresses, vintage 1940's dresses, great big, fabulous heels, all with stockings and garters every day.

In reality, I'm an unemployed college student and I ride a scooter to school every day, and safety trumps fashion. So my actual wardrobe is generally jeans, fitted baby tees, and my stompy 28-eyelet Doc Marten's, along with my pink and black armored jacket and pink helmet.

Artdecogoddess 10-25-2011 08:35 AM

OMG TORRID!

Check it out on line - clearance sale!!!! Lots of fierce 40's style.
Love me some pencil skirts!!!

ADG

Indyfem 10-25-2011 03:06 PM

That's cute!

Zimmeh 10-30-2011 07:25 PM

I normally wear black Kenneth Cole slacks, a cute top and a cardigan to work everyday. I love wearing clothes that compliment my body shape and I tend to buy more pants and skinny jeans than skirts. Working in the retail industry for almost ten years forced me into pants. I have several skirts that I like to wear out to dinner with some really cute tights.

My favorite shoe designer is Kenneth Cole and his shoes are timeless...Ask Medusa who got to see my Kenneth Cole 9-2-5 Technology heels. This si the pair that I own:

http://www.kennethcole.com/product/i...075225.3075256

This is the other pair that I own and everyone wants to borrow them

http://www.heels.com/womens-shoes/sw...-flat-red.html

Weak ankles make it hard for me to wear heels longer then half an hour, so I normally like wearing flats or Skechers.

I also love to shop at Talbots, Ann Taylor and White House Black Market or Target...Torrid is a kick ass store and I still love to shop there!

Zimmeh

Zimmeh 10-30-2011 07:27 PM

While browsing the site where I found the image for my second pair of Kenneth Cole shoes, I found these and I would definately rock them!

http://www.heels.com/womens-shoes/bu...el-cognac.html

And these...

http://www.heels.com/womens-shoes/ga...ck-patent.html

Shoes are my best friend!!!!

Zimmeh

Rivkeh 12-02-2011 03:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruby_woo (Post 445869)
Yay, are we talking about clothes? I spend waaaay too much time on Etsy looking at vintage dresses. My vintage collection has seriously doubled since I discovered Etsy had a crap-ton of plus size vintage dresses.

I used to be more goth, but these days my uniform is black pencil skirt, black tights, high heeled oxfords, and cute sweater or blouse.

...Yes :) love vintage style-especially 40's and 50's

this is one of my favorite places to check out at the moment.....


http://dolldeluxe.bigcartel.com/

Nat 01-24-2012 01:19 PM

I've decided to stop being quite so self-expressive at work and to begin trying to look promotable. I'm currently in a position which requires 2 years time before the next promotion at this company, but I've decided to attempt to dress like a professional for work. This is a new path for me, since I've tended to think of work as something I have to do and at the clothes I wear as whatever I can get away with. Anyway, I'm currently attempting to revamp my work-wardrobe in order to make me appear more professional. Thank the gods for the Austin Goodwill, where I have found some lovely snappy blazers and vests. I don't want to go to work looking like a corporate automaton, but it's occurred to me that my goals in life are changing. I would like to put myself through a sort of self-styled finishing school. I am proud of my upbringing and my class as well as my eccentricity and general fashion silliness, but in order to have a position that pays well enough for me to do things like purchase a home, have children, put them through college one day - I need steady work and a higher income. I want my boss to not think twice about having me in meetings with the higher-ups or to task me with things that require the competence I already possess.

Anyway, I've been reading some books regarding the current "rules" of corporate dress for women, and I may be posting some of this info here in this thread. I would love to hear about other femmes' professional wardrobe choices - including finishing touches and the like. <3

Leigh 01-24-2012 02:33 PM

Well I think I'm seriously out of the loop when it comes to femme fashion ~ I gotta get back with the times :D

genghisfawn 01-24-2012 03:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruby_woo (Post 445869)
I used to be more goth, but these days my uniform is black pencil skirt, black tights, high heeled oxfords, and cute sweater or blouse.

^^ This. And business wear in the office.

ruby_woo 01-24-2012 03:23 PM

I am so clueless on proper business wear. If I suddenly started working in an office that required it, I'd be SOL because I've never owned a suit in my life. I don't know if it's a Vancouver/West Coast thing, or just specific to my company because we're in the outdoor industry, but people at my office wear jeans, yoga pants, Gore-Tex, and flip flops.

I'm wearing a black skirt, a tan sweater from Banana Republic, and flat brown boots and I'm considered super dressed up. /kanyeshrug

ruby_woo 01-24-2012 03:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Leigh (Post 512260)
Well I think I'm seriously out of the loop when it comes to femme fashion ~ I gotta get back with the times :D

You have a large team of femmes here that can help you out! :)


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