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bigbutchmistie 02-05-2011 08:16 PM

Songs That Got You Through Break Ups :)
 
Ok so I have the wedding thread... LOL But, I was thinking.. What kind of songs do we play to soothe our aching hearts when we break up with someone?

I will start... Years ago, an ex and I had broke up, and well, I was completely heart broken. those who know me in real life know this... I played this song over and over again...

Hey, it got me through.... :)



bigbutchmistie 02-05-2011 08:24 PM


Leigh 02-05-2011 08:26 PM


Soft*Silver 02-05-2011 08:41 PM


Soft*Silver 02-05-2011 08:45 PM


Soft*Silver 02-05-2011 08:54 PM

for my one, who has room in my heart even today
 

JustJ 02-05-2011 09:19 PM


Miss Scarlett 02-05-2011 09:48 PM



OK, it was 1976 and I just broke up with my first girlfriend...guess ya just had to be there...LOL

The_Lady_Snow 02-05-2011 09:52 PM


miss entycing 02-05-2011 10:01 PM

killer break up lyrics-
 
Sorry, have no idea how to post a video-

You Oughta Know- Alanis Morrisette

I want you to know, that I'm happy for you
I wish nothing but the best for you both
An older version of me
Is she perverted like me
Would she go down on you in a theatre
Does she speak eloquently
And would she have your baby
I'm sure she'd make a really excellent mother

Cause the love that you gave that we made wasn't able
To make it enough for you to be open wide, no
And every time you speak her name
Does she know how you told me you'd hold me
Until you died, till you died
But you're still alive

And I'm here to remind you
Of the mess you left when you went away
It's not fair to deny me
Of the cross I bear that you gave to me
You, you, you oughta know

You seem very well, things look peaceful
I'm not quite as well, I thought you should know
Did you forget about me Mr. Duplicity
I hate to bug you in the middle of dinner
It was a slap in the face how quickly I was replaced
Are you thinking of me when you fuck her

Cause the love that you gave that we made wasn't able
To make it enough for you to be open wide, no
And every time you speak her name
Does she know how you told me you'd hold me
Until you died, til you died
But you're still alive

And I'm here to remind you
Of the mess you left when you went away
It's not fair to deny me
Of the cross I bear that you gave to me
You, you, you oughta know

Cause the joke that you laid on the bed that was me
And I'm not gonna fade
As soon as you close your eyes and you know it
And every time I scratch my nails down someone else's back
I hope you feel it...well can you feel it

And I'm here to remind you
Of the mess you left when you went away
It's not fair to deny me
Of the cross I bear that you gave to me
You, you, you oughta know

rlin 02-05-2011 10:04 PM

here ya go
 

The_Lady_Snow 02-05-2011 10:04 PM





bigbutchmistie 02-05-2011 10:04 PM

Good Songs you guys and gals :) Keep em coming... Romance has left my house for the night...

The_Lady_Snow 02-05-2011 10:07 PM


miss entycing 02-05-2011 10:20 PM

still no clue how to post a video- bear with me!
 

Cry Me A River- Justin Timberlake

You were my sun, you were my earth
But you didn't know all the ways I loved you, no
So you took a chance and made other plans
But I bet you didn't think that they would come crashing down, no

All of these things people told me
Keep messin' with my head
You should've picked honesty
Then you may not have blown it, yeah

You don't have to say what you did
I already know, I found out from him
Now there's just no chance
For you and me, there'll never be
Don't it make you sad about it?

You told me you loved me
Why did you leave me all alone?
Now you tell me you need me
When you call me on the phone

But girl I refuse you must have me confused
With some other guy, the bridges were burned
And now it's your turn to cry
Cry me a river

I know that they say
That some things are better left unsaid
But it wasn't like you only talked to him and you know it
Don't act like you don't know it

All of these things people told me
Keep messin' with my head
You should've picked honesty
Then you may not have blown it, yeah

You don't have to say what you did
I already know, I found out from him
Now there's just no chance
For you and me, there'll never be
Don't it make you sad about it?

You told me you loved me
Why did you leave me all alone?
Now you tell me you need me
When you call me on the phone

Girl I refuse you must have me confused
With some other guy, the bridges were burned
Now it's your turn to cry
So cry me a river

Go on and just
(Cry me a river, girl)
Go on and just
(Cry me a river)
Baby, go on and just
(Cry me a river, girl)
Yeah, yeah, yeah

Oh, oh
The damage is done
So I guess I be leavin'
Oh, oh
The damage is done
So I guess I be leavin'

Oh, oh
The damage is done
So I guess I be leavin'
Oh, oh
The damage is done
So I guess I be leavin'

You don't have to say what you did
I already know, I found out from him
Now there's just no chance
For you and me, there'll never be

Don't it make you sad about it
(Cry me a river)
Don't it make you sad about it
(Cry me a river)
Don't it make you sad about it
(Cry me a river)

Cry me a river, oh

miss entycing 02-05-2011 10:32 PM

yay for my sistah teaching me how to post videos!
 




JustJ 02-05-2011 10:43 PM


Ms. Meander 02-05-2011 11:18 PM

I often revert to Ani when my heart hurts...











...takes me back to my angsty youth.

Jesse 02-05-2011 11:54 PM


betenoire 02-06-2011 12:00 AM

Not so much a break-up-coping song - but it's an anthem to me. This song gets me through all sorts of stuff.


miss entycing 02-06-2011 12:01 AM


Jesse 02-06-2011 12:24 AM


bigbutchmistie 02-06-2011 03:46 AM


iamkeri1 02-06-2011 04:06 AM

These are the two saddest break-up songs I have ever heard. The incredible angst of loving someone who no longer loves you ...

Sad and lonely Smooches,
Keri






iamkeri1 02-06-2011 04:24 AM

When my much beloved husband died seven years ago, this was the song that most espressed my loss. Seven years later it still tears me up when I hear it. Truly the worst "break up" of my life.
Smooches,
Keri


iamkeri1 02-06-2011 04:38 AM

A year or so later, when my sons had decided to grieve the loss of their Dad by running away and constantly getting in to trouble with the law, I realized I WAS still alive and I had lots of stuff I needed to take care of, so I adopted this as my personal "motto" song. It still motivates me - and it is also a great "recovering from a break-up" song. Good for this particular moment too - I've been sad all night - time to kick myself in the butt and get on up out of the dumps.
Smooches, y'all,
Keri


Oiler41 02-06-2011 05:44 AM







Over the years, various stages. All great songs in their own right!

Glynn

femmedyke 02-06-2011 07:06 AM

Meh! How do I post videos? I'm feeling slow :|

Miss Scarlett 02-06-2011 09:57 AM

After the end of my last relationship some beloved drag queen friends said enough was enough, kidnapped me, dressed me up and took me out. Here are some of the songs from that wild night:








Medusa 02-06-2011 10:08 AM

An old one!


girl_dee 02-06-2011 10:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by femmedyke (Post 279078)
Meh! How do I post videos? I'm feeling slow :|

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ube#post271827

How to post a youtube!
:glasses:

Venus007 02-06-2011 10:14 AM

This song has gotten me through all sorts of things, break ups included. . .

Paul Brady "The World is What You Make it"




Here are the lyrics ...

I knew this African called Hannibal

Rock it roll it send it down the avenue

Went out to see the Roman Empire fall

Uh huh? uh huh?



Two thousand elephants in gold chain-mail

Take it, shake it, make it what you wanna be

Them Roman legionnaires they hit the trail

Uh huh?



The world is what you make it

The world is what you make it



When Cleopatra ruled in Egypt's land

Jump down, turn around, look at what the monkey did

She went to find herself a mighty man

Uh huh? uh huh?



In come Antonio from Italy

Haul it, ball it, drag it up the pyramid,

He never knew how hot a girl could be

Uh huh?



The world is what you make it

The world is what you make it baby

The world is what you make it



Don't start to hit me with your "no can do"

Bluesin', losin', workin' up an attitude

Clean up them windows let the sun shine through

Uh huh? uh huh?

There ain't no happy time without no pain

heartbreak, new date, move on up the alleyway

Pick up them pieces hit the road again

Uh huh?



The world is what you make it

The world is what you make it baby

The world is what you make it

WolfyOne 02-06-2011 10:37 AM


Tommi 02-06-2011 11:00 AM

My Healing Song
 


Anything Chris Williamson



Just sayin' Chris's music has Helped to Heal me, make me whole to love again songs that have been with me since my young dashing bachelor, lover days. She has been through the fire of love and loss and her Ashes album still does it for me.


and for those in need of a fuck off or love me big boy song...

Duchess 02-06-2011 01:22 PM




tonaderspeisung 02-06-2011 01:56 PM


JustJ 02-06-2011 04:19 PM


princessbelle 02-06-2011 04:28 PM

This got me through one or two.....freaking fun to dance to as well.


moxie 02-06-2011 04:38 PM


princessbelle 02-06-2011 04:48 PM



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