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Jesse 09-02-2010 11:10 AM

What do you prefer to be called on the site?
 
Just wondering...what do you prefer to be called on here? What would you rather people not call you?

For instance, I prefer to be called either Tranzman or Jesse. :thumbsup:

On the other hand, I truly detest being called Tranzy, Tranzy Poo etc. :twitch: Don't do it!

SuperFemme 09-02-2010 11:15 AM

i don't care what you call me as long as you do it in front of my face and not behind my back.

Greyson 09-02-2010 11:15 AM

Greyson or Grey. One person refers to me as "Gayson." I find it offensive only because I suspect his use of it is queerphobic. I have no issue with my gender nor sexuality.

Corkey 09-02-2010 11:22 AM

Corkey or Cork are fine with me, but please leave the cutsey shit off the end. I'm not that kind of guy to be calling cutsie names, it may come back to bite one in the rear end. As my wife uses Corkey when she is ticked at me and needs the first middle and last names to grab my attention she is the only one allowed to do so. It's called boundaries, I haz them.

Arwen 09-02-2010 11:26 AM

Arwen. Ar.

My given name is Stephanie. That's what my mother and father named me. Some folks still prefer that over Arwen and that's okay.

Just do not shorten it to Stephie. I hate that with a passion. Steph I can handle but Stephie sends me right over the edge.

And, just so you know, I don't think it's cute to tease me about it. At all. One of my triggers and you will get a curt response. If you are lucky, I'll send it back channel.

Of course, darlin' is always good. :)



BullDog 09-02-2010 11:29 AM

BullDog, Bully or Jules. I also don't mind other terms of endearment when they are good natured. :)

As to my gender I am butch and/or butch woman. I do not use female identified butch- which I find to be very jargony and seems to be used because of male identified being used. So for those who prefer female identified butch that's fine and I will refer to you that way, but it does not refer to me.

betenoire 09-02-2010 11:31 AM

Really it depends on who it talking to me. Different people get to call me different things.

Brandy is always a safe bet. As is Potty. Bete works. Bête noire if you've got a bitchin' French accent.

Never Bran or Brand or Pots, thanks.

waxnrope 09-02-2010 11:31 AM

I chose a stupid site name, and now get called, "wax." As long as it is not ear ...
Also been called bastard, but that is reserved for special folk.
Just call me Terry, if you remember. Otherwise, whatever. It's only nether space after all.

betenoire 09-02-2010 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 184547)
I chose a stupid site name, and now get called, "wax." As long as it is not ear ...
Also been called bastard, but that is reserved for special folk.
Just call me Terry, if you remember. Otherwise, whatever. It's only nether space after all.

You can get Linus to change your screen name if you're not happy with the one you picked. :)

Leigh 09-02-2010 11:36 AM

Since this thread was created, I think its as good a time as any to mention what it is that we prefer to be called. I've used Braedon for a long while and thats what everyone online knows Me as, but since I will soon be transitioning I have chosen a permanent male name that I will change it to legally when I can afford it:

Matthew Alexander

Those who prefer Braedon can still call Me that, though I'd prefer Matthew or Matt if that can be arranged. Other then that, I'm all good as long as you don't call Me late for dinner :readfineprint:

turasultana 09-02-2010 11:36 AM

i get turasultana, tura, tura tura.

all fine. Hey sultana is fine too.

Laura is my actual name. that's fine by me too. although if i don't know you and you say it, i'll probably totally forget that I posted it and be confused for a minute. :)

Soft*Silver 09-02-2010 11:37 AM

S works fine. Strappie was calling me Softie in the chat room which was a new one for me. Like Wax, it doesnt matter here. I prefer not to be called by my given or nick names on the site, unless its in private. A real transgression of boundaries happened on another site when my given and nicknames were used in public posts aimed at harrassing me. Its amazing how web bullies can find cyber ways to maim....

chefhmboyrd 09-02-2010 11:49 AM

call me
 
chef
andy
king andy
baby boy
daddy

dumbass
asshole
asshat
dick
prick
fucker
billy's boy toy (jk)

any or all of the above

DapperButch 09-02-2010 11:49 AM

Dapper is fine by me.

Perhaps for those who want to be called by something other than their screen name, they can put it in their signature?

Just a thought...

dixie 09-02-2010 12:58 PM

Just about anything works for me, from my screen name to my real name to "hey you". Pet names or nicknames are good too, unless they just sound downright goofy or offensive.

My real name is Crystal, but hardly anybody uses that. Even my parents have called me "Jake" since birth, so it's all good. Or Chris, which I'm not a big fan of although I do allow one ex to call me that since she's never called me anything else. Oh, and my mom does have a habit of embarrassing me in public by calling me "Chrissy-poo". *shudder* :|

Most folks usually just call me "dixie" and that seems to work best for me.

MrSunshine calls me Dixie Crystal Sugar, but since he's my bestest buddy he gets away with it. Heaven forbid anyone else call me that. :twitch:


MsTinkerbelly 09-02-2010 01:02 PM

Here I'm mostly called Tink, or occasionally Cindy by those that actually know me...at least to my face. LOL

My Spouse and Sister call me Cin (as did my Mom when she was alive), and my Mom used to call me Cindyrella Pumpernickel :|

Rarely am I ever called Cynthia, which is my name

WolfyOne 09-02-2010 01:11 PM

Here on the Planet, I suppose any name that catches my attention works
I've had people use my entire screen name, Wolfy, W1 (fishinabaggie started that *smiles*)
There are a few that know me and use the initial of my first name
I really won't get pissed online for what you call me,
but you better have a good running start if it's really nasty
should I ever meet you in person :|
And most know, it takes a lot to make me angry

theoddz 09-02-2010 01:16 PM

I go by, and everyone usually calls me "Theo", which is my legal and preferred name, amongst friends and family. I also get called "Adam" (my first name) with official stuff, including my union/work responsibilities/connections. That's okay, too, because I answer to both. :)

Occasionally, I get called "Mr. <surname>", but when that happens, I usually look around for my father. :|

~Theo~ :bouquet:

miss entycing 09-02-2010 01:23 PM

great thread Jesse!
 
it's usually Entycing, if we're interacting for the first time,
but after that, it's Deanna, which most folks call me-
cept Wolfy and a few others who still call me Ms E from way back in the day...
my mama calls me Dee, Damon calls me kitten,
and I roll with any of the above- I'm easy like that!
:)

dark_crystal 09-02-2010 01:41 PM

lotsa people on the site call me Dark, Crystal, or DC. My scene name is jenny pigtails, which sometimes gets shortened to "pigtails." Plain ole Jenny also works. Or even Jennifer. But not Jennifer LYNNE (!) b/c that means you're my mom and i'm about to be grounded or something


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