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AlchemyGrrl 11-12-2010 08:26 PM

LadyAlchemy here...
 
Hi all,

I am new to this site and hoping to make some friends here. I am an older BBW femme, approaching the big five-O...used to be very high maintenance but as I have aged, my need for comfort has crept in. I still like to dress up in full battle gear and face paint but I now see it as dressing up instead of just dressing. I'd rather be working in my garden, playing with the kids, studying herbalism and alchemy or working on a home improvement project than sitting at the make up counters in Macy's.

One of the reasons for this change may be because I am the survivor of a hate crime. It was a number of years ago and I have gone through a lot of processing, values clarification, and healing finally realizing that LIVING WELL is not just the best "revenge", it is the only true revenge. I tend to be a very spiritual person and have been studying Wiccan traditions for almost 30 years now.

I am just coming out of an almost 10 year relationship. Nothing particularly bad happened, we just realized we were better friends at this point than lovers. See, I really am rather femme and she doesn't identify as butch at all at this point. Anyway...I hope to meet some new friends here!

Blessings,

LadyAlchemy

Jesse 11-12-2010 08:33 PM

Welcome to the Planet, Lady Alchemy. :)

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyAlchemy (Post 226545)
Hi all,

I am new to this site and hoping to make some friends here. I am an older BBW femme, approaching the big five-O...used to be very high maintenance but as I have aged, my need for comfort has crept in. I still like to dress up in full battle gear and face paint but I now see it as dressing up instead of just dressing. I'd rather be working in my garden, playing with the kids, studying herbalism and alchemy or working on a home improvement project than sitting at the make up counters in Macy's.

One of the reasons for this change may be because I am the survivor of a hate crime. It was a number of years ago and I have gone through a lot of processing, values clarification, and healing finally realizing that LIVING WELL is not just the best "revenge", it is the only true revenge. I tend to be a very spiritual person and have been studying Wiccan traditions for almost 30 years now.

I am just coming out of an almost 10 year relationship. Nothing particularly bad happened, we just realized we were better friends at this point than lovers. See, I really am rather femme and she doesn't identify as butch at all at this point. Anyway...I hope to meet some new friends here!

Blessings,

LadyAlchemy


~Bo 11-12-2010 08:51 PM

Welcome!! :clap:

1PlayfulFemme 11-12-2010 11:08 PM

Hello and Welcome! Make yourself comfy!! It's a great place! :)

DomnNC 11-12-2010 11:11 PM

Welcome to the Planet!

Soon 11-12-2010 11:11 PM

What a great intro--welcome! :)

WolfyOne 11-12-2010 11:21 PM

Welcome to The Planet
Enjoy your stay, the people here rock
We're a very diversified community
You'll find quite a few people from your state here

Mtn 11-12-2010 11:35 PM

welcome to the site and Hey from another So Oregonian, there are a couple of us here...

Sam 11-12-2010 11:37 PM

Enjoy, great group of folks here :)

Fish 11-13-2010 12:19 AM

Hello and welcome.
Southern Oregonian #2 here.

ravfem 11-13-2010 02:02 AM

:welcome:

Enjoy yourself, it's a great place!

BB,
rav

aldebaran 11-13-2010 02:09 AM

welcome to the planet!

Dreamer 11-13-2010 04:12 AM

Welcome to the Planet

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AlchemyGrrl 11-13-2010 09:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fish (Post 226678)
Hello and welcome.
Southern Oregonian #2 here.

Thanks for the welcome everybody! It is a delight to find other Southern Oregonians here!

Again, thank you all for the welcome!

SnackTime 11-13-2010 01:40 PM

Welcome to the Planet

Enjoy!

bigbutchmistie 11-13-2010 01:47 PM

Hello and Welcome :)

AlchemyGrrl 11-13-2010 06:53 PM

Hi there BigButchMistie and SnackTime!

Thanks for the welcome! I see some of you all know how to post pictures here. How does one do that? Is it a special privilege? I'd like to post my own avatar but can't figure it out. LOL, :whine:

bigbutchmistie 11-13-2010 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyAlchemy (Post 227018)
Hi there BigButchMistie and SnackTime!

Thanks for the welcome! I see some of you all know how to post pictures here. How does one do that? Is it a special privilege? I'd like to post my own avatar but can't figure it out. LOL, :whine:

I believe if you have a membership then you can post a pic. However, there are avatars generated for non members for you to use... :)

AlchemyGrrl 11-13-2010 07:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie (Post 227020)
I believe if you have a membership then you can post a pic. However, there are avatars generated for non members for you to use... :)

Thanks for taking the time to answer! It sounds like it is a privilege that I will have to look into accessing!

Leigh 11-16-2010 04:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyAlchemy
Hi all,

I am new to this site and hoping to make some friends here. I am an older BBW femme, approaching the big five-O...used to be very high maintenance but as I have aged, my need for comfort has crept in. I still like to dress up in full battle gear and face paint but I now see it as dressing up instead of just dressing. I'd rather be working in my garden, playing with the kids, studying herbalism and alchemy or working on a home improvement project than sitting at the make up counters in Macy's.

One of the reasons for this change may be because I am the survivor of a hate crime. It was a number of years ago and I have gone through a lot of processing, values clarification, and healing finally realizing that LIVING WELL is not just the best "revenge", it is the only true revenge. I tend to be a very spiritual person and have been studying Wiccan traditions for almost 30 years now.

I am just coming out of an almost 10 year relationship. Nothing particularly bad happened, we just realized we were better friends at this point than lovers. See, I really am rather femme and she doesn't identify as butch at all at this point. Anyway...I hope to meet some new friends here!

Blessings,

LadyAlchemy


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