Butch Femme Planet - Slower Lower Delaware in the house! :)

Hi, I'm new here - jumped right into a thread about whether or not an unexpected corset would bring a smile to the face of a sweet handsome butch I've just started dating, now backing up to introduce myself properly.

I actually live in central Sussex County, not Rehoboth, but most folks who don't live here don't know anything but Rehoboth so I figured I'd enter that instead.

I'm a 53 year old Femme who is 28 days and 16 hours away (but who's counting?!?) from my ex and hys daughter and newest of three babydaddies and her three kids move out into their own house. I am finally truly alive after 11 years of too-frequent verbal abuse because he can't fix hys daughter, but also crushed because it will separate me from the granddaughters that we've raised - one almost 17 who we've raised off an on for most of her life, and my precious heart who is 6 and is a baby butch who wants to be a boy when she grows up - I've been her primary parent since she was 20 months old but I have no legal rights at all. The newest is a tiny preemie newborn.

In addition to 11 years of emotional struggle, I've had over 8 years of NO SEX, which fortunately has been resolved quite well by a sweet butch I've started dating.

What else... I'm a "low femme" - makeup's for dates and special occasions, high spike heels are long retired, and I have an insatiable lust for power tools (though wouldn't mind finding a handsome butch to use them instead of me!). My new love is roller derby - not skating yet, just being an official, but I'm going to skate later...

Anyway... hello! I'd especially love to hear from anyone who lives in or regularly visits the Rehoboth area. My only butch/femme good friends are moving out of state, and I definitely hope to meet more of my tribe down here.