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kittygrrl 09-27-2025 04:37 PM

Unwritten Rules II
 
......of dating..what do you want to see and what do you hopefully not see in the people you date or see? ....i find my tastes and must haves have changed so much as time goes by...what are your 'nevers' or what makes you hopeful or happy? and i wish there was another way of getting to know someone..It's not hard, on a first date or even the tenth, to make the worse impression...how do you undue it? Can you change their minds or do you have to live with your mistakes??

We all have unwritten rules, please share yours

kittygrrl 09-27-2025 04:58 PM

well...my ideal loves rain and autumn..we share this favorite

kittygrrl 09-28-2025 04:40 AM

if they say they are going to do something - note if they follow through


having coffee(scorching hot)

kittygrrl 09-28-2025 04:56 PM

does you like their voice?..do they make you blush?

kittygrrl 09-29-2025 03:16 PM


kittygrrl 09-30-2025 03:52 AM

be

creative, passionate in what you do



kittygrrl 10-01-2025 01:00 AM

Interesting bed chem

kittygrrl 10-04-2025 12:10 PM

3-6-9 rule
3mos 'honeymoon'
6mos 'facing conflicts, euphoria mellows'
9mos deciding if this is going anywhere


i guess i'm lucky i've usually know @ 3mos is that normal?..no idea

kittygrrl 10-04-2025 12:12 PM

3-6-9 rule
3mos 'honeymoon'
6mos 'facing conflicts, euphoria mellows'
9mos deciding if this is going anywhere


i guess i'm lucky i've usually know @ 3mos is that normal?..no idea

but posting today is crazy!

Stone-Butch 10-06-2025 05:03 AM

Unwritten Rules 2
 
Cellphones get turned off before dinner is served unless an emergency, then off till the end of dinner.

kittygrrl 10-08-2025 12:31 PM

manners matter....:bouquet:

Stone-Butch 10-08-2025 07:10 PM

Unwritten Rules 2
 
If you have feelings for someone tell it like it is. Leading a person on then off then on again is a terrible game to play with someones life.

kittygrrl 10-08-2025 09:11 PM

be kind.........:tea:

kittygrrl 11-06-2025 04:21 PM

loves the cello..............

kittygrrl 11-07-2025 01:39 PM

a Relish forpassionate living

kittygrrl 05-28-2026 10:39 PM

don't make excuses, own it:tea:

kittygrrl 05-29-2026 01:34 AM

no question..
i'm your favorite

grrl

Stone-Butch 05-29-2026 04:24 AM

Unwritten Rules 11
 
If you meet and think you would like to get involved, be honest. Getting to know each other can avoid dissapointment later on. If you like something say so. If you don't care for certain things, say so. If you are asked about something answer with the truth. I would make it fair up front while we messaged that I do not wish to get involved with a woman who drinks too much and often. I do not want to be with a smoker or illegal drug user. I do not like facial tattoos. I myself do not drink or smoke or take other than prescribed drugs. I do not like hearing unnecessary vulgar talk.
I do like honesty and kindness and respect from her and myself. I like to talk things over so the result of talk makes the situation satisfactory to both parties. I would like to have open communication for both parties as it makes life much more enjoyable. I like if things are not up to par she can say so openly as can I .

kittygrrl 05-29-2026 11:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stone-Butch (Post 1304162)
If you meet and think you would like to get involved, be honest. Getting to know each other can avoid dissapointment later on. If you like something say so. If you don't care for certain things, say so. If you are asked about something answer with the truth. I would make it fair up front while we messaged that I do not wish to get involved with a woman who drinks too much and often. I do not want to be with a smoker or illegal drug user. I do not like facial tattoos. I myself do not drink or smoke or take other than prescribed drugs. I do not like hearing unnecessary vulgar talk.
I do like honesty and kindness and respect from her and myself. I like to talk things over so the result of talk makes the situation satisfactory to both parties. I would like to have open communication for both parties as it makes life much more enjoyable. I like if things are not up to par she can say so openly as can I .

Interesting...so more a transactional relationship? inotherwords, you(the grrl) needs to bring something/s to the table that interests you?

Stone-Butch 05-29-2026 02:11 PM

Unwritten Rules 11
 
That would definitely help.


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