[Gemme]

Originally Posted by Tuff Stuff

On a first date I bring humor to the table and I never touch on the first date..and just say I couldn't resist and tried to get a kiss,she has the right to do two things to me..slap me or bring out the taser.Because I believe you don't have the right to touch her on a first date unless she gives you permission.

Excellent point. No one has the right to put their hands on another....whether in jest or affectionately or anyhow....no matter when it is....without that person's expressed permission.

As for first meets, it's a date. If I get gussied up and make more than the usual effort to look appealing, it's a date. It may be a lunch date but it's still a date.

As for the level of intimacy, it depends on how the communication has gone previously. I may not want anything more than a hug and kiss on the cheek or I may be thinking about the best way to get out of my skirt without falling and launching myself headfirst into the wall. There's nothing seductive or sexy about a mild concussion or sheetrock in your hair.

I have boundaries but not a long laundry list of rules. What happens, happens. I try to be smart and safe but I try not to limit my experiences either.